It’s not that he doesn’t know how to coax people, he just doesn’t like you enough.

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Author|Deng Mumu Editor丨Mint

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On Zhihu, I saw this question: "What is a boyfriend who doesn't know how to coax people?" What’s your experience?”

I saw a netizen’s reply:

My boyfriend is super straight. His words can make me angry, but he will never know you. Why was he angry? He couldn't coax me. He didn't say anything when he was sulking. The next day, he just turned over the story. I just coaxed myself. Suddenly I felt so wronged and felt sorry for myself for two seconds.

After reading this, I think this netizen should be my friend Yiyi, because her ex is exactly the same as the boyfriend described by the girl.

Her ex was too straight and would never soften his tone to coax her.

When she was sick, her boyfriend asked her to drink more hot water; when she was hungry, her boyfriend asked her to cook a bowl of instant noodles; when it rained and she didn’t bring an umbrella, her boyfriend asked her I bought an umbrella on the roadside and went home; when we went out to play together and she said she was very cold, her boyfriend only said: Who asked you to wear so little clothes when going out?

On that second anniversary, Yiyi carefully prepared a gift for her boyfriend. She also made a reservation at her boyfriend’s favorite restaurant and called him to ask him out. However, after calling ten Several calls were not answered.

Yiyi thought he was busy with something, so he sent him a WeChat message and said he would wait for him in the restaurant. However, she waited for three or four hours and still didn't get a message or a call from her boyfriend.

Until the restaurant got off work, Yiyi didn’t wait for any news from her boyfriend. It wasn’t until the next day that her boyfriend sent her a WeChat message, which read: “I played games with my friends yesterday. Why? "?"

Seeing her boyfriend's reply, her long-suppressed emotions suddenly burst out. She asked her boyfriend: Why didn't he answer her phone or reply to her WeChat message? Why didn't she remember the second anniversary? It’s over! But when her boyfriend faced such a question, he didn't even try to coax Yiyi. He only said: I forgot.

This relationship finally broke up.

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What makes Yiyi sad is that his ex got a new girlfriend three months after the breakup.

My ex posted photos in WeChat Moments to show off his affection.

The content is: You look good when you smile, and you look good when you are angry. I like everything about you. In the days to come, I will love you well and not let you suffer any injustice.

As soon as Yi saw the photo, he told me: "Looks can't deceive. The way he looked at that girl was just like the way I looked at him."

It turns out that when his girlfriend is angry, he will take the initiative to comfort her instead of saying nothing; he will also worry about his girlfriend when she is sick instead of asking her to drink more hot water...< /p>

It turns out that it’s not that he doesn’t know how to coax people, he just doesn’t like you enough.

It wasn’t until Yiyi met her current boyfriend that she realized how good it felt to be pampered!

Yi Yi’s current girlfriend is two years younger than her, but when they are together, the boy takes care of Yi Yi more.

When we first got together, her boyfriend would pick her up from get off work every day and take her to dinner. He would check the weather forecast in advance every day and tell Yiyi that the weather would be cold today and remember to wear more clothes. He even remembered During Yiyi's auntie period, she was not allowed to eat ice cream when she was about to have her auntie.

Occasionally Yi Yi loses his temper, and his boyfriend immediately gets on board with him and tells Yi Yi: "Don't be angry, girls get old easily when they are angry." Then he tells her a joke, and Yi Yi sees it. When my boyfriend acts like this, he suddenly loses his temper.

Therefore, it is really important to find a boyfriend who can coax you.

He will take care of all your little emotions and pamper you like a child, and you will remember his kindness to you and only want to repay his kindness to you.

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Many people say that it is really difficult to deal with girls nowadays, and they must do what they say in order to get her a little happiness.

Actually no, now Wanyin will teach you some ways to coax your girlfriend!

Boys can prepare some surprises for their girlfriends from time to time. In fact, girls don’t care whether the gift you give is expensive or not. What’s important is that the surprise is carefully prepared by you.

What really makes a girl happy is your intention to prepare surprises for her.

Often boys like to reason with girls when girls complain to them, and then the girls become even more angry.

Sometimes, when a girl complains to you, she doesn’t want a boy to talk to her. She just wants you to comfort her. Maybe a hug or a word of comfort from you will be enough.

③? Love her well

Girls are the cutest creatures in the world, so love her well. Your love will make her better.

Boys need to know that a girl will get angry with you and act like a child in front of you, all because she loves you.

I am angry just because I want to be coaxed by you, and I want to prove whether my position in your heart is really important. It's not that difficult to coax a girl. Don't wait until a girl doesn't need your coaxing to realize it.

If you are not even willing to coax me, then forget it and stop falling in love. I will choose someone.

Life is so hard, I just want to find someone who is willing to pamper me.

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