Can a 5-year-old man still accept his heart after cheating (the awakening of a 5-year-old middle-aged man)

Xiao Pan's series of emotional essays

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Some people say that two people in marriage can spend hard times together, but they can't enjoy happiness together. The essence of marriage is probably that pain is more than sweetness and hardship is more than happiness.

after two people have been together for a long time, all the passions, love and feelings in the past will gradually become dull. At this time, if people are willing to live a plain life, they won't have any ideas, but if they are unwilling and can't stand the temptation of the outside world, then they are likely to betray their families and marriages.

after having an affair, some men basically can't cover the fire with paper. What will they choose in the end? Do you want to go home after trying an extramarital affair, or do you want to give up the old love completely and let the new one in? What do men gain and lose in extramarital affairs?

After more than 2 years' efforts, 5-year-old Lao Zhang finally entered the middle class society when he entered middle age. He has made modest achievements in his career. Although his life is dull, he has a warm home. His wife, Huifang, took good care of him. Although Lao Zhang had nothing when he was young, Huifang always encouraged him to support him silently and never wanted to leave him when he was at his lowest ebb.

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It is because of Fang Hui, a strong spiritual pillar, that he took care of his family by all means, and that Lao Zhang was able to work wholeheartedly, which led to today's career. Lao Zhang always says that his success is entirely due to his wife Huifang. He said his wife is good in front of everyone many times. Marrying her is really a blessing for his Lao Zhang.

Lao Zhang never dreamed that he could meet his true love when he was in his fifties, out of shape and bald.

Because of the need of career development, Lao Zhang expanded his scale and hired some middle managers. There is a young and energetic Wenxuan who just graduated from here. Wenxuan is smart, capable of working, sweet-looking, and more natural and graceful in life. With Wenxuan, a capable secretary, Lao Zhang is really relieved, and he is no longer as busy as before, because of Wenxuan's sharing.

But Lao Zhang gradually found that Wenxuan's eyes were full of admiration. In fact, he had long been interested in Wenxuan, but he was afraid that it would scare away other girls and cause great losses. When Lao Zhang read Wenxuan's eyes full of worship, he finally couldn't help but have a throbbing heart and directly turned Wenxuan from a secretary into a little lover.

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Since then, Lao Zhang has always taken Wenxuan to various occasions. Outsiders have seen their relationship, Lao Zhang does not deny it, but he feels a little guilty about his wife Huifang, but this guilt is just a sudden thought, which was later covered up by Wenxuan's young and energetic figure.

Lao Zhang's idea has slowly changed. He began to think that people should pursue what they want in their lives, including love and marriage. As for his ruined wife, he is really sorry for her, but he will give her a lot of money to make up for her.

Quietly, Huifang had already seen Lao Zhang's mind. She knows that she can't compare with a little girl in her twenties, but her contribution to Lao Zhang and her family over the years is obvious to all. She didn't want to be judged by Lao Zhang, but she clearly realized that she would lose. Fang Hui didn't do much resistance, just silently waiting for Lao Zhang to give her an ultimatum.

here, Lao Zhang shows off with Wenxuan all day long. Wenxuan's favorite car, designer bag, watch and even house, whatever she can think of, Lao Zhang tries her best to satisfy it. He only waited for Wenxuan to ask him for a divorce, so he had to marry her without saying anything.

but this incident is too dramatic. Just when Lao Zhang was carried away by love, Wenxuan offered to resign. She said that she would go abroad for further study. Lao Zhang said I can give you anything you want. Which country should I eat?

Wenxuan said disdainfully, "Is it all about money?" I want to see the wider world outside. I don't want to be a frog in the well with money but no pursuit. Wenxuan left without looking back, much like the heartless swordsman in the movie.

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From then on, Lao Zhang realized that even if he gave her more material and money, he was just a toad trying to eat swan meat in her eyes. He also fantasized that he could marry a swan and go home, but he hurt his wife Huifang so mercilessly. Lao Zhang thought it was a big joke. Lao Zhang drank all night and got himself drunk.

When I woke up, Lao Zhang found himself lying in the warm big bed at home. As usual, his wife Huifang silently handed him a cup of boiled water without saying anything.

Lao Zhang touched this soft big bed that he hadn't slept in for a long time, and looked at the dazzling sunshine outside through the French window. I really thought that something happened before was a dream. Wenxuan, who gave him vigorous love, was a cup of hard liquor, which made him excited for a while, but later it was sad and hurt, but his wife Huifang was like this cup of boiled water for hangover, which was tasteless, but it was just what he needed.

Lao Zhang, who had an affair at the age of 5, finally understood what the best couple is. The best couple is not vigorous all day, but plain, not romantic, but actual daily necessities. A person who is really kind to you is silently thinking of each other without regrets, rather than making selfish decisions regardless of each other's feelings.

The best couples can calmly deal with each other after they make a mistake, and wait silently, just like their wife Huifang, who looks dull but is extremely warm inside.

Lao Zhang knew that he had done a terrible mistake in his life. Fortunately, the result was not so bad. This extramarital affair also made him see his humble self thoroughly. He secretly vowed that he would treat Huifang well for the rest of his life, and he really would never regret it this time.