Qingwen: an ignorant girl who blooms freely

office romance in a dream of red mansions

? The death of Qingwen is a very famous passage in the whole Dream of Red Mansions. Mr. Lu Xun once said: The so-called tragedy is to destroy beautiful things for people to see. Qingwen is like a delicate and charming hibiscus flower, absorbing pure and fragrant fragrance in the Grand View Garden, but never thinking that the fragrance will suddenly disappear when it opens to tea. Her tragedy is not only her personal tragedy, but also a harbinger of Jia's tragedy.

Qingwen's death doesn't seem to be an accident. With her tough personality and vitriol, she offended so many people, and it's only a matter of time before she gets involved.

Qingwen's tragedy has something to do with her poor emotional management ability.

In Fifty-two Chapters, Pinger found out that it was Zhui Er, the little girl in Baoyu's room, who stole her bracelet. However, in order to protect Baoyu's face and avoid trouble, she only told Musk Moon about it (it happened that Xiren went home to attend the funeral because her mother died, and she was not in Yihong Hospital), so that Musk Moon would pay more attention in the future.

Why didn't Pinger tell Qingwen about it? She thought very carefully: "Qingwen's hoof is a piece of charcoal. He can't help telling him. It's not good to shout out when you are angry for a while, or to fight or scold. "

Pinger's prediction was very accurate. Sure enough, Baoyu overheard this conversation between Pinger and Sheyue and told Qingwen. Qingwen heard that, "Emei was so angry that her eyes were wide open that she was immediately called Zhui Er." Fortunately, Baoyu stopped him.

Qingwen's poor emotional management is also manifested in her words, which are not tactful, straightforward and tit for tat.

In Fifty-two Chapters, Qingwen couldn't hold back after all, and she couldn't wait for Aroma to come back, so she fired Zhui Er under the pretext of Baoyu's fame. Zhui Er's mother is also a fool. When she saw her daughter being fired, she became angry from embarrassment and began to pick on Qingwen, saying that Qingwen called Baoyu by his first name behind his back, and if she was with them, she would become a savage.

qingwen blushed when she heard this, and said,' I called his name, but you told me in front of the old lady that I had run wild and kicked me out'. This is clearly anger, and there is no technical content at all.

It's Musk Moon's calmness. She talked for a long time, which not only clarified the meaning of calling by name, but also satirized that Zhui Er's mother didn't understand the rules. Well-founded, the other party was speechless.

In the above two paragraphs, Qingwen had a conflict with the people below, which is all right. The most important thing is that she also had a fierce conflict with Baoyu xiren.

In Thirty-one Chapters, Jia Baoyu was in a bad mood because of the death of Jin Chuaner, and Qingwen accidentally broke the fan. Baoyu took the opportunity to vent a few words: "Fool, fool! What about the future? Tomorrow, you will be the master of your own affairs. Are you so reckless? "

It's normal for the superior to criticize you when you do something wrong. Even if you know that the leader is suspected of emotional catharsis, don't you have to endure it first? But in Qingwen's place, she couldn't stand it anymore and began to refute: "Sir Zhong has been very angry recently, and his actions will be shown to Lianzi. The day before yesterday, he even attacked xiren, and now he's looking for us again. If you want to kick, you have to beat me. It is common to drop a fan. At first, I didn't know how many glass jars and agate bowls were damaged, and I didn't see the atmosphere. Now a fan is just like this. Why bother coming! If you don't like us, send us and choose a good ambassador. Isn't it good to be away from each other? "

Sure enough, Baoyu was "in a frenzy of anger" and said, "You don't have to be busy, there will be days of separation in the future."

at this moment, xiren came to stop the fight. I didn't expect qingwen to take it out on xiren again, and sneered, "since ancient times, you have served my grandfather alone, and we have never served him before. Because of your good service, I was really upset yesterday. We won't serve, and we don't know what crime it is until tomorrow! "

Baoyu had kicked the attacker unintentionally, and he was ashamed and guilty. Qingwen just couldn't talk about which pot to bring up, but he was happy to say a word, sweeping away the attacker Baoyu and his wife.

that's not to mention. Baoyu xiren was patient again and again, and she attacked again and again. All kinds of cynicism annoyed both of them. The attacker was so angry that he left, and Baoyu also made a determined effort to say, "You don't have to be angry, I guess what's on your mind. I'll go back to my wife, and you're older. Can I send you out? "

This move completely defeated Qingwen, and said with tears in her eyes that she would not go out. If xiren hadn't stopped him, maybe Baoyu really went to report to Mrs. Wang on impulse.

Qingwen's confusion can be seen everywhere. But is she really not smart?

In Sixty Chapters, Fang Guan cheated Jia Huan and gave him jasmine powder as rose nitrate. It wasn't a big deal, and Fang Guan didn't mean to cheat Jia Huan. However, Aunt Zhao was too sensitive. She thought that the cat and dog in Baoyu's room dared to bully Jia Huan, so she was very angry and ran to Yi Hong Yuan to settle accounts with Fang Guan.

xiren couldn't pull herself together, and Fang Guan and Aunt Zhao got into a fight, which attracted other young players to help. The scene was very chaotic.

Aroma was naturally anxious after the trouble in Yee Hong Hospital, but all these people were angry, and no one listened to her, so she was in a hurry.

At this time, Qingwen still had a plan. On the one hand, she pulled Aroma out of her control and watched the incident make a big noise. On the other hand, she "sent Chun Yan back to Tanchun early". "Now, You Shi, Li Wan and Tanchun are coming with Pinger and their daughters-in-law, and they will stop the four." After Tanchun and others' pressure, Aunt Zhao was silent and the little players stopped.

In Seventy-Three Chapters, Aunt Zhao's little girl, Queer, secretly came to tell Baoyu that Aunt Zhao had told Baoyu about his black face in front of Jia Zheng and told Baoyu to be careful when Jia Zheng asked questions the next day.

That's great. Yee Hong Courtyard is all messed up. Baoyu quickly began to warm his books, but he couldn't hydrolyze his thirst, which made the whole house restless. When I was in a hurry, I suddenly heard someone shout, "No, a man jumped off the wall!" "

Everyone is busy looking for someone, but Qingwen's idea is different from others': "Qingwen was worried about seeing Baoyu studying, and spent a whole night thinking hard. Tomorrow may not be appropriate. She was about to come up with an idea for Baoyu to get rid of this difficulty, but she was just surprised. Even if she made a living, she said to Baoyu,' Take this opportunity to pretend to be ill, just say that she was scared.' "Finally, he said in a pretentious way," Now Baoyu's scare color has changed, and he is full of fever. Now I have to go up to my room to get the pills for requiem. Madam, when you ask, you want to understand. Can't you just do as you say? "

From the above two things, Qingwen sometimes knows how to grasp the key and deal with it in a crisis. Maybe you think Qingwen is clever. Her biggest problem is that she doesn't know how to observe other people's emotions, and she doesn't take other people's opinions seriously, especially her boss's likes and dislikes. She only knows how to be willful. Is that really the case? Actually, it's not.

In Seventy-four Chapters, Wang Shanbao's family told Mrs. Wang about Qingwen's black appearance, and Mrs. Wang was very angry. Now she sent Qingwen to see her. "It is well known to these maids that Mrs. Wang hates those who make up their clothes and talk lightly, so Qingwen dare not stand out." That Qingwen didn't get carried away in front of her boss. Unfortunately, by this time, Mrs. Wang had moved the atmosphere and everything was wrong. Qingwen was "not very decorated", and in Mrs. Wang's view, it was also "the legacy of a spring sleep."

Mrs. Wang then set a trap for Qingwen and asked her, "Is Baoyu better today?" Qingwen heard Mrs. Wang scold her and then asked Baoyu, "I knew someone had assassinated him." Although annoyed, I dare not speak. He's a smart guy, and he just said,' I don't go to Baoyu's room very often, and I don't often stay with Baoyu. At least I can't know. I just ask Xiren and Sheyue.'

It can be seen that Qingwen's mind is very clear at this time. Even at the risk of being scolded for dereliction of duty, she should avoid the most serious edge: Mrs. Wang should not feel that she is very close to Baoyu.

Sure enough, Mrs. Wang continued to scold, "That's a slap in the face! Are you a dead man? What do you want? "

Qingwen's answer at this time is also very clever: "I used to work with the old lady. Because the old lady said there were few adults in the garden, Baoyu was afraid, so he sent me to the outer room for the night, but he didn't look after the house. I once said that I was too stupid to serve. The old lady scolded me and said,' I don't want you to mind his business. What should you do wisely?' I didn't go until I heard this. However, within ten days and a half months, Baoyu bored everyone and then dispersed. As for Baoyu's eating and sitting, there are old ladies and mothers on the upper floor, and several people like Aroma, Musk and Qiuwen on the lower floor. I have to work as a needle and thread in the old lady's room at leisure, so I didn't pay attention to Baoyu's affairs. Madam is strange, so I'll pay attention to it from now on.

In fact, this statement is very level: First, remind Mrs. Wang that I belong to the old lady's house, and you should look after the master when you hit the dog; Second, I didn't come on my own initiative, but the old lady insisted on me; Third, I only work the night shift, and I have little contact with Baoyu (Mrs. Wang certainly won't believe me if I say nothing); Fourth, I didn't pay attention to Baoyu, not because I was lazy, but because I was busy with the old lady's business; Fifth, leaders should have requirements, and I will pay attention to them in the future.

In normal times, this passage should enable Qingwen to pass the customs smoothly. Unfortunately, at this moment, Mrs. Wang has not simply targeted Qingwen. First, Mrs. Wang was under the pressure of Mrs. Xing, and second, she needed to take the opportunity to release her dissatisfaction with Lin Daiyu. Qingwen became cannon fodder and was doomed to be sacrificed, not because she was not smart, but because she was unlucky.

since qingwen is not a confused person, why did she do those stupid things before? Since Qingwen knows the rules of the workplace very well, why did she offend so many people? Qingwen's personality and things seem to be full of contradictions and unpredictable.

In fact, if you analyze it carefully, the reason is very simple, just because of two words: talent.

say the word "talent" first.

qingwen is promoted by her face value and professional ability. This makes Qingwen feel confident among Baoyu's competitors, and it is inevitable that she is a bit "arrogant".

Qingwen is not a domestic slave of the Jia family. "This Qingwen was bought by everyone with money. At that time, Qingwen was only ten years old and had not left her head. Because she has been with Mammy Lai recently, Grandmother Jia saw that he was clever and beautiful and loved him very much. Therefore, Mammy Lai obeyed the orders of Grandmother Jia. "

It can be seen that Qingwen's life experience is also very bitter, and she happened to be the maid of Grandmother Jia. Grandmother Jia also recognized Qingwen very much: "Qingwen's girl, I think he is very good. I mean, these girls are not as smooth as he is in talking and sewing, and only he can be used by Baoyu in the future."

please note that xiren was also ordered by the grandmother Jia to Baoyu, but the grandmother Jia never said such a thing. Jia mu once commented that xiren was "silent since he was a child, but I only said that he was a gourd without a mouth". It can be seen that in Jia mu's mind, Qingwen's recognition is greater than that of xiren.

qingwen's professional ability is embodied in "fifty-two chapters", in which she mended Baoyu's sparrow and golden fur with strong support despite illness. Everyone is familiar with this paragraph, so I won't say much. What needs to be emphasized is that in the workplace, the biggest embodiment of a person's value is irreplaceable. Why does Qingwen want to mend Baoyu's clothes despite her illness? It was because of the skill of "boundary" that she was the only one in Yee Hong Hospital at that time. It can be seen that her female workers were among the best at that time, which was also her core competitiveness.

Compared with Sheyue, everyone may think Qingwen is a lazy and playful advocate. In fact, Qingwen is still very dedicated. Her main job is "night shift". When Jia Baoyu sleeps, she stays in the outer room and takes care of Baoyu.

In Fifty-one Chapters, Xiren is absent, and Qingwen and Sheyue are responsible for staying with Baoyu in the house at night. Qingwen is at home in the smoking cage, and Musk Moon is outside the Nuange. What this means here is that Musk Moon is in the same room as Baoyu, and it's just the difference between inside and outside, and Qingwen is outside.

As a result, Baoyu wanted to drink tea in the middle of the night and habitually called xiren. At this time, "Qingwen has woken up, so she called Musk Moon with a smile and said,' Even I woke up, and he didn't know it. He was really a dead body."

It can be seen that Qingwen is not only outstanding in "talent", but also has a correct working attitude, at least very dedicated. All kinds of advantages make Qingwen become the "backbone personnel" of Yee Hong Hospital. It is natural for such a person to be a little arrogant. Baoyu understands this very well.

But if the business backbone has an "office romance", many things will be difficult for others to understand.

We can all see Qingwen's true feelings for Baoyu. As a teenager, I have always felt that there is a hazy feeling between Qingwen and Baoyu. This kind of feeling, between love and friendship, is the magical power between the opposite sex.

with qingwen's cleverness, she certainly knows what the purpose is for the grandmother Jia to give her orders to Baoyu. What is valuable is that Qingwen combines intelligence and innocence.

Qingwen naturally likes Baoyu. But this kind of love is between boys and girls, which seems to be true and illusory. Although she understands the intention of Jia Mu, I think the little girl's mind and pure feelings make her more eager for a pure emotion and mutual understanding and recognition with Baoyu. As for relationships, Qingwen may not be eager or even despised at an early age.

qingwen's inner need for Baoyu is very caring. This is not quite the same as attacking people.

xiren is a few years older than Baoyu, and she often uses Baoyu's affection for her to achieve her own goals, whether it's persuasion or threats, and she has her own small plans. Sometimes she doesn't really pay attention to Baoyu's needs, but just follow him in order to achieve her own goals.

Qingwen, on the other hand, values Baoyu, and she will do as he asks, not as a boss, but as a friend.

In The Eighth Return, Baoyu came back drunk from Aunt Xue's house, and Qingwen said with a smile, "OK, OK, you tricked me into researching those inks. I got up early and was happy. I only wrote three words, dropped my pen and left, which made us wait all day. Come and finish writing these ink talents with me! "

Baoyu asked him where his handwriting was, and Qingwen smiled again: "This man is really drunk. You've been to that house in your head, and you're asking me to stick it on this bucket, and now you're asking. I was afraid that others would stick it, so I climbed up the ladder and put it on myself, and my hands are still frozen. "

Baoyu laughed and said, "I forgot. Your hands are cold, I'll hold them for you. " With that, he reached out and took Qingwen's hand, and fought with Yang Shou's doorman on the three words of the new book.

what a warm and interesting scene this scene is. Baoyu's careless command was nothing important, and Qingwen took it very seriously. Baoyu's guilt and thoughtfulness, Qingwen is also free and easy, and accepts all the orders. There is no scheming, no politeness, no affectation, no scruples. At this moment, the two of them are so soulmate and happy with each other.

if xiren's good point is to persuade Baoyu to submit to orthodox values from time to time, Qingwen's good point is that she is willing to have fun with Baoyu and do something that others dare not do.

the most classic passage is the one in which Baoyu, after being beaten, tells xiren to send Qingwen a handkerchief to Daiyu Lin. In that society, handkerchiefs are like obscene publications, and it seems that men and women can't send them back and forth. But Qingwen has no objection to this. As long as Jia Baoyu wants to do something, she will help. Not only did he help, but he also considered Baoyu comprehensively: "This is strange again. He (