My friend passed away, should I delete my WeChat account?

We leave different identities on different social platforms, and we have never thought about what to do with these identities if we are no longer there one day. Some people may say that they can still take care of so much even though they have left, so what if a friend has left? Do you choose to keep it in your contacts and see it occasionally, or delete it completely.

@民天下

That woman has been in heaven for 6 years, and I still think of her occasionally! She is a netizen I met online! I turned on the video a few times, but then turned it off after a while! There is no ambiguity, no online dating, let alone meeting in real life! Only once did she say that her husband said he was going to a class reunion, but she found out that her husband was going to meet his first love! That time she said otherwise I would go find her and take her to elope! We all know this is a joke! Our respective cities are thousands of miles apart! What we often do is fight landlords online, cheat together and then quickly exit the game when someone finds out that they want to scold us. At the same time, we listen to the songs she recommends to me and chat about our respective daily life chores!

That year, her daughter was still in her third year of high school. She said that when her daughter went to college, she would become a supermarket aunt! But one time she said that her mother was seriously ill and she had to take her mother to see a doctor. We couldn't play Landlords together every day! A month later, I suddenly received another message from her. She said that she was also seriously ill. When I asked her what her illness was, she got no reply. We contacted her intermittently after that, but they were all messages to each other, because it was difficult to see her online, let alone play cards and chat! It’s also difficult to chat online at the same time!

A few months later, I went to her QQ space one day and found that I could no longer access it. I sent her a message and never received a reply! So I searched for her everywhere on the Internet! After searching for nearly a year and racking her brains, she finally found her daughter’s QQ! Only then did I realize that she went to heaven three months ago! At that time, I really didn’t know what it was like, and I felt like I was suffocating! If her daughter hadn't said it, I really wouldn't want to believe it!

A few years later, I saw on Douyin that her daughter had graduated from college and became a teacher. She got married last year and gave birth to a son this year! There is also someone new around her husband. I wonder if it is her husband’s first love that she mentioned at the beginning!

I no longer chat with others online! QQ space has not been updated anymore! But every year during Qingming Festival! I will post a message in memory of her! From time to time, I still think of her!

Sometimes, when I log into QQ and see her profile picture that will never light up again, I will send a smiley face! Just never heard back!

Who else is there in this world! I will still think of you!

Life goes on! ! !

@Never been here

Seeing this question reminds me of my three-year roommate in the same dormitory in high school.

I remember I was in college for a year. I can’t remember what I was doing that day. I saw a high school classmate send me a message saying that he fainted in class and went to the hospital to be checked for leukemia. I was confused. What's going on? It's impossible? So how could a healthy man get this disease? I couldn't figure it out and I was very sad at the time. I said I should go and see him and ask his family for their opinions. They said he was in a bad state and didn't want to see anyone. Only his girlfriend at the time in our class passed by.

After that, we tried our best to donate to him and help him as much as possible. It took about a few months of treatment in the hospital. He's gone. Startled me again. After that, I saw his account online on QQ, and I had the impulse to talk to him, but I stopped my thoughts rationally. Later I found out that it was his parents who were calling the number. To be honest, I was a little scared when I saw QQ online! I don’t know what happened, maybe my thoughts were relatively simple at that time. I still keep his contact information, and I feel very conflicted. I also thought about deleting his contact information, but I don’t know why I have kept it until now.

Sometimes when I see something or think about something, I will also think of this classmate who has left. Isn't it strange?

May he be healthy and prosperous in the next life.

@Have you got this name?

That is my high school classmate, a girl in the same class as a sophomore. A carefree, cute, and considerate girl who is also great at studying.

At that time, in addition to studying, we played together and lived happily. As fate would have it, she contracted septicemia, and her desk was already empty during class. At that time, she already understood the seriousness of the disease, but no one took the initiative to bring up the topic. When I chat with her on QQ in my spare time, she is still so naughty. After chemotherapy, her hair was gone. She bought a wig and took selfies with it to say, she is still so beautiful. It's a pity that he left in the end and went to another world.

In the past few years, I have occasionally visited her space and seen many classmates and friends leaving her messages, sharing trivial matters in life, and blessing her on her birthday. I feel that she is still alive in our hearts, inspiring us to live a sunny life.

One last thing: the deceased are long gone, and the living are like us.

@武小白

I will not delete his WeChat and QQ numbers

Because:

We used to be close friends We have gone through a lot of things with my partner. This person is no longer here, so I keep some of the things he used as a kind of commemoration and a way for me to commemorate him.

I have a very good male friend who is from Shaanxi. We talked very much and met while studying together. I went to Xi'an that year and met him, but that was the last time I met him. I never thought that would be the last time we saw each other.

He would ask me anything and show me everything he had written. Once he provoked me╰_╯ and mailed me pistachios and chocolates.

There was no news from him for a while. I actually heard someone say online that he was gone. I never believed it, so I kept calling his number, but no one answered. . Then one day, he called my phone, but it was his mother's voice. His mother told me that he was gone. I asked why, and his mother said that he died of physical failure.

What I don’t understand is how someone so young, at the age when they are physically strong, could die of physical failure. Later I heard that he was defrauded of some money and the other party failed to do what he was supposed to do. He was very angry and his relationship was not going well. I think he must have died because of depression, which caused physical failure.

I have not deleted his WeChat, nor have I deleted all his contacts, but I will never see him again or hear him speak.

I think I didn’t do a good enough job. I didn’t talk to him often and didn’t notice that his mood was wrong. I blamed myself for a long time.

Later, a long time later, I talked to him on WeChat, and someone actually responded. It was his brother, and his brother told me to donate his body.

My friend, I miss you and wish you all the best in heaven.

@fanchangpei

My classmate from Huoqiu, Anhui Province, died of heart failure four years ago. He was only in his 40s when he died. We were in the same dormitory when we were studying. He was very smart. After graduation, I took the CPA exam and opened an accounting firm. Unfortunately, God is jealous of talents. Now there is one missing person among the 51 people in the class. His account is still there in the QQ group. I can’t bear to delete it. My classmates miss him very much. .

@爱的attached

I think it should be deleted. From a superstitious point of view, it should also be deleted. If one day, this WeChat suddenly sends you a message, you will definitely be scared to death.

From a rational point of view, if the person is gone, the real person will never talk to you, so what is the point of asking him to use WeChat.

From an emotional point of view, every time you see it, you can't help but feel sad. It makes you feel that life is impermanent and produces negative emotions.

Deleting does not mean there is no emotion, nor does it mean you will forget him.

@Anonymous

I think of my former colleague and former leader. It has been almost half a year since his death. He was a very, very good person. Died in childbirth. I never thought of deleting her WeChat and phone number. Occasionally, you can also check the chat history with her... Unfortunately, her circle of friends is only visible for three days...

@Time is thin

The best classmate in the university passed away , and has never deleted her WeChat.

But later I discovered that many friends would delete it immediately because they felt it was offensive.

But if you delete it, you will no longer be able to agree? How could you be willing to do so?

@上关花下流风

Should be deleted, otherwise you will think of her often and make you sleep poorly.

@omygoding

Stop making trouble... Some people who are not dead will not say a word for a year and a half... What is the difference between being in the friend list and being dead...

@Caishan

I have heard this sentence

"It turns out that the most terrifying thing is not death, but that no one in this world will remember you anymore"