Who do men spend their money on?

I think there are only three situations: flowers for myself, flowers for my family, or flowers for others.

Speaking of the first kind of men, I think of a joke. A beggar begged from a rich man. The rich man said: "My 90-year-old mother is old and sick, and she has no money to treat her;" The 60-year-old brother is disabled and lives by shining shoes; The forty-year-old daughter is widowed at home and lives on welfare. The beggar said, "I'm sorry, I didn't expect your burden to be so heavy." The rich man said, "Wrong! I only say this to tell you that they didn't take a penny from me. Do you think you can? "

Although jokes are jokes, there are many such people in reality. For example, some people follow the principle of "as long as they don't break the law" and "die if they are hungry" when supporting their parents; Some people sell their children to traffickers, or exchange their daughters for high "dowry"; Some people classify brothers, sisters and uncles as "messy" relatives for fear of avoiding them. This kind of man is too selfish, I don't appreciate such people, and I don't believe they will live happily.

The third kind of person is the noblest. They have the spirit of fraternity, worrying about the world first, and enjoying the world later, and caring for everyone at home, such as Cong Fei. When I saw Cong Fei's deeds, I was very moved. I also believe that such people must be very happy in their hearts: because I am happy when I do good things, but I can't do good things all my life without doing bad things.

There are few such men around, but it is not without them. A middle school teacher I know can fall into this category. His income is not high, but he helped six or seven children who dropped out of school, and helped them solve their living expenses in addition to paying tuition fees. But I heard that his father was very dissatisfied with him, saying that he was unfilial and even the children complained about him. I don't really appreciate such people either.

In addition to the above two kinds of men, I think most men are the second kind. Their family depends on him, and he is happy because his family depends on him. In Happy Life in Zhang Damin, Zhang Damin said: The greatest enjoyment in my life is watching my mother eat ice, my wife eat chicken legs and my son suck milk. I admire such a man and hope to be such a man.

Explanation: When I say men instead of women, I don't mean that men earn money and women don't. Because I am a man, I don't know much about the ladies' thoughts. I'm talking about a man's way. Women have their own "Tao", so I won't comment here. As for the family where the wife earns more money and the husband earns less, because it is a few cases after all and I don't know much about it, I dare not talk nonsense.

User comments: Waiting for pears: supporting the elderly

1 parents

2. Wife and children

After reading it, it was well written, which made me rethink.

Fat Toure: Maybe in the eyes of ordinary ladies, it should be:

1, children, wives, men themselves

My biggest wish now is to stop running for a living and live a life of reading, going to the opera and surfing the Internet. As long as you can eat enough.

Alas, I still think this situation is basically impossible, because human desires are the most difficult to control. Your requirements are low, but it is impossible for everyone in the family to be like this!

Besides, you are far from that situation now, so why bother to be so early! Live now!

Let me talk, too! !