How to guide sloppy children?

Let's start with a story: my friend's son, in the third grade of primary school, does his homework late every day. When other children may have fallen asleep, the children are still doing their homework. Finally, my friend found that the child started to do homework after coming home from school, but it was sloppy and procrastinating. He may start playing with an eraser when he is doing his homework, or he may start to be distracted when he is doing his homework. Moreover, homework is written very late at night, and getting up early for school the next day has become a thorny issue. Parents are miserable because their children are late several times.

In the face of such children, parents must change their living habits and study habits in time, otherwise the consequences will be very serious and the children will not attach great importance to learning.

First, set a time to do things.

For children who are careless and procrastinating, it is because they have no concept of time in their hearts. Without the concept of time, they will have no sense of urgency, leading to hasty procrastination. First of all, parents should set a time for such children, such as when homework should be finished and when they must go to bed. Fiona Fang cannot live without rules. Only when children have the concept of time in their hearts will they gradually change their bad habits.

Second, compete with parents.

Parents can compete with their children when they do their homework or do something. With competition, children will have a sense of urgency, and they will think about fighting for the first place, which will speed up the pace. My friend even took a piece of paper when his son was doing his homework, consciously letting his son win, and gradually the child's state became better and better.

Third, encourage and accompany.

The development of any habit of children needs the companionship and encouragement of parents. When children are sloppy, if parents abuse or even start work, it is useless for children to get rid of this bad habit, but it will be counterproductive. So parents should encourage and accompany their children. Parents encourage their children and give them positive responses, and then children will have more and more good behaviors.