Have you heard the story of the tragedy caused by the reunion of classmates?

Ms. Peng built a three-story building at home, and invited more than a dozen junior high school students to "warm up" at home when she moved to a new home. What people didn't expect was that it was because of Ms. Peng's class reunion that she was buried in a terrible disaster.

Ms. Peng has a junior high school classmate group, and she has been chatting with her classmates in the group on weekdays. This year, Ms. Peng's family built a new three-story building. When the students heard about it, they all said that they would come to her house to warm her house. So she naturally invited her classmates to get together at her home, including Zhou Xiao, who lives in the same village with her.

After the students came, they pushed a cup on the wine table for a change and talked about life. As soon as the wine was hot, Mr. Peng picked up his mobile phone and took many photos and recorded many videos for his classmates. No one noticed Zhou Xiao, a silent and unhappy male classmate sitting in the corner.

Soon after, Zhou Xiao came to see Ms. Peng alone, saying that she recorded his video and audio, and published rumors against him. Ms. Peng showed him the live video and audio, and asked her classmates to testify for her. The classmate also vowed that it was nothing, but those who walked into a dead end refused to believe what Ms. Peng and her classmates said.

At this point, Zhou Xiao's life is at a low point. When his mother died, he divorced his wife, did some business in the town and lost money. Every time he thinks that other students get along well at the class reunion, and he is the only one whose career and family have failed, he gets angry. Besides, he felt that other students knew his situation and no one could respect him, and all this was caused by Ms. Peng, so he decided to kill Ms. Peng to vent his personal anger.

One day not long after, he secretly hid in the third floor of Ms. Peng's house with a knife. Ms. Peng found someone hiding in her house and called relatives for help. When Ms. Peng took her relatives to the third floor, he picked up a knife and took a knife on Ms. Peng's neck. Ms. Peng fell down the stairs on the spot and fainted. He was also subdued by Ms. Peng's relatives and sent to the police station.

Relatives sent Ms. Peng to the hospital. The doctor said that the injury was serious and gave a critical notice to her relatives and friends. Fortunately, after the doctor's hard work, Ms. Peng saved her life.

Ms. Peng, who came home from the hospital, was frightened and hoped to get the punishment she deserved. Unexpectedly, in the end, her injury was only recognized as minor injuries, and Zhou Xiao stayed in the police station for two days before being released. Later, Ms. Peng discovered that she had a cousin who worked in the county bureau.

After coming back, Zhou Xiao was more fearless and determined to kill Ms. Peng, so he observed the time when Ms. Peng went out in advance.

One morning, Ms. Peng rode a motorcycle to send her son and niece to school. Zhou Xiao drove the borrowed car straight into Ms. Peng and pushed the motorcycle 70 meters, causing Ms. Peng to die on the spot. Crazy Zhou Xiao backed up and knocked down Ms. Peng's struggling son. Only Ms. Peng's niece recovered her life.

After the incident, Zhou Xiao drove his car and knocked down his door. He failed to commit suicide and then absconded. After a week, he couldn't bear the pressure and ran back to surrender.

This is a tragedy caused by reunion. If Ms. Peng hadn't organized a class reunion and Zhou Xiao hadn't come, then Ms. Peng and her son could still live happily in the sun, but there is no regret medicine to sell in this world, which can only be left to the living to think about. Is reunion really meaningful?

I have heard that a good family was separated because of attending a class reunion, so it is not keen on class reunion. I also have a group of classmates on WeChat, but I seldom speak, just feel meaningless, because the discussion between classmates is nothing more than who is developing well and who is rich now. In short, wealth is the hero. Simple classmates' feelings have changed a long time ago. I always find excuses to get rid of any classmates to organize parties, because I am afraid I can't get along.

Before, I was a little sorry for repeatedly refusing to attend the class reunion. Seeing this tragedy now, I firmly believe that it is absolutely right to not attend the class reunion. Seeing this, dare you go to the class reunion?

A classmate took the civil service exam and passed the written interview all the way, which was very good. Before reporting for duty, I specially invited a group of friends who were very good at school to get together in the city. At this time, among a group of students who came out of the countryside, he was already a leader and successful person in this circle. Who knows, this gathering actually changed the fate of two young people and caused the misfortune of two families.

We drank a lot and talked for a long time. All along, I only heard the students who were admitted to the civil service say something with a victorious smile. One by one, his old classmates bowed their heads and drank wine. How many civil servants were there in these small places a few years ago? At that time, everyone's understanding of civil servants was also based on imagination: a stable iron rice bowl, holding power, can solve the thorny problems of ordinary people in one sentence. ...

After graduating from technical secondary school, most students casually find a factory to work and earn a meager salary every month to support their families; Some people think that their wages are low, they go out to work and live a wandering life; Some people have to go home to farm and take care of their parents because of family problems.

Everyone has been drinking for a long time, and the students who have been admitted to civil servants are getting more and more excited. His success shows the failure of others. The more proud he is, the more self-abased other students are.

At some point, a poor classmate stood up and pointed to the civil servant and cursed. Civil servants are not to be outdone. Driven by alcohol, the quarrel between the two became more and more fierce. The classmate took an empty wine bottle and hit it on the head of the civil servant. ...

Because of the serious injury, civil servants did not come to the rescue. He should have reported to the company the next day, but he reported to another place in this way. And the classmate who hit people was punished for it.

Classmates get together, get together and read the kindness of the year. However, no relationship in the world is eternal, whether it is good or bad. At that time, everyone stood on the same starting line, and there was not much disparity in status. Although there will be comparisons and jealousy at that time, because everyone stands on the same level, the degree involved is not deep.

Once everyone's standing posture changes, students who were similar to you and me suddenly strode, and suddenly there would be a hurdle in their hearts. If you are not happy, the luck of others seems to be an insult and a burden to yourself. People who are not in the same class can never be together, nor can everyone play together.

Sometimes, compared with the partners around me, I really live more successfully than others. You should not be complacent, but also stand in the position of others and consider their self-esteem. When getting along with others, people in high positions have the responsibility to lower their posture and reduce your sense of superiority in order to achieve psychological balance.

In addition, the strong should be with the strong and the weak should be with the weak. Even if they wrangle with each other, there is no big problem. They all have similar living environment, because from the appearance, they seem to be evenly matched. When the strong and the weak are together, the disparity in strength is great. Even if what the strong man says is normal, in the ears of the weak, he will feel extremely ugly, which is contempt and contempt for him.

If the strong are still laughing at the weak, laughing at the incompetence of the weak, in order to raise themselves, it is more likely to cause unnecessary tragedies.

There are a few people in the world who can do what Lutz did and still laugh and laugh in the face of well-dressed nobles. Because most people can't do it, try to choose someone with your same frequency.

Twenty years ago, there was an attempted rape in No.1 Middle School. The suspect was dismissed as a minor. The reason for the attempted rape was that a hero saved America. Twenty years later, three parties to the case appeared at the class reunion. Their identity: the suspect is self-employed; The rescuer became the boss; Beauty is an obstetrician; The scenery is still breathtaking. The boss is already a fat and greasy uncle and a self-employed person who loves outdoor sports. He has a straight posture and played for twenty years. I wonder if the grudge is still hidden in my heart.

There were more than 50 people in their class at that time. Except for one who died of illness and five who were busy with work, the others came all the way. Everyone got together, recalled the past, and had a good chat. Of course, everyone remained silent about the scandal that year, because all three parties were there. After three rounds of wine and five flavors of food, the chat atmosphere is getting better and better. Female students talk about their children and beauty, while male students show off their achievements.

As a billionaire, the boss naturally becomes the object of everyone's pursuit. Because of his excellent grades and his courage, he was sent to a famous 985 university. After resigning from the government, he worked in a high-tech company and became a bachelor. Yes, the boss is still a person, and there are countless confidants. Nominally, he and the self-employed are the same person, but the self-employed are far from it.

That affected his criteria for choosing a spouse, so he had to find a woman in a remote mountainous area. This woman is rude and doesn't know many words, but everything is fine. She belongs to a person with little skill and temper. She gave birth to two girls' films in a row and was very depressed. I hate my husband going out for outdoor sports with some sluts, so I often fight and quarrel.

During the whole dinner, the self-employed people were very polite and didn't say much. They didn't look annoying, but because of the psychological shadow of that incident, everyone subconsciously ignored him. He doesn't seem to care. When the wine was hot, an unexpected guest suddenly came. Who is it?

This is a woman. Accurately speaking, this is a hideous, juryman-faced, unremarkable woman. Her appearance shocked everyone, thinking that someone was in the wrong room, and that woman didn't say hello to anyone. She looked around and went straight to the beauty doctor and said, are you the woman who was almost slept with by my man? Not so good, except for the white spots on the skin, it is not as big as NZ. Everyone was stunned by her rudeness.

Self-employed people take three steps at a time and drink in a low voice. What are you doing here? Are you out of your mind? Go home. When you go back, both employers and employees will take care of you. Obstetricians don't have much emotion. Except for her white face, she just looked at the strange woman coldly, looked at her mouth watering, and said nothing to herself. Several students next to her are already angry, as if they are rubbing their hands.

Women don't buy their husbands' accounts. She is yelling at her husband. Your son hid her picture in the computer. When I don't know, my mother doesn't know computers, but dolls do. At this time, everyone can't help but look at the self-employed with special respect. Self-employed also forgot face, a slap in the face, crisp voice resounded through the room.

Before everyone could react, the woman jumped on him and they fought in full view. A woman is like a tigress, tearing wildly, and a man almost loses his mind. He tried to break free, but the woman still clung to him. The flustered man reached out and grabbed a fruit knife from the table and stabbed his wife in the abdomen, only to hear a piercing scream. Suddenly the chicken flew and the dog jumped, and everyone called the police.

The injured were rushed to the hospital, and the knife holder was taken away by the police. At this time, everyone felt like a dream. At this time, everyone's face was dignified and there was no initial jubilation. People kept silent about the leftovers, and the boss spoke. The economic base determines the right to speak. He apologized and said that the party should not be organized. A also apologized, fined himself three cups, and said not to invite self-employed. B also said that he should not be a liaison. In short, he blames himself. The obstetrician said I should be the last one to come. My colleagues and I transferred two classes to the party. Everyone said in unison, don't blame her, don't blame her, she almost became a victim that year. From beginning to end, she was the most innocent one. Is it wrong to be beautiful? Beauty is innocent, but it is the human heart that is guilty.

So a vigorous party ended in such a bleak way. It is estimated that they will never be together again.

In recent years, there have been many bloody cases caused by class reunion, many of which are caused by ambiguity. When people reach middle age, they should be careful at parties.

Somewhere, a male classmate cuddled a female classmate to sing, which led to a murder case, that is, the cuddled female classmate was killed by her husband. This matter is not rare. /kloc-at the end of 0/6, there was a tragedy of class reunion here. At the middle-aged classmate party, three male classmates were stabbed to death by the husband of a female classmate, and the other two died innocently enough to make people feel creepy. It is really dangerous. I still advise my male compatriots, when people reach middle age, please treat their 40 s and 50 s rationally and don't use class reunion to do this. So as not to harm others and yourself.

A friend of my relatives attended an old classmate's party and drank a male classmate to death. The daughter sued everyone who attended the party. Fortunately, the wife of the deceased was reasonable and asked her daughter to withdraw the lawsuit. The old classmates spontaneously gave the deceased's wife 10 thousand yuan each.

Then this friend and my relatives said, try not to participate in elderly activities. I really want to go. Let's sign the death certificate.

Just the summer vacation the year before last, a tragedy happened here because of the class reunion. Four students attending the party died on the spot in a car accident.

There were five people sitting on the accident vehicle, four adults died on the spot, and only one 9-year-old child was alive. One of these people is her father's hometown. She used to be the leader of a unit in our state. Two months before the accident, she just went to the following county as a deputy magistrate. 4 1, 42 years old, is also the organizer of the reunion. I heard that he was driving the car that caused the accident. After lunch, everyone went to the next place by bus in batches. Because it rained and the road was slippery in those days, on the way there, the car rolled over and turned over to the mountain forest under the subgrade.

There are also two parents of the surviving children, who are from our neighboring village and worked as teachers in the middle school in our town before the accident. The remaining one is also a middle school teacher in a county.

I heard from my sister that the couple in our neighboring village bought a house in the state capital before the accident, and their 9-year-old child also went to school in the city. After the child's parents had an accident, the child's uncle took the child back to his hometown to go to middle school, and the house was left to the child.

Don't say it's a house, just say the child's experience at that time. I don't know how scared and sad he is. How much influence will this shadow have on his later life? It's pathetic to think about it. Fortunately, he has a kind uncle.

Our technical secondary school classmates organized three parties, and I didn't attend one. The first time I didn't attend because I had something to do, the second time and the third time I felt boring. I think if we can talk, we can contact more at ordinary times. The communication equipment is so developed that we don't have to run in and out. If you can't speak, you will be there to listen to those who do well. I live alone. Whether he is well or not has nothing to do with me. So I don't want to be a boring audience and listener.

Don't show off your promotion, wealth, etc. In front of classmates and friends. The people who want you to be promoted and get rich most, except your parents and your daughter-in-law's children, are jealous! No one really wishes you well!

Why did you become a classmate? Because you live very close.

Most of us were "regional" when we were young. Being classmates means that we live very close, and our parents may still have roots.

On this basis, students with good grades leave their cities to go to college and work, while students with poor grades often come out to work early, which leads to the fact that the "life circle" of students with poor grades has not changed much because of their age.

Even if you buy a house, it is estimated that you will not buy it in other cities.

This is why we have the conditions for a party.

I have been to two parties in elementary school and junior high school, and I feel uncomfortable all over. Let's give a few examples.

1, I raised my glass to the old classmates present, and someone gave an ambiguous laugh, "Good students can drink."

2. One year, the "leading brother" kept boasting that he had many girls and slept well in the junior college, and also laughed at me as a virgin (at that time, I was a freshman).

After compulsory education, a classmate dropped out of school and started a barbecue city with his parents. He has a lot of assets in his family. He is wearing a suit in the style of Tik Tok. I really don't know how to describe it. The key of BMW jingles at the waist, and he is very proud to be called "Boss X" by others. He is discussing the replacement of a new car with the "leading brother" in the last article (follow-up: the first thing after buying a car, I have a trembling voice).

4. Adding many old classmates' WeChat has caused endless troubles. Today, relatives drink and drive, and tomorrow, brothers fight. The day after tomorrow, you will be asked to draw up a contract, and the day after tomorrow, you will be divorced and wrangled. yygq will call you barrister X (I am a student). I got tired of it and finally asked me to study international law.

A very good friend of mine wanted to talk to him, but he would only tell me how dangerous the society was and how difficult it was for him to have dinner with xx leaders recently. When I mentioned that I wanted to go to an investment bank, I waved my hand and said, "Why go to the bank? When the xx leader looked up to me and said that he would help me get a rural credit cooperative to mix with him, I didn't refuse "(he is now an auxiliary police).

On the contrary, a few people who had a normal relationship in those years, with an average of 265,438+065,438+0 masters, are now getting closer and closer, talking about academics, job hunting, mutual respect and getting along easily and moderately.