Appreciation of Wu Ting's Works

Title party. Heavy taste. Besides, I am a lactating mother, which is why I initiated the topic of "breasts".

Last week, I was the judge of Anhui Chest Model Contest. I sat in the middle of the stage, which is probably the most coveted position for all men present and absent. Girls, with big breasts, dignified and transparent, energetic and confident, show their breasts and waist in front of me, show off their youth and occupy the stage. If before breastfeeding, I will give out my envy, jealousy and hatred first, and then slowly score a fair score.

But after that, my mind was completely different.

"Everyone's breasts have many stories." Five months ago, a man who had been a midwife and prolactin for 30 years told me about it.

Before giving birth to a baby, I hesitated about breastfeeding for a simple reason: I was afraid that charm and youth would flow away with fat milk, leaving dry and drooping breasts to grow old with me. During the Renaissance, women's breasts were once divided into two categories, one was firm and small "upper-class breasts" and the other was huge "lower-class breasts", which were used for breastfeeding and feeding children. Yes, I don't want to open my clothes soaked with milk anytime and anywhere and feed a crying child. It feels strange, primitive and crude! I said to Teacher Gao, "If I feed for three months, even if I am worthy of TA, many mothers will not feed at all." Mr. Gao smiled faintly. "Whatever you want."

Before long, the crying child came into this world, lying beside me innocently and at a loss. Alas, I pushed her into this sinister world without permission. I really realize that it is my responsibility to change her from an ignorant little life into a powerful human role. As a perfectionist, a perfect figure is important, but it will be better to build a perfect life, be a perfect mother and provide perfect milk. The great search engine told me that breast milk is safe first; Breast milk is rich in lactoferrin and immune cells, and some nutritional formulas can never be synthesized; By the way, the great search engine also told me that breastfeeding will not affect my mother's body shape. I choose to believe.

Sleeping for less than three hours, backache, neck cramps, mastitis, changing breast pumps, going to work with breast pumps, flying with breast pumps, going to the countryside with breast pumps ... Only breast-feeding people know best. No repetition, no coquetry. You know that.

My baby is five months old and has been sucking milk bit by bit, which makes me full of confidence and pride every day. I will continue to eat.

Facts have proved that Mr. Gao knows himself better than I do; The so-called keynote of civilization must also be based on the laws of nature. God gave the newborn this stutter, and if I ruin it, I will be immoral.

Breast is the part of human body that can create human imagination most. In the Stone Age, breasts were totems, symbolizing reproduction and nourishment. Renaissance painters and poets painted pornographic images on breasts; European thinkers in the 18th century turned breasts into a source of civil rights. Who do breasts belong to? Baby, the opposite sex, or the woman herself?

My answer is D. I have all three. Children, men, themselves. You say, which woman's life is willing to be incomplete?

In contrast, men seem to live neatly and have no such burden. Aristotle thinks that breasts are one of the signs that women are inferior to men. But I think, on the contrary, it is precisely because of the birth of life and the release of temperament that breasts are the bridge for women to cross heaven faster than men!

College entrance examination composition: be more direct

A long ladder stands in the corridor between buildings at any time, and passers-by are struggling to break free from their arms. They want to go first, lest the long ladder fall down and crack their brains. Although there is a sign of "pay attention to safety", the scarlet letter seems to be more dazzling, like a red light at a crossroads to stop you from moving forward, and like a bloody notice to tell you to stay away quickly, otherwise the consequences will be at your own risk ... Let's get this straight! Just put the ladder horizontally, and the building will be less scary and cleaner? "Please put the ladder horizontally when not in use", or this sign is good, direct, honest, thoughtful and useful.

In our live news program, we collect our own news every day. Day after day, journalists have to travel long distances, stay up late and work overtime, racking their brains. In addition to all kinds of hard work, they have to bear the responsibility of heavy cameras and protecting machines. If there is any damage, compensation must be made. Often walk by the river, where can I get my shoes wet? Memorize it every day, there is always a chance for a huge guy to click it off, so experienced old reporters will tell newcomers: "Put it on the ground directly after use."

"Put it directly on the ground" also inspired me. When my children just learn to turn over, they roll every day, looking for the pleasure of being the first person. A 2-meter *2-meter big bed is enough for adults to indulge, but not enough for children to have fun. Every time I leave for a few seconds and go to the toilet to braid my hair and get a magazine, I always worry about the sound of "dong-"and the sound of "wow-"that comes with it. Later, I opened up a world directly on the living room floor and put her on the ground, and the chance of injury plummeted.

When "The Queen of the Palace" became an instant hit, "Zhen Xuan Style" became popular on the Internet. First, I said a bunch of quaint and wordy words, and then a modern Chinese translation: "Speak human words-". Netizens had a good time, enjoying the fun of scheduling words and watching jokes between "beating around the bush" and "being straightforward".

"Speaking human words" has a wide range of applications. When writing an article, whether you express your thoughts directly or make detailed reasoning, don't leave your schoolbag and show it off blindly. There are three boxes and three articles outside the conference, which are more complicated than the doors, families and species of biology. Said a few key points. I can't break them all with my fingers and toes. If you think about it carefully, it's all fake and empty. It was really useless, so the whole audience was asleep and woke up just to applaud the meeting. The host's job is to talk. He must talk to others. Looking good is a plus item, and what is the embodiment of professional quality. If you don't know what you are talking about, how can the audience benefit and be happy? People talk, people listen and love to hear for a long time.

Speaking human words is more technical than formatting. For our host, speaking human words means speaking clearly and in detail in the program, and talking to the other person's heart. Bai Yan Song asked himself, "Speak human words and pay attention to people, just like individuals." In the investigation of the murder of an overseas student in China, University of Southern California, I admire Chai Jing's words, "When two young overseas students were innocently victimized, some lost their children, others lost their friends, and these two people lost their love and life from the beginning. In the face of such losses, people should not consume disasters and deaths, but should share the responsibility, try their best to comfort, ask for responsibility and ask for protection. " The words are simple, but profound, revealing sincere concern and regret, as well as media people's reflection on events, stakeholders and their own responsibilities.

Be direct, so that people will be closer, life will be more convenient, the world will be more peaceful and everything will be better.

Microscopic Japan

The meaning of travel is meaningful.

Every time I finish my trip, it's like waking up from a dream. I lost and lamented, because the completely different world in my dream is no longer within my reach and belongs to me; But I am very calm, because the atmosphere in my dream is really projected into real life, which has influenced and changed my knowledge, views, atmosphere and direction.

Before I went to Japan, I had many worries. Because we will go to the disaster-stricken areas in northeastern Japan for an exchange visit, there are traces of earthquake and tsunami, and there are more or less but certain radiation values, which means trauma and uncovering the shadows of scars, death and fear. Because of special historical reasons, Sino-Japanese relations are also tense and delicate. I'm worried about whether Japanese officials and people are friendly to us or just friendly. Because of the language barrier, and because the gap between civilizations is obvious but unpredictable, I'm afraid I can't find my place, I'm at a loss, and my gas field is weak.

So not long after landing, I felt kind when I saw a white buddy. Look, like me, he is not Japanese. He speaks English, but he runs a long distance in this street.

The tour guide and interpreter is Miki, a China girl who has lived in Japan for 19. I got on the bus, looked at the scenery outside the window and listened to her gossip about Japan. It turns out that NHK doesn't broadcast advertisements, and its income depends on the government's full allocation. It turns out that Japanese dramas generally have only 12 or 13 episodes, which is not quite the same as the huge history of our country. It turns out that Japanese sister-in-law is in love, and she is almost a teenager. There are too many articles about Ma Yili.

I have long heard that Japan is very clean, and I was soon shocked by the facts. There are often big trucks pulling goods passing by us on the road. I glanced at the open carriage and quickly thought of the bedroom floor I had just cleaned at home before going out for a long trip. Since then, my eyes have never left the window. Cars, large and small, were driving silently, including for the next eight days, and I didn't seem to hear a whistle; Body, all clean and bright, I turned to ask Miki, how often do the Japanese wash the car? Miki said, "Some people who like car washing very much will do it once a week, and ordinary people will do it once a month." Okay, let's not say anything.

The street is so spotless, but there is no shadow of trash can in the whole street. I heard a story about a China tourist who borrowed a nail clipper from a Japanese passerby. Before the other party lent it out, he decisively poured the broken nails in the knife box into his brand-name handbag. This shows that, on the one hand, the number of garbage cans in Japan is outrageous, and on the other hand, there are few garbage cans, so the Japanese will never throw garbage on the ground. There are fewer trash cans, which may facilitate centralized management and garbage sorting. In short, I felt extremely uncomfortable for the next few days. Whenever I see a trash can, I am as ecstatic as finding a pool of water in the desert, a toilet in Tibet, a standard answer in the exam and a year-end award in the moonlight.

At least it's not a trash can, at most it's not a vending machine. In particular to a beverage vending machine. Why do vending machines exist vigorously and tenaciously in Japan? Miki proudly said that Japan is one of the best in the world because of its good public security.

Our bus runs along the left side of the road, which is very fast, because the driver will not worry about a battery car being plugged into the fast lane or being suddenly crossed by pedestrians at the red light on the side. Sticking to the glass window, I am delighted to see more and more recognizable elements, such as friendly traditional Chinese characters, the international brand LOGO on the building, which is similar to the long queue at the ticket office in the Spring Festival travel rush craze-Miki said that this is a Japanese lottery ticket, and they all believe in a certain window, so the queue becomes very long. The whole car laughed. I also relaxed and began to enter the state, using my camera, pen and paper to record and carefully observe my feelings about Japan with my mind.

Japan welcomes me.

In Japan, two girls were the first to welcome our China youth delegation. One is Emi, gentle as water. She comes from the International Exchange Service Center, the organizer of this exchange visit, and her father, Mr. Okamoto Li Xiong, is the chairman of this organization. Okamoto is half of China descent, and there is no obstacle to communicate with us, and he is humorous and sincere; However, he said that a few days after receiving the task, his daughter Emi broke out in a rash because she was worried about whether she would get a bad review and her Chinese was not good enough, and it didn't disappear until the night before we arrived.

And 19 Miki, a Beijing girl studying in Japan, is our tour guide and translator. She went to college in Japan, became a Japanese citizen, and married a Japanese husband. She is fluent in Japanese and polite. Like most Japanese girls, she is used to standing slightly inside because she has been kneeling on tatami for a long time.

Two girls, just eight days, gave us enough warmth and touch for a lifetime.

There are 29 people in our group C, one doesn't eat fish and the other doesn't eat pork. They greeted all the restaurants in advance, and finally achieved foolproof. Due to the full schedule, we are on the road almost every day, changing hotels. Hotels soaked by the tsunami are single rooms, tatami is triple rooms, and more are double rooms. How to unlock the hotel, which one has wifi and which home network cable, when to have a meeting and eat, and what level of formal attire to wear tomorrow, will repeatedly tell them in advance. As time goes on, people have more and more luggage. They took the initiative to find a hotel to pack boxes for people in need and weigh their luggage to avoid overloading us when we checked in. They always think more than ourselves, step faster and do well for us in advance. Really, I haven't felt this warmth for a long time. I gave Emi a big hug and almost cried when I left. And because Miki was busy packing for everyone, she couldn't see her again until she passed the security check, so she said goodbye.

From them, I got a signal: Japan welcomes me and welcomes me to come again, which is worth my coming again.

When communicating with Aomori educators, the receptionist hand-painted many beautiful boards, held them high, and kept turning pages during the explanation, on which were written the explanation summary, precautions and greetings in Chinese and Japanese. They also found a girl who taught herself Chinese as an interpreter among the staff of their own unit. They worry that if we don't bring our own translators, we won't understand.

When meeting the tourists in Aomori, we were greeted by a large exhibition board with the words "Welcome to Aomori" written in Chinese, and the names of 29 members were neatly coded below.

I don't know Japanese at all, but after a few days, I'm not afraid to go shopping. After asking the way several times, I came to several conclusions. First, the Japanese are all living Lei Feng, who will not only point out the maze, but also take the trouble to say that you know, or take you directly for a while; Second, although Japanese English is difficult to understand, men, women and children all know some English, and with body language, you won't lose.

There is also a little story I experienced. One day we stayed in a remote hotel. It's nearly twelve o'clock at night. I finished washing and got ready for bed. I found that the contact lens care solution was used up, and I was anxious. Ask the front desk where there is a 24-hour shop. The front desk says we have a car to take you there. It will take three minutes. It will take 15 minutes if you go by yourself. I asked how much it cost, and the other party said it was free, which is what we should do. So a few seconds later, a big man rubbing his eyes was called out. Being woken up at work in the middle of the night is still a small matter that the other party can solve by itself. Anyone who puts this matter aside will be annoyed by those who complain lightly. I am sincerely sorry, too. But the driver was very kind, opened the car door for me, chatted with me in simple English, and sent me to my destination in one minute. It turned out that the place was not far away, and the receptionist imagined the greatest difficulty for me and put the service in place directly. After buying the nursing liquid, I was once again surprised to find that the driver was standing straight in front of the open car door waiting for me. Then, he sent me back to the hotel, opened the car door for me and bowed good night. I don't know how to express my flattered and grateful feelings. Just keep bowing back and forth and thank each other in Japanese.

I want to lament that Japan's service industry is really not simple. I have always understood "service" as "welcome to come again", but they know that we will not come again, but they still do their best. This is not only related to the service industry, but also to the sense of responsibility, kindness and national quality that have been deeply rooted in the Japanese bones. This incident moved me, moved me, and made me sit up and take notice of Japan. Just 150 years ago, during the Westernization Movement, there was a saying that "learning from foreigners and constantly striving for self-improvement", which is the truth of any historical period, so I want to record all the wonderful things I felt in Japan and share them with you of every compatriot.

Details of self-love

In the last article, I said: Japan welcomes me. You might say: plagiarism. In the original words, ask Beijing to welcome you.

Yes, the Beijing Olympic Games and the Shanghai World Expo, in a specific period, built beautiful venues, planted flowers along the road, tackled the construction of spiritual civilization, and then opened the door to welcome guests, which was extremely sincere. But behind closed doors, do parents care for the people? Do the members of this big family love each other? Do we love ourselves enough?

During my few days in Japan, I witnessed countless details of Japanese self-love.

At yesterday's training meeting, we learned some China and Japanese opinion polls about each other. One of the problems is the Japanese people's understanding of China's social system, which ranks in order of socialism, totalitarianism and militarism. What puzzles me is that our motherland should take militarism as its border. In the eyes of China people, you are a militarist.

I didn't know some information until I came. For example, in Japan, all film and television works are absolutely not allowed to have war scenes, in order to protect children. I seem to know something about their choice. Think about the bloody fragments in war movies, from small to large, but we are used to it; Think about our soldiers Zhang Ga, Pan Dongzi and Wang Erxiao. They are all children who witnessed the war, children!

The Japanese really take care of their children. We visited Aomori Library, where there is a special children's reading room, which is clean, bright, colorful, with books, tables and chairs, and plush toys. Every week, there are half-day dedicated volunteers to tell stories for children.

Japanese parents have to work like China's parents, but Japanese grandparents are not like China's grandparents. Their idea is that you gave birth to the child, and I have no right to interfere and I am not responsible. So parents have to entrust their children to kindergartens when they are six months old. Fortunately, they are 100% assured of their kindergarten. As a mother, I really envy this point in Japan, because my own column has exposed the news that children eat bad fruit for their children and kindergartens seal their mouths with transparent glue.

A friend of mine asked me to do a public welfare project in Anhui: the maternal and child room. In China, I have only seen maternity rooms in some airports and IKEA stores, but in Anhui Province, the number I know is zero. When I breast-feed, the biggest worry is inconvenience: when I go to work, I look for empty rooms everywhere, and finally I always hide in the corner of a poorly locked conference room to secretly suck milk; When taking children shopping, even as a public figure, they are forced to breastfeed in the corner of the restaurant in public. My mother-in-law covered me with a scarf at that time. So since I came to Japan this time, I have been paying special attention to the pattern of maternal and child rooms here. Its frequency of appearance in public places such as shopping malls is almost flush with that of toilets, and it is even more exquisite when you push the door: curtains, a row of soft leather seats, two cribs with safety buckles, power supply, water heater, tap water disinfection filter, hand sanitizer, toilet paper, trash can and, of course, a perfect door lock. The streets of Japan are full of parents with babies on their chests, because it is convenient to take care of children everywhere. On 20 12, Yang Lan submitted a proposal to set up a mother-infant room in public places in China, which can improve the breastfeeding rate, extend the breastfeeding time, enhance the national physique, and is also a respect for women and mothers in civilized society. The gap between the two civilizations is highlighted in the maternal and child room.

Of course, the Japanese love themselves, not only flowers and hopes, but also old people and women. If you need an old man, a woman, or a child, you can get preferential tax cuts. A small movie ticket costs 1500 yen, but if you are a couple over 50, an elderly person over 60, or a girl on Wednesday's Girls' Day, you only need to spend 1000 yen.

Public toilets in Japan are definitely worth mentioning. It is said that Li Weixi has been installed in Japanese public toilets, so you can clean your body directly after going to the toilet. I personally have confirmed this; The new findings are: "Li Weixi" also has a sound cover key to cover the indecent sound; There are also detergents for cleaning toilets and their instructions for use; There is a fixed seat for placing the baby in front of your eyes; Toilet paper always hangs two rolls and leaves two rolls; Not every kind of paper can be used as toilet paper. It must be dissolved in water within 100 second to ensure that it does not block the toilet, so as to meet the standard. There are buttons, icons and notices on the wall. Even for the first time, I will never feel embarrassed or confused. God, even the bathroom is so high and meticulous. Isn't this the legendary impeccable?

Japanese people attach importance to safety, which is called natural anxiety. Almost all office buildings in residential buildings will see a red inverted triangle sign on the top glass window, which means that if there is a fire in this building, you can smash this window, so you are not allowed to put things under this window at ordinary times. On the roadside, words such as "the place where the fatal accident occurred" and "confirm the left and right (before crossing the road)" can be seen everywhere. "No crosscutting" and other traffic warnings. More importantly, everyone can follow this.

Japan has an orderly management and a strong sense of public morality, which can be seen from urban traffic. Although Tokyo is an international metropolis, the streets may be narrower than you think, but I don't seem to have seen traffic jams or even heard the whistle. Pedestrians on the road obey the rules, so the road is smooth; More importantly, the government encourages everyone to take public transportation, so taxi fares and private car parking fees are expensive; The subway network is extremely rich and cheap.

On the day I left, I saw the same picture of long-distance running on the streets of Tokyo as when I first landed. However, this time it is an extremely large team, with men, women and children in black and white and yellow. 100 people are looming in the evening green, harmonious and beautiful. Why are they so keen on long-distance running? Because a large group of people can freely appear in the streets; Because their air is fresh and the roads are quiet; Because they love life and themselves.

On the happiness index of Japanese people

Friends who have been to Japan will sigh: the price is really high. What concept? A watermelon costs 70 yuan RMB, and a KFC classic set meal costs more than 60 RMB. Take a taxi, the starting price is 660 yen, more than 50 yuan, the blink distance is 4000 yen, more than 300 yuan. So buying gifts for friends in Japan made me grin. So should local brands be cheap? Don't! When I went to the electric city to see the micro-order, I found that the price of electronic products made in Japan was similar to that of Taobao in China, and the language set in the machine was only Japanese, not even English! Japanese, how much do you want to earn from international friends? ! On the contrary, the more local products in Japan, the higher the price; On the contrary, imported goods are cheap, and American goods and European goods are not as good as Japanese goods. This is the opposite of China. Because the Japanese all agree that things made in Japan are the best. Is it expensive? Of course!

So, are Japanese wages high? At the farewell dinner hosted by the Japanese government for us, I met Ms. Eiko Zhongshan, whose ancestral home is Shandong, China. She lived in Japan for 30 years, founded and operated a large travel agency, and undertook many exchange visits between Chinese and Japanese officials and large enterprises. She just got a work visa for a girl in Northeast China and offered her a monthly salary of 200,000 yen, which is 16000 RMB. However, there is not much left, so we have to rent a house to eat.

At night in Tokyo, there are many men in suits and ties lying on the ground sleeping on street corners, and their briefcases are used as pillows or thrown aside. It is said that they are under too much pressure and will be despised by their wives if they go home too early. At this point, we China men are strong, not only can drink well, but also can fall at home. In other words, this is a scene in Tokyo. Of course, it is also because of Japan's good public security. My buddy was robbed in another country, and I dare not sleep second in my life. A friend of mine, who works in a provincial office in Japan, knows the living conditions of both countries very well. Seeing this street scene, I asked him, do you think your happiness index is higher or that of Japanese men? For a long time, I replied: Let's be China men.

Perhaps because of his superior life, he can't represent the voice of the majority of China office workers; Maybe he's right. Japanese men's depression is reflected in the streets, in buildings and outside buildings.

Although Japanese men are under great pressure to support their families, whether you are a newly graduated child or the boss of a large enterprise, once you have an elderly person to support and a full-time housewife or child to take care of, you can reduce taxes to a certain extent. This humanized policy is so considerate. When Japanese men maintain their dignity, they don't have to hit their faces or get fat, and the price is too high.

Contemporary Japanese women are getting more and more proud. They no longer go to the door to meet their husbands after work as in the past, or just wait at home piously until late at night. After marriage, they may temporarily listen to their husbands and take care of the family affairs, but they will go back to work after a year or two. The elderly in Japan are the happiest group. Many of them made a fortune by speculating in stocks in their early years, and then they all lived leisurely and cleaned themselves up all day.

Due to the lack of confidence in the future economic and energy situation, more and more Japanese people don't like having children. It can be seen from the age of flight attendant JAL that Japan's aging population has reached the "most dangerous moment". So all kinds of benefits to encourage children are rolling in. For example, Softbank gives a subsidy of 65,438+0,000 yen to give birth to a child, and reduces the pressure of raising children for employees in the form of rewards.

Ms. Eiko Zhongshan also has a say in how high the happiness index of Japanese people is. She said that when she started her business in Japan 30 years ago, at first, the family moved around and the language was unreasonable. Then, all kinds of new circles were established, new ideas were challenged, and new rules were adapted ... Although she stumbled all the way, there were rules to follow. At the same time, she also said that whenever receiving activities between China and Japan, it is often difficult and unpredictable to deal with China, such as various hidden rules, such as inefficiency, indifference, personal gifts and other keywords. And these, as a middleman, as a Japanese, she always chooses not to talk about China.

She said: It is hard in Japan, but the heart is not bitter. Those of us who have come out can never go back.

Happiness index should be calculated according to different social environments, different people and different requirements, and we should be aware of it.

Understand before you love or hate.

When I said something in Weibo, when I arrived in Japan, the comments immediately jumped on me. Why go to that place?

I posted some detailed maps of Japanese restrooms on Weibo, and some netizens began to educate me that you should be patriotic and not idolize foreign things.

Although these netizens are a little extreme, I choose to understand and tolerate. Many people around me, including myself, even if they know that Japan has a hundred good things, they will label Japan from suspicion to hatred because of a rift.

Bai Yan Song said in the feature film "Watching the Sun in Yan Song": "Before you love and hate, you should know about it first."

Fortunately, I have the opportunity to understand, so I deeply agree with this sentence.

There is a Yoshinoya near Ginza, and the store is super crowded. The taste of beef rice is not much different from that of Yoshinoya in China, but we eat it first and then pay the bill here. There I met Mr. Lin, a native of Fujian, China. He worked in Japan for ten years and just submitted his application for naturalization. He mentioned that by chance, he came to work in a Japanese company. At first, he resisted, because of the well-known history of Japanese people, and he was also worried, because Sino-Japanese relations have always been very delicate. Later, it took him six years to let go of an emotion called hatred. Because the system here, the people here, the city here, the scenery here and everything here are constantly instilling friendly and gentle signals into him ... We talked a lot, and when we said goodbye, he solemnly made a request to me: You work in the media, can you help us Japanese do more publicity? We all love our motherland very much, but we also like Japanese books. The Japanese are really friendly to us.

Yes, I have resorted to many written and oral details about Japanese friendliness, self-esteem and self-love. But even if this is not enough, I want to talk about how the Japanese, as human beings, face natural disasters. As human beings, we should unite, help each other, understand and learn, and put love and hate behind us.

The post-disaster reconstruction of Sendai Airport is one of the tasks of our trip. When I stood in the lobby of Sendai Airport, I looked up and saw that the 3.02-meter water level line marked on the post had swallowed up the airport. I'm silent and scared. What kind of doomsday scene happened here last spring? In the video, there are crazy waves coming in, planes, cars and containers are washed apart like dirt, and everyone is screaming for their lives ... The so-called disaster is so decisive.

Only half a year later, the airport was rebuilt and its ability to resist disasters was strengthened-the brand-new Sendai Airport once again welcomed domestic and foreign tourists and won our respect.

When the staff told us all this in a calm tone, and Qi Xin worked together and went through all the hardships, I realized that people can face disasters with such a mentality and have already completed their psychological reconstruction. And this is more valuable than how many new tall buildings have been built.

No matter how difficult it is, the country will be rich and strong. Japan is a country with frequent earthquakes and tsunamis, so the Japanese must plant their tenacity and stubbornness in their bones. These characters and experiences they have experienced in the long-term hardships are not worth letting go of love and hate and studying hard?

After returning to Hefei, I saw a sign hanging on the roadside of the administrative area: Learn from Lei Feng and be a moral person. It suddenly occurred to me that I was moved and enlightened by countless words since I was a child, but after I really stepped into the society, I found that I learned fairy tales. In Japan, I have never seen such a slogan teaching people to be kind, but everyone on the street is actually practicing "learning from Lei Feng", loving each other and helping each other. During this trip, I may not have seen many traces of traditional Japan, smelled the fragrance of flower arrangement and tea ceremony, and didn't go to Kyoto, Osaka and Hokkaido, but I personally experienced an orderly, highly developed modern Japanese society that inherited traditional civilization.

I'm not sure if I ever hated Japan, but I'm sure I've always loved my motherland. Today, I describe communication, understanding, letting go of burdens, mutual understanding, respect and learning, all in order to make the motherland better and people's hearts better.