Humor has a formula, you know?

Girls always like men with a sense of humor, and men also like women with a sense of humor.

Humorous people give people the impression of high emotional intelligence and intelligence. They can not only make people laugh, but also help themselves out, help others out and make you the focus.

So some people recite funny jokes to others, some can make people laugh, and some can't.

This is a common mistake: thinking that telling jokes is humor.

Many people mistakenly think that telling many jokes can make them humorous, but in fact, people who keep telling jokes will make others feel bored.

Jokes can make people laugh because the person who tells jokes has a sense of humor and his knowledge of life, phenomena and humor.

And when you tell his jokes, you don't understand the essence of the jokes. Of course, it is difficult to tell a good joke. Even if the joke is funny, you are still not humorous.

So how to cultivate a sense of humor?

Actually, humor has a formula. Today, I mainly say one thing: unexpected, reasonable.

For example, I am a serious person, but I am not a person if I am not serious. . .

This is unexpected and understandable.

It wouldn't be funny if the last one was a wretched little girl on the street. Although unexpected, it is also unreasonable.

Another example: My cousin is a very conservative and upright person, who casually lifts a little girl's skirt in the street.

Humor is mainly divided into three stages.

The first paragraph: paving the way

The second paragraph: strengthen the bedding.

The third paragraph: the turning point

For example, in the above example, my cousin is a conservative person, that is, a person who has laid the groundwork and is very upright, just to strengthen this foreshadowing, and finally just to lift the little girl's skirt in the street, which is a turning point.

The first paragraph: paving the way

When your partner says, Why are you so stupid?

How would you respond humorously?

Most people will explain that you are stupid when others are stupid, and your whole family is stupid.

This is not humorous at all, and it may hurt feelings.

The conjunction here is stupid, so we should jump out of this default result A, that is, our own stupid result, and answer the man with another result B, because the beloved person we met has become stupid. When your partner says, Why are you so stupid?

How would you respond humorously?

The more serious the bedding, the more normal it is, the better, and the more turning jokes there will be.

Need to have a conjunction to pave the way, this conjunction is the most important part of reason.

When others think that my actions are conservative, in fact, my thoughts are conservative and my actions are not conservative, so I use the unconventional behavior of lifting the little girl's skirt as a turning point, and there are jokes.

The conjunction in the above example is conservative, which has two meanings. 1 is conservative in behavior, that is, what you see is the default result A of this sentence, and 2 is conservative in thought, so you won't think it is the result B.

"Sorry, I met someone I like and became like this."

This is a three-paragraph form, and you don't have to speak three paragraphs yourself. The first paragraph can also be said by the other party.

The second paragraph: strengthen the bedding.

Strengthen the first paragraph and make him believe what you said.

For example, the first example, a very upright person, is to strengthen my cousin's conservatism and make the last action of lifting the little girl's skirt more funny.

You used to believe in my cousin's conservatism, but suddenly, it's like I believe you, you bad old man.

The third paragraph: the turning point

Turning point must use unconventional explanation B in conjunction, and only unconventional can bring jokes.

For example, there is a saying in Zhang Wei that we must take good care of small animals, because they are all delicious!

This sentence is not funny if it is explained by a.

We must take good care of small animals, because they are lovely.

Take care of small animals. Because they are cute, we should take care of them.

It is unusual to love small animals, because their meat is delicious, so we should cherish it.

What should a man say if he says you are fat?

The conjunction here is fat.

Stupid answer: Yes, I am that fat.

Dry answer: you are fat, and your whole family is fat.

There are two kinds of humorous answers.

1, throw the question to him

My obesity is not my problem, but your problem, which is caused by you. Conventional explanation A is weight gain, and unconventional explanation B is the expansion of missing.

Maybe you miss me, so it is more important in your heart.

2. Misunderstand his question

Conventional explanation A, fat leads to ugliness, unconventional explanation B, it's beautiful, so we should balance fat.

God is afraid that others will envy my beauty, so he makes me look fair.

There are three stages of humor: the first stage leads to conjunctions, the second stage strengthens bedding and conjunctions, and the third stage leads to jokes.

I took my boyfriend to see my girlfriend for the first time. My girlfriend said, "Why are divines surrounded by poor people now?"

Tip: The conjunction here is Goddess, short and poor.

What would you say to solve your boyfriend's embarrassment?

Haha: I have said so much today, leaving you with a question:

Think about it when you go to work during the day [yi tooth]