Parent-child film

? This is the main line of the movie "Chicken Run". The protagonist Ginger is a brave, persistent, frank and determined little hen. Because she didn't want to be enslaved and killed on the farm, she persistently organized hen partners to stage escape dramas again and again. After learning to fly without hope, she finally integrated all resources, built a big plane, rushed out of the cage and lived a happy new life.

Ginger said to the hens on the farm, "The fence not only surrounds the farm, but also traps your mind!" " ".The characterization of Hen Jiang has brought the greatest heroic color to this film, and adults and children yearn for it!

? The greatest responsibility in life is to know yourself clearly no matter where you are and choose the most valuable goal with a free mind.

Frankly speaking, the score of "Chicken Run" in Douban is not high. When I saw this movie myself more than ten years ago, I even thought it was strange in shape, simple in plot and slightly childish and exaggerated. However, when I watched it with my daughter as a mother again, I found that I underestimated the film. For children of primary school age, this is definitely a hero. The reason for this is the following：

Grab the child's eye in a humorous and interesting way.

? Chicken Run is a stop-motion animation based on clay, which belongs to a minority in the film. But for children, these protagonists are made of familiar clay, which naturally adds a lot of intimacy. In addition, these colorful and humorous images show the story one by one, and children can keep up with every movement and capture it, which is particularly easy to arouse their interest, especially when watching movies.

Infinite imagination inspires children's curiosity all the time.

Children like to eat KFC, but they must have never thought that these chickens raised on the farm are not just delicious on the plate, they will have ideas and try their best to get out of the cage; They certainly didn't expect that these chicks would dig tunnels with spoons to avoid searchlights, just like the characters in the movie. For the first time, they saw that the chickens on the farm could knit sweaters, hold dances, get together and tell jokes, and even unite and help each other. They would never have thought that after many failures, the chickens would begin to practice collectively and learn to fly; They wouldn't even think that after learning to fly failed, the chicks actually built a plane independently with the cooperation of Qi Xin, and really escaped with this big plane. ......

The change of movie plot not only breaks through our usual cognition, but also enriches the story of the movie and makes children believe that anything is possible. While protecting children's precious imagination, it satisfies children's curiosity to the greatest extent. This is an excellent feature of a good story.

Vivid heroic images make children willingly imitate and follow.

Every child has a superhero in his heart. Jiang, the little hen in the film, is absolutely capable of playing such a role well. She is tenacious, brave, independent thinking and a leader. She can calmly solve all kinds of problems and fortunately avoid all kinds of dangers. This is a superhero image with a protagonist's aura. The children will sweat for her every effort, cheer for her every progress, and finally successfully save the hens on the whole farm. Imitation is a child's instinct. With the image of a hero in mind, endogenous motivation will also grow.

I learned how to set a valuable goal and stick to it with ease and pleasure.

? With a deep sense of identity with the film story and unconditional admiration for the protagonist, children are obviously willing to take the initiative to discuss with their parents what they really need and desire under relaxed and happy conditions, and what to do to stick to this hope. Everyone longs for the dream to come true, but if one day, you can find the "dream ladder" in Jack's magic bean, this is the most exciting harvest!

How to teach children to achieve management by objectives through movies?

What is a worthy goal?

? "Valuable" is a difficult concept to judge, especially for children who only live in the present and have not started to think about life. However, as parents, we should help our children plant this seed of hope as soon as possible, guide them to keep exploring and clarify their inner desires. Every step of growth is to become the person you want to be.

This is a very meaningful discussion, because you can be surprised to see all kinds of possibilities in children through such exchanges, such as becoming a teacher who spreads knowledge and is deeply loved by students, becoming a scientist with various convenient inventions, becoming a traveler who can talk fluently with friends all over the world ... More importantly, with in-depth discussions with parents, children can be more specific about what kind of person they want to be and constantly revise their wishes.

My discussion with my daughter: After watching the movie, we took a bath before going to bed and said, "What kind of person do you want to be?" Started a conversation.

? Daughter: "My dream is to be a fashion designer. I want to design many very beautiful clothes to let more people know me and like me. " Look, her goal is only herself and those beautiful clothes in her eyes.

? I asked, "What makes you think people like your clothes?"

? Daughter: "because the clothes I designed are beautiful ... well, maybe not everyone will think they are beautiful, but appropriateness may be more important." Others may like my design, because my clothes are suitable for them and will look better after wearing them. " She slowly began to think about what she might bring to others and make her goals more valuable.

? I then asked, "What do you think of a good fashion designer? How do you think you can become a fashion designer? "

She thought for a moment and said, "I think I need a lot of beautiful fabrics." I need to walk more and see how others design. " Then she suddenly felt a little depressed and said, "I think I have to learn a lot of basic things, such as continuing to learn printing and learning math well, because I have to calculate when printing and continue to practice sewing machines ..." Then she changed the topic and said, "I have a new idea again. After watching today's movie, I think one's goal is to help more people. I think I can be an inventor and invent something that is easy to use and labor-saving, so that parents don't have to work so hard and relax ... of course, we must learn math well first. "

This kind of discussion goes on endlessly, because these are children, and they have unlimited imagination and possibilities, but I think I saw what I wanted in this conversation, and we will have many such conversations in the future. I am willing to lead her to learn a way of thinking through this constant discussion. Through constant communication, I will gradually clarify and concretize her needs, find the most valuable goal for myself, and finally become a beacon to guide her efforts.

What is scientific management by objectives?

? SMART is a common method in target management, and it is no exception for children. The story of "Chicken Run" tells children that there are ways to achieve the goal in stages.

Setting of phased goals

Ginger and her friends in the film, in order to escape from the fence, the first step is to exercise their flying skills through various exercises. The same is true in real life. In order to achieve the ideal goal, we must teach children to learn step by step, choose the goal that they can "jump" and think more about what we can do now in order to "fly".

For example, in view of her daughter's goal of becoming a fashion designer, under our discussion, she put forward an idea that I think is still feasible: "When I graduate from primary school, I will wear my own dress to attend the graduation ceremony." Well, we are all satisfied with this result, which is not only related to the big goal, but also the near-term scene we can all imagine. We are all willing to work hard for this phased achievement.

What is an executable goal?

The goal is not a slogan, but a clear guide that can be implemented in the action plan. In the movie "Chickens Run", Jiang took the deadline for the farmer and his wife to repair the machine, and the key path was to make a plane and jump over the fence, and successfully completed his goal of escaping from the farm with everyone. It can be seen that an effective goal should have three elements, namely, clear and concrete, measurable and evaluable, and a clear time node.

1. Clear and specific description refers to the concretization of phased objectives. Or take my daughter's phased goal as an example. The specific description is that at this stage, I will mainly meet my own needs and exercise my basic ability in fashion design and production;

2. Goals must have measurable and evaluable results. My daughter's achievement is that she can design and make clothes independently with herself as a template.

3. Having a clear time node is an important yardstick to help you achieve your goals. Time is visible, and uninterrupted accumulation is the only way to the ideal of life. In the communication with our daughter, we chose the time node of the first stage of primary school graduation. Because the schedule too close is too urgent and the schedule too far is unimaginable, we chose this memorable node arrangement after discussion.

Key measures after the target is determined.

Down-to-earth efforts are the only criterion to test the effectiveness of goals. We should keep running in and help our children get closer to their goals step by step through our own small progress. This is the meaning of planning and scheduling, so that children can believe that time can be seen through their own efforts!

As a matter of fact, we have been discussing management by objectives and time planning recently. At the beginning of school, we have integrated all her current goals and urgent and important tasks in the near future, sorted out a measure arrangement, posted it here to share with you, and will discuss it in detail separately in the future, so stay tuned! ~

? The above thoughts and feelings are my harvest after watching the movie "Chicken Run" with my daughter again under the interpretation of Mr. Doudou and Mr. Tao. Personally, I feel benefited a lot.

? I was deeply impressed by Zhu Yongxin's School of the Future this morning. This is also my most sincere expectation. I hope that children can become what they want to be, learn to explore their own needs, learn to turn such needs into step-by-step goals, turn such enthusiasm into endogenous motivation, establish a positive way of thinking, learn scientific methods, and approach their imagination step by step.

The future has come, and the future can be expected. This is the power of hope!