How scary are eccentric parents?

It is normal for parents to be eccentric, but it is not terrible. It is even more incomprehensible to be a person with such a heart. Parents are children. In this world, the people who love them most can say that no one in the world loves their children more than their parents!

Children are parents, and the meat on the apex is the dragon and phoenix in parents' hearts. Parents can eat the hardships in this world and bear the fatigue they have experienced, all of which are supported by children. In other words, children are the sky in parents' hearts. Only children can make parents devote themselves wholeheartedly.

"In the father's mind, the son is a dragon and the daughter is a phoenix." This song is about inheriting the wind. Even if you are eccentric to your own children, you have to, because the palms of your hands are full of meat, and the eccentric children may need their help.

I used to have some savings when I was doing business. My parents didn't care much either. I thought I was capable, so don't worry. See your parents occasionally and give the old man some change. My parents accepted with a smile. Now that my business has failed, my parents are always worried. I'm still worried that I'm in my eighties!

The consequences of eccentricity are also very serious. My aunt, my mother's sister, is an example. My mother took care of her when she was alive and sick. My mother has been taking care of her for almost two years, during which neither child has visited her. My mother saw that she was dying and asked her eldest son to take her back. Go back for a week and die. My aunt has three sons, probably because of the mother-in-law relationship. She is partial to her eldest son. She comes from the countryside and is not rich. Her eccentricity is mainly reflected in some small things in daily life. Eat something delicious at ordinary times and give it to the eldest son's house; She is also very concerned about her eldest son's two children. She only helps to look after the two children of her eldest son's family. She doesn't like the children of her other two sons and is indifferent to them. Later, the younger two sons developed their careers and both had millions of possessions, but they never gave her pocket money, even ten dollars. She was ill in hospital, and her two young sons were indifferent to her life and death as if she were a person who had nothing to do with them.

Grandma and grandpa are eccentric parents.

Grandparents gave birth to ten children, five boys and five girls. Because the age difference between brothers and sisters is not big, especially uncles, marriage has become a big problem. My aunt was the first to get married, and the dowry was given to my grandparents as a bride price for my uncle's marriage. When I got to my second uncle, I couldn't afford to get married. Until I was twenty-five, no one wanted to give him the girl. At that time, if you are not married after 20, 80% are the fate of bachelors. No way, my grandparents changed my second aunt, who just turned 16, into a brother and sister in a neighboring village, except for my second aunt who was married. In this way, 16-year-old second aunt married 3 1 year-old second uncle, and second aunt blamed her grandparents for this matter for decades, and almost never returned to her family.

The sons behind were criticized by the woman because they didn't have much money at home. They either went to the woman's house upside down or married a widow.

My mother and my two young aunts caught up with a good time. By the time they talked about marriage, several brothers were married, two sisters were married, and the family's economic situation improved. In addition, my grandfather is a retired soldier and receives a monthly subsidy. At that time, it was popular to go out to work. My mother and two young aunts could earn money and decide to get married by themselves.

There is only resentment towards the second aunt, but there is no chance of compensation.

Parents' partiality is terrible enough to turn their children against each other and keep them far away. Even kill each other. ...

It is said that their houses and farmland were requisitioned by the state to build roads last year, and the government subsidized the area of 600,000 sites. According to the plan, it is most reasonable to have four sons and five daughters. But their parents thought that their eldest son should not be placed in the city, and told the boss not to grab land with his younger brother. When the boss was kind, he agreed with his parents' opinions, but the eldest daughter-in-law disagreed and began to make conflicts.

The second child has three sons. He usually likes to cry and sympathize with the poor, and his parents always have a special preference for him. It is said that crying children have milk to drink, and the good ones at home should be doubled. Brothers and sisters have conflicts because their parents' affairs are too conspicuous, and they often quarrel over trifles at ordinary times, making their families fidgety.

The parents mean that the second child will be given three houses if he has three sons, but the third child and the fourth child don't agree. The daughters-in-law of the third and fourth are not fuel-efficient lamps. They asked their parents why we could only give the second child three houses. Isn't it divided by the number of sons?

However, parents have repeatedly stressed that the second child has three sons. Do you know that?/You know what? I used this 600 thousand to marry my second child. What happened? If you have any complaints, sue me. Everyone thinks that what parents say is too much. Old three angrily ran to the village office to complain about the village cadres. People say that it is difficult for an honest official to break the housework, and the stool left before it was hot.

Parents prefer it, but their sons and daughters-in-law disagree. Because of this, they quarrel every day, and the brother-in-law is even more ruthless. Once, they quarreled and fought, but fortunately they had neighbors.

Sister-in-law's maiden neighbor, grandma's two sons, the eldest gave birth to three daughters, the youngest is a civil servant, and the first child is a daughter of 12 years old. Since the country opened the second child policy, she gave birth to a second child, a boy, the apple of her grandmother and mother's eye. At first, my sister liked my brother very much, but after a long time, I noticed that my grandmother and mother had changed for her, and I couldn't feel the love I used to have. My mother likes to scold her and often says that my brother is grandma's favorite.

The feeling that a little princess who was once loved was suddenly put in the cold, this sister can't stand this kind of neglect. One day, my sister grabbed my brother's head and punched a big blood bag while grandma and mom and dad were not at home.

I don't know if anyone has ever encountered such a thing.

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How terrible is it that parents are biased? Family discord, brother and sister become enemies! Zhoukou man drove his mother out of the house, and six brothers and sisters became enemies. Who is the cold son's heart? On the morning of June 5438+February 1 2020, an old lady who lives in Zhoukou City, Henan Province called the column group for help, saying that she was kicked out of the house by her son three years ago and begged for help many times, but her son refused. This incident not only made the old lady's neighbors well known, but also made her six children make enemies.

After receiving the phone call from the old lady, the column team immediately rushed to the son's house with the old lady and five daughters. A group of people confronted him and asked his son why he drove the old lady who was over sixty out of the house.

Originally, the column group thought that the son and daughter-in-law were not filial, so they drove the old mother out of the house. But I didn't expect that under questioning, I found that the truth of the matter was not the case.

Seeing his mother and five sisters rushing into the house with reporters, the old lady's son Xiao Li was so angry that tears fell to the ground. Later, Xiao Li wronged and explained that he didn't drive his mother out of the meeting. All the reasons are just because she was beaten cold by her mother and five sisters.

The old lady and her husband gave birth to five daughters. The reason why they adopted Xiao Li was to support the elderly. Later, the daughters gradually became monks, and the adopted son Xiao Li also got married and started a family. After the old lady's husband died, her 90-year-old grandmother and old lady were raised by her adopted son Xiao Li.

Adopted son Xiao Li is simple and honest, and his wife is also a well-known honest man in the village. Their husband and wife treat the old lady like their own children, and they are considerate and respectful every day.

However, three years ago, the Li family received a notice that the house in their hometown needed to be demolished. At that time, Xiao Li's five sisters insisted on taking grandma and mom to live at home in order to divide the house and the demolition money.

But I didn't expect that the old house had not been demolished after half a year, and the wishes of the five sisters fell through, so I discussed sending my grandmother and old mother back to my younger brother Xiao Li's family for support.

At that time, Xiao Li had already been heartbroken by her mother and five sisters, so she refused her mother's request to move home and only wanted to support her 90-year-old grandmother. After all, she is the mother of her parents. The old lady has no hope of going home, scolds her adopted son for being heartless, and takes her daughter to her adopted son's house every once in a while to make a scene.

Neighbors know that the old lady and her daughter are unreasonable and advise them not to be too selfish. However, the old lady and her daughters ignored it, and they simply found the media and column group to expose their adopted son Xiao Li, forcing him to support himself.

Under the patient mediation of the column group, the honest and kind adopted son Xiao Li and his wife finally agreed to take his mother home and promised to support the elderly. The five daughters of the old lady also expressed their sincere apologies to their younger brother and regretted what they did three years ago. In this way, the old lady and her six children were told that the family was happy.

In fact, if it weren't for the old lady's partiality, there wouldn't be a chilling scene today. Fortunately, the adopted son Xiao Li was kind-hearted, and finally let go of the past and forgave her!

It doesn't matter if parents are biased and the conditions are poor. I'm afraid it's the parents who bully the weak and fear the hard. The more filial, the more tolerant. Instead, I think you are easy to bully. Kiss up to the tough kid with good conditions or the one who is more favored, and follow the trend everywhere, hurting the good kid.

/kloc-ran away from home at the age of 0/6, and then called home to make money. More than 10 thousand but less than 5 thousand every year. My mother said to keep it for me and give it to me when I am busy. When I grow up, I give money every time I go back. I pay for gold earrings, gold necklaces and gold bracelets, and I buy houses at home. I bought a sofa, a range hood, a TV, an air conditioner, a washing machine and a refrigerator at home, and my mother got a wedding gift of100000. I also gave my mother a gift for giving birth. Oh, I raised my brother. After studying hairdressing here for more than a year, I went to be a soldier for two years. After coming back, he stayed in my city for three years. I provide food, clothing and shelter in the middle of the university. In other words, apart from being a soldier for two years, the family didn't give him a penny. Up to now, I have raised my son for them for five years. I don't want to raise it now, nor do I want my brother to buy a house. My mother has been crying for all kinds of money. I asked her where the money went, and she was so anxious that she quarreled with me. I just hung up the phone. That night, she called my brother and said that she could borrow160,000, and it would cost 370,000 to buy a house. My husband said to lend him some money these days. The next day, my mother called me in tears and said that she would give me100000 if she stayed up all night. I said I didn't need to give it to my brother or buy me a house. I hung up without saying a few words. People are full, but the whole family is not hungry. My mother always feels sorry for my brother. How much I have paid for this family is blind? My brother followed me to eat my rice and drink my flowers. I even paid the tuition and living expenses. I'm sorry for my brother. Then my brother said he would not buy a house, and now he has no money. In fact, my brother and my family think that I just want my husband to find a way. They think that's what I should do when I marry a rich man. They can't see that I can't lift my head at my husband's house and don't care about the house. It's not that I don't help my brother. I don't want to.

Parents must not be partial. Eccentricity can easily lead to bad feelings between brothers and sisters before, and children who get no attention have poor sense of security, self-confidence and sensitivity.

The two sons of a friend's family are cute because the younger one goes to kindergarten, so the parents are younger and the younger one is overbearing and irritable. For example, when they eat a buffet, my brother takes a few foods that he likes, and he eats them. If my brother doesn't give it to him, he will lose his temper, and his parents will ask him to give it to his brother, so you can get it yourself, or give it to his brother first and his mother will get it for you later. Basically, he will let him get them again. The older ones can only bear it, and it's no use resisting it. After all, for him, his parents are his reliance, and he can only listen to his parents, but he will definitely have a problem with his brother in his heart. When he is old and independent, he will reconsider, or his parents prefer the younger one. This old man will definitely feel unfair.

How scary are eccentric parents? I am afraid that only children who have experienced it personally have the deepest understanding. It is a kind of heart-wrenching pain, and the damage caused by such relatives is irreparable for life. Sometimes even the onlookers will feel chilling and chills.

Life is not in TV series, nor is it what people think, and it can be woven into a perfect ending. There is an old couple in our village, whose family is poor and they have three sons. The boss is simple and honest, dropping out of school early to help support his younger brother at home, so that he can go to college, and he has not married a wife in his early thirties. Parents prefer the second and third children to the boss. Everyone praised our second and third children for their great achievements, and when they came home, they pointed to their noses and called the boss "loser". Later, the boss saved tens of thousands of dollars to marry his second son first, and the boss was driven out to work in the coal kiln to earn money. In the coal mine accident, the boss was killed, and the family got a pension of 200 thousand. The old couple also used the money to buy a building for their third son to get married. The villagers all say that these two mouths are eccentric and cruel to the boss. Later, the old couple couldn't walk and kept asking their parents for money. Spoiled sons, you push me and I push you, but you don't feed the elderly. Finally, they didn't take a sip of hot water. People say this is the result of parents' partiality!

In fact, parents' partiality is human nature. After all, the palms are all meat, and the five fingers are not generally aligned. Children live well, parents don't have to ask for old-age care, and children live in poverty, and parents will try their best to help. The terrible thing is that the doting on children has reached the point of stubbornness, and another child has to be sacrificed. Such parents must be incompetent, and the ending will often be very tragic!