How important is it to fall in love during college? Will it affect my studies?

In college, whether to fall in love or not is not that important, in my opinion.

So, make a hypothesis, in case you fall in love.

Let’s talk about the consequences of falling in love and whether it will affect your studies.

Situation 1: The love partner is a top academic, and is particularly "fraternal".

The so-called "fraternity" means that he not only requires himself to have excellent academic performance, but also drives you to study together and improves your studies. With such a top student, your academic performance will be improved. It is greatly affected. There is absolutely no problem in rising straight up. This is the perfect collision of the sparks of thinking between the top students and the top students.

Scenario 2: The love partner is still a top student, but is selfish and self-centered.

This is miserable for you. He will leave all his things to you, and he will not care whether you have the time and energy to complete it, and then he will give himself space. Plenty of time to complete your studies, these are terrible, your academic performance may be ruined, you may complete the perfect transformation from a top student to a scumbag.

Situation 3: The love partner is a bad student and is addicted to games every day and cannot extricate himself.

Whether you are a top student or a bad student, the other person is a bad student. Although it is not a good idea to say this, let’s call it that for the time being. This scumbag is addicted to games all day long and can't extricate himself. You learn your way, and I play my game. No one can hinder anyone. As time goes by, you will either change from a top student to a scumbag, or from a scumbag to a worse student. Damn it, you don't have any other choice.

To sum up, will falling in love during college have any impact on your academic performance?

The answer is yes, yes!

But the impact is not certain, it may be good or bad.

I personally think that falling in love in college is not wrong, but falling in love should not be regarded as everything in college.

And the person you like may not necessarily be a top student or a scumbag. If you like someone, you won’t just like him just because he has excellent grades. You may like his optimism and enthusiasm. Cheerful, you may like his enthusiasm and liveliness, so whether he is a top student or not is not the main issue, the main thing is that two people will be happy together.

So the impact on your studies is not necessarily good or bad. What you can do is to turn yourself into a "philanthropic" academic master and lead others instead of compromising yourself. Degenerate, complete the perfect transformation from a top student to a bad student.

It’s not bad to experience the pure love of college students, but don’t focus on falling in love and give up your studies. Don’t be the kind of person who gets scholarships before falling in love and gets the partner after falling in love. Scholarship students should not be the kind of people who give up all their studies in order to fall in love. Learn to balance the relationship between love and studies. The best result is for two people to make progress together and work hard for each other's future.