After seven years of love, he said he couldn't get along and broke up. The girl asked stupidly: Who will wash and cook for you in the future?

Love may be one of the most unpredictable things in the world. Sometimes they are fine, but they break up for no reason when they wake up. Sometimes you swear at each other, but you only break up because you don't return each other's calls. Sometimes, the other party tolerates all kinds of unreasonable troubles, but suddenly goes their separate ways because of a joke.

In this regard, Xiaoke's theory is: Don't be silly, girl. The so-called reason for breaking up is just that he randomly found out among countless reasons. In other words, the reason can be one way or another, but in the final analysis, he just wants to break up with you.

Xiaoke's theory has a practical basis. From the age of eighteen, she fell in love with a young man in the yard. Of course, he is excellent, at least in her opinion.

At that time, her parents did not allow her to fall in love, so she buried this love deeply in her heart. However, as long as she sees him, her heart will beat very hard. This made her afraid to look at him again when she saw him, but every day after school, she deliberately dawdled at the gate just to wait for him to see him after school and experience the feeling of heartbeat.

Later, they went to college, and fate seemed destined to arrange them to talk about a love affair. The two universities are actually in the same city. Because he is far from home, naturally let him report together. As a thank you, she invited him to dinner at the weekend. After eating a few mouthfuls of rice, she got up the courage to tell how she felt when she was eager to see him before. He paused and said, "Really?"

To put it bluntly, two people who left home for the first time naturally fell in love. The process of falling in love seems to be a bit fast and a bit hasty. She felt that he never thought about whether he loved himself or not, just because he said it, and then he naturally agreed.

The longer you get along with this feeling, the more obvious it seems. She often goes to see him, sometimes on weekends, sometimes skipping classes. When we are together, he is often seen by his classmates, and then shh, he just laughs.

He seldom comes to see her on the grounds that a man should be responsible for his family in the future and can't waste these years. He is very calm. In fact, he has always been a very calm person. Sometimes when they are kissing, he will suddenly stop and say that a homework has not been finished.

It was his birthday. In the evening, she went to see him with a cake. She thought he would be happy, but he frowned and said, "How old are you? You are still so naive. Ok, I'll take this cake. Go home early and there will be no car. "

She was so angry that she crushed the cake and walked away. She expected him to catch up with her and apologize, but she didn't. Looking back, he was gone.

"I never want to see you again!" She told him about it in her mind, but when she returned to the dormitory, she wanted to send him a text message to apologize, saying that she was too naive, but she was afraid that he was trying to make him angry until the next day. Then, I received his reply: "Nothing."

She always felt that their love was different from others. If other boys are angry with their girlfriends, they will try their best to make her happy. So there are many young women in love, because they enjoy being spoiled by their boyfriends. However, she found that she had never felt this way before.

Any contradiction, whether he started it first or she started it first, was finally given up by her. Besides apologizing, you should be more careful when you encounter this situation next time.

If love does not bring happiness to people, but brings pressure, then there is obviously something wrong with this relationship. The biggest problem is that she knows there is a problem, but she can't change it because she loves him. This reason is overbearing and arrogant, and there is basically no solution.

He is getting better and better, and she is becoming more and more ordinary. He took the postgraduate entrance examination, and she could hardly graduate. She went to that city with him, found a very ordinary job, rented a house, decorated it warmly, waited for him to come home every day like a real wife, changed his shoes and served him rice, and made a cup of tea while he was reading at night.

Three years later, he suddenly said that he was going to work in Beijing. She said happily, "Well, I haven't been there yet, just to gain some knowledge." He was silent for a while and said, "I mean, I'll go alone." She asked stupidly, "Then who will wash and cook for you and who will fold the quilt for you?" He started packing, then opened the door with his bag on his back and said without looking back, "We are getting farther and farther away and can't get along. Let's break up. "

He should have wanted to break up long ago, because there were so few things at home that he didn't even fill a backpack. She was amazed and went after him crazily, but he got on the bus and left. She called him, didn't answer, and then sent a lot of messages.

Later, she always laughed at herself at that time and began to fall in love with him at the age of eighteen. Seven years later, he left without hesitation, but she kept sending messages like "Who will cook for you and who will fold your clothes".

Of course, now she knows that he won't really break up because "the distance is getting farther and farther, and the two can't get along." The distance between them has long been created, so he enjoys everything he has brought him. Why not break up?

In fact, he has not loved you for a long time. The so-called reason is just to find an excuse not to feel guilty. The fewer excuses, the less he cares about you, because he doesn't even bother to find excuses.

Unfortunately, many silly girls don't understand.

(The picture has nothing to do with the text, the picture comes from the Internet)