How can we make people happily ignore those gossips and the rejection of others, instead of upsetting themselves?

Psychological endurance is exercised bit by bit. Actually, I have the same troubles as you. Sometimes I am easily influenced by other people's words and deeds. I don't want to do this in my heart, but I can't help it.

After such a long struggle, I understand, first of all, don't run away from things, let alone rely on others. If you find yourself dependent, you will be killed in time. Only by being hard on yourself can you really grow up. When one day you can live the life you want by your own ability and strength, you will find that I don't need to rely on anyone. Nothing others say or do can affect me.

You have to understand a truth, that is, in this world, no one can accompany you forever, only relying on yourself is the most real. Others are just passers-by in your life. Don't care too much. Find your own position, go straight ahead, and don't take a detour because of what others say.

Life is trouble, and then trouble. All we can do is keep solving it, when you are truly independent. You will know what to insist on and what to ignore. Let's cheer together!