PUAs are everywhere, learn how to talk and talk back to me

PUAs are everywhere, learn how to talk and talk back to me.

If someone PUAs you, remember the following words and say something back to me, until he doubts his life!

1. When you say everyone, do you mean yourself?

2. I don’t know the “people” you refer to.

3. Can your words convince yourself?

4. I know what I am doing.

5. I like it, I am happy.

6. This is just your opinion.

7. Why are you telling me this?

8. Then you are really awesome.

9. Why do people always pretend to understand when they don’t understand?

10. If what you want to hear is “ok”, then I can answer you like this.

11. If you insist on saying that, I can’t help it.

12. It is normal for you to only see one aspect of things.

13. I don’t predict the future.

14. When people don’t know, they always have random thoughts.

15. It seems that I don’t want to discuss this matter.

16. Are you talking to me?

17. I should not be responsible for your guessing.

18. Of course you have the right to stick to your ideas.

19. Thank you, I will make the decision myself.

20. I'm sorry for making you feel uneasy, but the way you asked the question really hurt me, and I don't accept the label you put on me.

21. I don’t care what you say.

22. You can count this as my fault, but I cannot accept what you did to me.

23. I understand that you have concerns, but I am telling the truth.

24. No one is attacking you, I am just telling you how I feel.

25. I’m sorry that you feel insecure, but it’s not my fault.

26. You are discussing something you don’t know much about.

27. Just because you don’t remember it doesn’t mean it didn’t happen.

28. Just because it happened to you, you can’t say it happened to me.

29. I understand that you have concerns, but I am telling the truth.

30. You are discussing something you don’t know much about.

31. Thank you for your concern, but this is my own business.

32. Let’s talk again when you calm down.

33. You are discussing something you don’t know much about.

34. Oh, I know what you are thinking. Is there anything else?

Anti-PUA rhetoric in the workplace:

1. My situation is really not suitable for this. Otherwise, can you find someone else to do this?

2. With your salary, it’s hard for me to help you!

3. This year’s poor performance is not my problem alone. I am not the only one in this company. people.

4. I came to our company mainly because of the development of our company, but now that the company has developed like this, I am also very disappointed.

5. No one knows that I belong to this company when I leave this door, but you are the boss of this company.

6. As for working overtime, I’m not saying you can’t do it, but we need to calculate the input-output ratio.

7. I guarantee that you will never find such excellent employees as us again.

8. Go outside and ask, which employee will work as hard as me?

9. Under your leadership, is our team better than other teams in the company?

10. If you are a leader and don’t know what to do, will we know?