Trying to love before marriage, is it a man or a woman who suffers?

A girl went to Shenzhen for many years and became a successful salesman. She also bought a small apartment and lived a happy life. But unconsciously, when she was thirty, her family always ruined her marriage. She was absorbed in her work and had no love experience, so she found a man in a daze. At that time, she was holding: one was to explain to her family, and the other was to find a way to get married. If it is good, get married. Who knew cohabitation could lead to pregnancy? This man has been married for a long time and has children. She just understood, so she always quarreled. After she gave birth to her own child, the man abandoned her, left no money for the child and never saw her mother and son again. She is not good at looking for him to make a fool of herself everywhere, so she has to take care of the children alone. Because she had to take care of the children and couldn't run away from business, the company fired her without performance.

Recently, I saw her, holding the baby, her face was bloodless, she was exhausted and lost a lot of weight. I can't find the glory of her past business. She said: "I ate all the melon seeds and planned to sell the apartment back to my family, but I was afraid of being treated coldly by my family." She said: I will never have it in my life! Can I jump off a building with my baby in my arms?

Today's youth is completely different from our time. At that time, we (especially girls) valued chastity more than anything else. Everyone should save this wonderful first time for their wedding night. If a girl loses her virginity before marriage, she will be looked down upon.

It's completely different now. Some young men and women, who have just known each other for a long time, are in bad love and are in a hurry to go to bed. Many college students rent houses outside, and male and female lovers live a decent husband and wife life. Winter and summer vacations are the peak of induced abortion for female students. Those young men and women who work in society are even more in pairs. Even before they get married, they get pregnant, and some have had many abortions until they really get married and want children. However, the precious parenting cavity has lost its fertility function.

Therefore, I don't advocate premarital sex. People who are eager to try to love are the most painful girls. Suggest those girls to clear their heads and live a completely clean life for your happiness.

Everyone's point of view! Times are different! The concept should be changed! The only thing that can't be changed is my own education! It's different! I come from the sixties. I go to school less, farm early and get married early. At that time, few of us got marriage certificates! Generally, those who have children's hukou will be fined if they don't have a marriage certificate, and those who don't have money will get a marriage certificate. A matchmaker introduced them, and when they met, they felt very satisfied, got engaged, and went to the boys' house for dinner several times! Generally engaged in the same year, office work in the same year (that is, wedding banquet). Few people get pregnant before marriage! Other unmarried pregnant people joked that their parents were ashamed to meet people! Now that reform and opening up have been implemented, young people are more open to whom they speak! I have met several times and eaten several times! Live together! How terrible! When my girl talked about the object, I warned (through her mother) that it was not good to live together without a marriage certificate! Girls who have problems and can't get married are the most unlucky girls, who suffer for life! After getting the marriage certificate, the two families can congratulate each other and live together, and the banquet is just a process! I wonder if everyone thinks I'm right? Thank you.

It's definitely women who suffer! A man fucked a woman ten times a day, but he was fucked countless times after breaking up, so her husband didn't lose much. His wife was fucked for years. Even if the woman is pregnant, the man will not be pregnant, and the woman will not be born after several abortions. Isn't that a loss? This woman is of course a victim, and men can keep looking! Women are always victims, so women should know how to love and respect themselves. If a man loves you, let her marry you. If he can't, he just wants to play with you, then don't have sex with him!

Try to love, to put it bluntly, you have to have sex.

Sex between men and women, as long as you love me, there is nothing to make money at a loss.

Someone made an analogy between men and women, saying that you used a matchstick to pick out your ears. Do you think the ears are comfortable or the matchsticks are comfortable? The answer is self-evident.

Therefore, there is no so-called loss in voluntary sex. Everyone has his own fun and needs.

If anyone is forced to suffer, I think whoever pays a huge sum of money will suffer.

Some people say that the party who is involved in feelings suffers, but I beg to differ. After all, feelings are illusory, and people's feelings are infinite. What's more, feelings are based on material things.

Master Shen Wei is an example. When you are a beggar, nobody cares. With money, suitors flock to us.

The story of butterfly lovers, the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl has been told through the ages. Not only because it is touching, but also because it is rare!

Physiologically speaking, women are of course suffering. First, if you try to break up, the woman's hymen has been lost, not the end of the wall. If she finds a boyfriend, she will have more psychological pressure and less time. If that person finds out, it's impossible. Second, if you accidentally get pregnant, you have to curettage, and you may have a habitual abortion in the future. Third, premarital sex without premarital examination brings certain risks, such as syphilis, gonorrhea and even AIDS. Don't lose too much!

Be sure to know each other before the trial marriage, including their family background, their growth experience, their outlook on life and living habits. After grasping these situations clearly, we will see if two people are suitable.

Two people speak the same language, live happily together, and like each other very much. They can try to get married.

The main purpose of the trial marriage is to see whether the sexual life is harmonious and whether the two people live well together.

During the trial marriage, I'm sure the man will pay more financially and the woman will give you her body, so don't care too much. If two people can live together and have a good time, our life will be complete.

If you can't live, the man should not think that he has suffered. He had a love affair, which was an unforgettable experience and didn't waste his life.

Girls have nothing to lose. They loved, liked and willingly gave their bodies, so they have no regrets.

There is nothing to lose here, as long as both men and women like it. Once they try, they will be very happy. From two aspects: from the emotional level, it is not just a "film" that controls the war situation. For men and women who try to fall in love before marriage, whoever suffers the most is the most painful; From the physical level, there is no doubt that women suffer more! Emotionally, loss is related to injury, regardless of gender. Few men fall in love, and some are ruined by women!

When a clothing store sells clothes, does the fitting person suffer or the clothes suffer?

Men look for women, order a few bottles of wine in nightclubs, and pay the hostess's table fee.

As a woman, let men try, do you get anything?

No, you must be in pain. Because someone else entered your heart, you got a lot of things, and you were afraid that he would kick you away, so how can you say that you don't suffer?

Women suffer, remember, don't have sex before marriage, otherwise they will become non-virgins in the price drop. If they are dumped, they will be treated as free prostitutes for nothing and their bodies will be defiled. Many love rat likes to show off how many women they have had, so women who have been cheated into bed will probably only become trophies and show off capital of love rat, which has little bad influence on men and too much bad influence on women. In fact, people who want to cheat women into bed before marriage just want to have fun for nothing. Abortion is intentional homicide, and no matter how dark your heart is, you will have an abortion. Abortion is also very harmful to the body and easily leads to infertility. Therefore, we must stick to the bottom line before marriage, resolutely refuse premarital sex, don't listen to others' encouragement and deliberately harm you, or those love rat deliberately induce women to become open and casual in order to get more women. Don't be fooled by them.