Running away from home, do you have somewhere to go?

The closer people get, sometimes they really want to strangle each other to death. Do you have somewhere to go at a time like this?

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A few days ago, my child’s father came home drunk from outside.

I am most disgusted by drunkards who drink too much, and I never use alcohol to drown my sorrows. Good wine, just a little tipsy, it's enough. But when my husband drinks with his friends outside, each person has to drink at least half a catty. The one who drank smelled of alcohol and was very annoying.

By the way, that night, I went home smelling of alcohol again. I just don't want to deal with him. However, I ignored him, but he ignored me! I was sitting on the sofa at the desk in front of the window. In the past, he touched my head, patted it while touched, "Isn't it me making money, and your good days? ..." No, no, it's endless. Just move your mouth and I won't be angry. The key is to use your hands and drag me around. Totally pissed me off.

I was so angry that I burst into tears. I grabbed my bag from the hanger and wanted to run out. Unexpectedly, this guy grabbed me tightly and refused to let me go. He also said: "Where are you going? You have no place to go! If you leave, who will cook for the children?"

This guy is sober!

Then, I couldn’t leave. Think about it, my parents' home is far away, in this strange foreign town, who can I go to? We can only find a hotel to stay in first. Even friends and classmates cannot defect. First, they are all far away, and second, I insist on not asking for help when I am in trouble. The more this kind of quarrel happens, the more troublesome the situation is, the more likely one is to kill oneself and not run to one's friends for refuge.

Because everyone has a family and a family. It is inevitable that he will be laughed at if he is in such a mess. Moreover, I have never done anything to cause trouble to others. Now that you are middle-aged, if you still can't take care of your own affairs, it will really make people laugh.

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However, I once took in a quarreling daughter-in-law.

It was almost ten o'clock one night when I was in Zhengzhou. I took my two children and they all fell asleep. Suddenly there was a knock on the door. A little daughter-in-law I knew well, with red eyes and holding her son who was less than two years old, wanted to stay at my house. She had a fight with her husband. In the middle of the night, I couldn't kick her out, so I let her stay. At that time, I was living alone in Zhengzhou with my children. She probably found my house because she had no place to go.

I arranged for the two of them to sleep on the same bed as me, and gave her son a small quilt to sleep under. Early the next morning, she got up and ran away with her son. When I got up and took a look, her son wet the bed! The mattress, mattress and quilt were all soaked. My heart is so cold! This guy was too lazy to pee or put a diaper on his child. He just peed and ran away without saying a word. So, I regretted taking them in for the night.

You see, when you encounter trouble, you also bring trouble to others. This solution is to bring disaster to others. So, I can't do this kind of thing.

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It is indeed not a good habit to run away from home at every turn. But when you have a fierce quarrel with your lover and are almost dead in anger, and continue to hurt each other, it is really better to separate temporarily and calm down.

I envy people who live close to their parents’ homes and can go home after a quarrel. Where else can there be a safer and warmer haven than my parents’ home?

Therefore, when daughters who are married far away sometimes have grievances, they can only hold it in. They can neither run all the way back to their parents’ homes nor call to complain, lest the family members worry.

If you are not doing well and are in a different place, you will really feel isolated and helpless.

However, if a person always wants to rely on external forces to support himself, he himself is weak and cannot actually change the bad situation. After all, women have to live up to their own expectations. Don't stay in one place comfortably all the time, which will make you lose your ability to survive.

At any time, we must think about, if we walk out of this house, will we be able to stand up on our own and support a home on our own? This is risk resistance.

If, without this ability, you are not abused, who will be?