What is a fake bestie?

Thank you Wukong for the invitation. What is a fake best friend?

1. She obviously hates you but still pretends to be nice to you.

2. She is very nice to you, but speaks ill of you in front of others.

3. You are the one I see day and night, and I think I can talk to her about everything, but she hides many things from you.

4. She also said that the person she hated was very good to him.

5. Your best friend betrayed you, and you can’t even give sincerity in friendship.

Showing off her life to you, you exist only to satisfy her sense of superiority.

Jealousy and envy throw cold water on you. There is a kind of best friend who will not bless you when she sees you doing well. Instead, she will envy you and even be jealous of you. All your efforts to be better than her will be ridiculed and even throw cold water on you.

I silently compare myself with you. Although I don’t say it, I always regard you as a competitive target, and even claim your experience and wisdom as my own.

Promote your privacy. Everyone has their own secrets that they don’t want others to know. At her urging, you shared your secrets with her. She promised you not to tell them. However, She has shared your secrets with many friends. She has no sense of privacy and does not respect you. The secrets you hide in her heart are just a joke for fun in his mouth.

When she dictates your life and helps you with random ideas, she doesn’t pay much attention to what kind of difficulties you are facing. She just wants to show that she is very wise, so as to gain a sense of superiority and satisfaction.

She treats you like a servant. You always wait for her every time she goes on a date. She never thinks of you when something good comes up. She is the first to come to you when she needs help, but you have no reason to say it. If you don’t spoil her, Instead, I felt like I was being too petty. Real friends help each other and rely on each other. Remember, you don't have to tolerate her princess disease.

The scariest thing is that she is always staring at the resources in your hands, your clients, your capable friends, and even your significant other. Once she feels that what you have is better than her, she will find ways to let you enjoy it.

In the face of these "best friends", it is more serious to show off your skin as early as possible. Many women are always not wary enough of such friends, or tolerate them repeatedly. In fact, only when you really cut off contact will you find that the situation is not as ugly as you imagined, and your life will become a lot easier.

Thanks for the invitation! Answer: "My heart is real, my appearance is empty"! Borrowing two sentences from Li Shangyin's "Untitled": "The spring silkworms will not run out of silk until they die, and they will have a clear understanding." These two lines of poetry use a contrasting approach to distinguish and understand things and emotions, and these two lines of poetry are exactly the loyalty and understanding of love and affection, but they must be bound around this theme and within this scope. This is the relationship between love and affection. Loyalty of affection and love!

The smiling faces on the outside do not represent what is in the heart, it is the feeling, who is the affection given to? Friends are not friends, best friends are not best friends, my heart is only for those who are amiable! Maybe he is worth hundreds of millions and is covered in gold. That’s just an appearance. Strong blood and deep love at the sight of fire! The brocade robe is worn, but the ambition of a wolf-dog is within. Only on the surface, not with the heart! It's greedy hypocrisy, and you can't see the sincerity! Its depth lies in its appearance, its heart rather than its newness. Rather than being too deep to win the love of your best friend, it's better to understand that friendship will last forever!

It’s not disrespectful to see someone who is with your best friend, and it’s not disrespectful to look too far away. See through the difference, see through the deep labor! It is the distinction between true and false, and it is also the land of etiquette. Thank you everyone for reading! There are still many fake besties in the sports world, such as Shen Xixi and Cui Minjing of Korean short track speed skating.

About a hundred days before the opening ceremony of the 2022 Beijing Winter Olympics, the domestic sports world has begun to warm up for this ice and snow feast. Olympic officials celebrated the birthday of Chinese figure skater Liu Xinyu, and of course they talked about his beautiful dance partner Wang Shiyue. The two won the ice dance championship at the "Meet in Beijing" Asian Figure Skating Open. On the other hand, retired female figure skating player Li Zijun recently posted beautiful photos. A white T-shirt shows her youth and beauty, and her show of affection can also be felt through Li Zijun's social account. Now, how would her former rumored boyfriend Fan Zhendong feel when he sees her current situation?

I believe that many fans who follow Korean short track speed skating champion Shen Xixi cannot accept the news that she was expelled from the Korean short track speed skating team.

Especially after knowing that Shen Xixi came back after being violated, he actually complained about his teammates and even deliberately tripped them. According to foreign media "chosun", Shen Xixi engaged in illegal eavesdropping in the locker room and was involved in a factional struggle within the team. The head coach asked Cui Minjing to voluntarily give up the gold medal to Shen Xixi. It is reported that the complaint against Shen Xixi has been successful, and relevant units will investigate the world short track speed skating champion.

Because of this, some media broke the news that Shen Xixi had been expelled from the Korean short track speed skating team. It is reported that this kind of punishment is mainly based on the decision made after the previous text messages between Shen Xixi and the coach were exposed. It can be understood from the text messages that Shen Xixi may have intentionally tripped a teammate during the 2018 Winter Olympics. Therefore, the Korean Speed ??Skating Federation said on Wednesday that it was preparing to launch an investigation and ban 24-year-old Shen Shixi from participating in the International Skating Union Short Track World Cup Championships starting next week. In other words, Shen Xixi jumped from the violated "silly white sweet" to the "speed skating bully".

In this era, athletes can also win glory for the country, so their appearance on a big stage like the Olympics attracts special attention. Liu Xinyu just won the ice dance championship in Beijing and received official birthday celebrations from the Olympic Games. It can be said that he has reached the pinnacle of his life. Fan Zhendong is on the rise in his career, so he should put his children's personal relationships behind him. After all, when you win glory for your country, you can only gain honor by putting all your heart into it. And this is what Korean short track speed skaters need to learn.

For example, this one in the news below!

To express her love, a woman defrauded her online dating "boyfriend" of 420,000 yuan, and finally found out that she was pretending to be her best friend

People often ask questions about online dating on the Internet Questions like "Is online dating reliable?" and "Is there deception in online dating?" People say that the public is right and the mother-in-law is right about this. Some netizens think that how can a relationship that is intangible and invisible be reliable? Others think that there are many successful examples of online dating in reality, so why is it unreliable? This has also become a topic of discussion.

Although "fire prevention, theft prevention, and girlfriend prevention" is a joke ridiculed by netizens, more and more people recognize it. But what happens when you meet such a best friend online? Just like the story I’m going to tell today, the bestie in the news is a perfect example of evil intentions.

On November 16, the news media reported this fraud case between "best friends". This case occurred in the Baise area of ??Guangxi, and the incident can be traced back to the 2nd of this month.

At 21:00 on the evening of the 2nd of this month, a man came to the Matou Police Station of Pingguo County Public Security Bureau in Baise, Guangxi to call the police. The man, whose surname was Huang, reported that he had been defrauded of 420,000 yuan by a classmate from his elementary school, who was now out of contact. After hearing the details of the fraud case, the police arrested the elementary school classmate mentioned by the man Huang at 23:00 that night.

This primary school classmate is called Huang Qi (pseudonym), and she is a young girl. In May this year, I met my boyfriend Huang Rui (pseudonym) through a certain software online. The boyfriend needed money for his own career development, so Huang Qi asked the reporter Huang to lend money to her boyfriend to show her love and loyalty. Until the end of October, Huang was defrauded of more than 420,000 yuan by Huang Qi under the pretext of borrowing money.

The “boyfriend” lost contact after receiving the more than 420,000 yuan. Based on Huang Qi's oral account, the police discovered that in addition to 350,000 of the 420,000 that was transferred to Huang Rui's card, another 70,000 was transferred to Huang Rui's card by his best friend.

As a result, my best friend Ma was asked about the situation by the police, but the policeman handling the case found that Ma was evasive when telling the details. After careful questioning by the police, Ma confessed that he was the "male netizen"! This scam was directed and performed by myself!

It is understood that Huang Qi and Ma met in a bar a year ago, and the two girls quickly developed into best friends. In May this year, Huang Qi fell in love with a man in a bar and couldn't help herself. This man was Huang Rui, which was seen by his girlfriend Ma who was traveling with him.

Ma had a "wrong brain" about the situation, lied that he knew Huang Rui, and registered a new WeChat account to defraud Huang Qi. Every day, Huang Qi took the initiative to strike up a conversation, and "Huang Rui" played by Ma also fell in love with Huang Qi.

Every time her best friend Ma "borrows" money from Huang Qi, she will take her and her friends to the bar to spend some money.

This made Huang Qi wonder: How could a best friend without a job or financial resources be so generous?

After the matter was investigated, the criminal suspect Huang Qi and his best friend Ma were criminally detained by the Pingguo County Public Security Bureau in accordance with the law. Currently, the case is still under further investigation and evidence collection.

After reading the news, I said: My best friend’s idea is unexpected. What circumstances led her to defraud her best friend Huang Qi? Perhaps, Ma also has his own "difficulties" in his heart. However, no matter how difficult it is, you can't defraud others, and it's still your best friend. This time, Huang Qi's primary school classmate Huang reported the case, which indirectly proved that the saying "the sky is vast, no omissions are missed" is not empty talk.

Finally, I hope everyone can contribute to the creation of a harmonious society. "A world without thieves" is people's expectation and the direction of people's efforts in a harmonious society.

Thank you for the invitation. You can see your heart through time. True besties and fake besties are not about how close you are, but you can see your heart when you are in trouble

1. What is a best friend? She is someone who accompanies you through the darkness and welcomes the dawn. She helps you when you are in the most difficult times. She is not by your side but is helpless when you are shining brightly. I will always be by your side

2. I love to take advantage of you. Every time I go out to eat or play, you are always the one spending money

3. Will Silently comparing with you

4. If she sees you doing better than her, she will be envious and jealous

5. Show off your own Showing off how beautiful and expensive your clothes are in life will make you envious of her

6. Pointing fingers at your life

7. Treat her as someone you are attacking When two people go shopping, they always ask you to take things

8. Reveal your privacy. Tell others some of your little secrets and let many people laugh at you

< p> 9. If you have a boyfriend but he is also the type she likes, he will try to do something wrong. She will hit your boyfriend. There is a saying that it is good to be fire-proof, anti-theft and anti-bestie. It is not unreasonable

Whether you are making best friends or friends, you should be cautious. Real friendship is sometimes better than love. People's hearts can change. You are real and I am real

Do you have fake best friends around you?

The following is the story of a girl in high school. The following is described in the first person.

To be specific, she and I have been pseudo-friends for seventeen years.

I truly regard her as a friend. But I don’t know that one time, I went to her house to play, and her mother said: "Oh, Xiao Liu, our Tingting said in school that your mother was very good to her, and she often bought her meals and fetched water. Hiring a maid is not so considerate. "Damn it, it sounds like she thinks I am her daughter's little follower. Her mother and my mother were also best friends, so we basically played together since childhood. Her mother has always compared her daughter with me since childhood, saying that her daughter is prettier than me, and that her daughter studies better than me. Whether she looks good or not is her mother’s own opinion, I won’t comment. But she studied well, and I was speechless. I'm in the top ten in school, and she's in the top 100. I can't tell from this that she studies well.

He said bad things about me in front of friends we are not very close to. She just played with me because I felt pity and had no one to play with. Then, she said that my learning ability was poor and I needed to copy her homework frequently, but she was very reluctant to copy it for me.

After knowing that she discussed me behind my back like this, I deliberately alienated her for a long time.

I refused to play or go shopping with me on weekends. I really consider her a friend, but she thinks I'm irrelevant.

She belongs to the special green tea series. We used to have a senior who played very well with us. She often said in front of me that this senior chased her and loved her so much. In fact, she always went to other people's dormitories to pretend to be weak and refused to leave. Her personal love life is chaotic, and she often tells me how many boys chased her in junior high school.

Oh my god, you are about 1.5 meters tall and have a long face. How do you look like the beauty of the class? Yes, she said she was once the class beauty. I endured it, she always brainwashed the people around us like this, saying she was very beautiful and many people followed her. I really feel that I am very beautiful for no reason, more beautiful than China, more beautiful than the world, more beautiful than the sky, more beautiful than the universe.

In life, they always plot against me, using my cosmetics, whichever is more expensive. I used her things and told me to sell them to me. One lipstick has been used for more than half, and there is almost nothing left. She said to sell it to me at the original price. Her boyfriend, because he thinks she has money and is with her, shows off how much her boyfriend loves her in the circle of friends every day. I really don’t want to say it, her boyfriend has probably cheated on her a long time ago.

She always belittles me when there are many people. My really good friend won't stop playing with me because of what she said, but many strangers around me began to laugh at me because she said bad things and embarrassed me.

She once did a particularly disgusting thing, which was to test whether I had a relationship with her boyfriend. Once, she said in a joking tone that people around her said that her boyfriend and I were a little close. She also said that she should be careful about fire, theft, and besties, so she should be careful about me. He said that if I had any evil thoughts, he would use his family connections to make it impossible for me to stay in this city.

Haha, I was so angry that I couldn’t speak. Your boyfriend is handsome, but his character is really not that good. Her boyfriend broke off relations with his biological parents in order to marry into their family. You say such a trashy man is the only one you can pick out from the trash heap.

Recently there is another thing about her that I particularly disagree with. She hired an aunt at home to clean up for her. She and her boyfriend were very proud to say that they were helping the poor by hiring that mother, and that the aunt was not worth that much money at all. He also said that my aunt was from a rural area and had probably never eaten steak. When eating steak, use chopsticks. Her boyfriend also imitated that aunt's behavior, which made people around him laugh. The couple's expressions are extremely disgusting.

To be honest, she just looks down on others and is willing to laugh at them. In her world, there are only those who are better than her and those who are not as good as her. So many times when we chat, about the same person, I often say that this person has a good character, but she usually pays attention to how powerful this person is. She only has eternal interests in her eyes and no friends.

To this little girl, I want to say: I’m done with this morning. People with bad character can never stop talking to each other. How do you become friends?

I really like Yu Qiuyu’s description of friendship. Only when two people can become friends without any interests involved can they be called friendship. Two people quarreled over a problem, but in the end the problem was over. It didn't affect their relationship and it was still friendship.

In fact, time will help us delete those true friendships. You should be relieved to face her falsehood. Because you are sincere and she is false.

Someone told me that pure friendship does not exist between women. How many times have you seen your best friend cheat on your friend's boyfriend?

When it comes to emotional rankings, women tend to put love before friendship. So when you threaten her love, she threatens to test you. In fact, there is no need to be angry or troubled about this. You know from the appearance that this person does not regard you as a true best friend. So breaking up is the best choice, don't hesitate and be sloppy.

I believe that there are real best friends in the world, and there are people who really value their friends. Best friends are a relationship between sisters and love. Best friends are actually very ambiguous in many cases. She will take care of you like a family member and a boyfriend, and will stand up for you when you are helpless. I don't like the kind of bestie-sister relationship where two people are tired of being together every day. It feels too plastic. I like the true spiritual connection between two people. I know what you are thinking without you having to say anything.

Best friends are actually love between same-sex people, don’t you think?

Fake besties! It should be obvious to the person involved! It probably feels like there will be a few points!

1-They will say bad things about you behind your back! Being outspoken is desirable!

2-Belittle you and elevate yourself! It is advisable to lift each other up!

3-Habitually deceive you! A white lie is not a white lie!

4-Sell your secrets! Best friends will keep each other warm and comfort each other!

5-I really can’t make it up anymore! hey-hey!

I feel that the relationship between women is so fragile! Because women's roles and positions in life change so quickly that they have no time to take care of too many girlfriends! Women are naturally very adaptable to role changes, and best friends all go through stages, right?

I never retouch your photos for group photos

Well, this type of fake bestie is quite damaging. When taking selfies with you, they make themselves look so beautiful in the photos. , but never cares about you, even if you are better looking than her and have a better body than her, after a photo editing session, your image has completely become stubby and black. Not only that, but these photos will also be made public.

Deliberately exposing your shortcomings in front of others

Since she is your so-called best friend, she must know your shortcomings. When there are a lot of people, I will loudly expose your shortcomings, but when I face your reproachful look, I will show that I didn't mean it. If you have any intention, you will definitely put a hat on your head, and you will Show your innocence.

Express yourself in front of your boyfriend

By the way, such so-called best friends are absolutely wicked, right? My boyfriend, what do you think? What do you want to do? In front of your boyfriend, try your best to express yourself, even to the point of slandering you. In your questioning eyes, you will immediately say that I was so naive that I didn't pay attention, or that I was testing your boyfriend for you.

Help you choose clothes that are not suitable for you

If your body is better than hers, when you buy clothes together, she will definitely choose clothes that are not suitable for you at all. Compliment you with all your strength on how beautiful you look when you put it on, and how good your temperament is when you put it on. You believed her words to be true, but unexpectedly she burst into laughter inside.

Claim your achievements as your own

If you go to school or work together, you will be tricked to death by such so-called best friends. Your achievements after hard work, she will definitely say in front of others and even in front of the boss that it is the result of her own efforts, such as doing it for you. Because of your relationship, others will believe it to be true.

Taking advantage of you and suppressing you

I can use your salary to show off myself but never pay it back, and at the same time tell others that you are old-fashioned and can’t show off yourself, and I am with you You always pay for meals, coffee, and games, but you will tell others that if she hadn't taken you with her, you wouldn't know how to drink coffee.

One death and one lifetime is the knowledge of friendship. One is poor and the other is rich, which is a state of acquaintance. One is noble and the other is humble, friendship is about seeing each other.

A gentleman is as light as water, and love becomes truer with time. Small people are like honey, and they are like enemies in a blink of an eye.

***Teach everyone!

I am a man and I can’t explain clearly. But I think the authenticity of a best friend can be seen by how she behaves. Those who sincerely help you and those who want to take advantage of you can be distinguished after a few things. Some people often think that the boyfriend of a best friend is a fake best friend, which is very immoral. In fact, whether the best friend is good or not has nothing to do with the boyfriend. Best friends are friendship, men and women are love. Once a person falls in love, all feelings are no longer love. Let me ask you another question, since he is your boyfriend, why do you let others take it away? If you can let others take it away, it is not worth cherishing. If you have a falling out with your best friend because of someone who does not belong to you, you might as well give it to your best friend directly, otherwise you will be shot twice.