When you keep silent, you will become stronger.

Keeping silent at the right time is actually a very clever wisdom. Friends who often watch horror movies will definitely have such an experience: the most creepy scene is often the silence that can be heard when a needle falls. Silence is neither helplessness nor weakness. Sometimes, not saying is more powerful than saying.

1. Keep silent when the other person is absent-minded.

When talking with someone, you should stop immediately if you find that the other person is absent-minded. Even if what you say is important, keep silent immediately, stare at the other person and make sure that the other person speaks first. At this time, he must disagree with your statement. Even if you continue, the other party won't listen.

Keep silent if you don't know the situation.

Sometimes, if you don't know the other person's situation and talk blindly, it will often give the other person an opportunity and make you suffer huge losses. Therefore, if you don't know the details of the other party, don't speak easily and keep silent. You can not only try to figure out the other party's intentions, but also turn passivity into initiative. If you speak rashly, it will cause irreparable losses.

Others need to keep silent when talking about themselves.

When listening to others talk about themselves, many people are prone to make such mistakes. Once others talk about themselves, especially when it is not good for them, they often interrupt others and argue with others. Actually, this is the most unwise move. In the workplace, if colleagues criticize or talk about you, you don't have to rush to deny or express yourself. When you are unreasonably attacked or accused by others, your mood is angry. If you argue on the spot, you will only get yourself into a deeper round of language bombing. Not only can't wash away your resentment, but it will also make others more "United" to attack you. Why not arrange a time to talk when you are all calm and able to discuss the problem calmly? Only in this way can you have a meaningful discussion instead of blaming each other. Therefore, at this time, it is best to keep silent, keep silent, and don't blame each other's mistakes when persuading, and don't hurt each other's self-esteem. There is a skill that can't be ignored, and that is to adopt a silent attitude when criticizing each other.

If you can't be the master, keep silent.

Sometimes, I often can't make a decision, so I can't say it at this time. If you accidentally promise something you shouldn't, then you have to bear all the consequences yourself.

5. Keep silent before the time comes.

Don't forget to look at the timing when you speak, because psychology tells us that people have different feelings and understandings of other people's words on different occasions, showing different psychological tolerance. It is precisely because of the psychological constraints of special occasions that some words are better to say in specific situations, but some words may not be appropriate. The same sentence, said here and said there, has different effects. If the environment doesn't adapt and time is up, the best way is to keep silent.

As the old saying goes, "if you talk too much, you will lose;" Talking too much will hurt "and" A word spoken by a gentleman is a lost cause ",and keeping your mouth shut is also regarded as a prudent way of dealing with the world. Today, we should also remember these old sayings, and we must be silent when it is time to be silent.