My husband made a mistake.

First, be independent gradually. Don't be a woman who wants money for everything, and make him feel that you can't live without him, so you don't have any charm in his eyes.

Second, don't say that independence is difficult, children are small, housework is too much, etc., all of which are excuses. As long as you want to do it, you will take the first step.

Third, if you say so, it will definitely be useless. Then be strong and don't be obedient and have no temper.

Having said that, I think it is better to be independent. Only independence can make you confident. Don't think about how difficult it is. It is always difficult not to do it.

5. Don't feel sorry for yourself. If others are so nice, they will be out of luck. Then who told you that your eyes were bad? Whoever does something takes responsibility.