Three ways to make friends

There are three ways to make friends. Making friends can make life more interesting and meaningful. Good friends will also help your career and work development, and generally help your physical and mental development. Here are three ways to make friends.

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In fact, you don't have to be realistic to make friends. You can also make many reliable friends online.

For example, you can join a group that interests you. There are so many people in the group that you can always find interesting people and friends who want to chat with you as long as you type a few more words.

Because it is not in reality, everyone doesn't care. You can express yourself by typing what you want to say, but you should also be vigilant and not be cheated.

Some netizens are quite cute and reliable. They can tell what difficulties or sad things they have encountered, and some good friends will help you.

A friend of mine is very introverted. He only typed in the writing group and didn't speak. He added a like-minded friend. Once he was in a hurry to use money, and the other party took the initiative to transfer dozens of yuan. Regardless of the amount of money, this online friend is really reliable and cute.

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In the second way, if you have secrets or hobbies, you will also become good friends.

Like-minded friends are more reliable than friends who meet by chance.

For example, if someone around you likes reading novels, you can quietly recommend some. There are people around you who like a star, and you can also give them moral support.

Introversion just doesn't like to talk, but it doesn't mean not to talk. Occasionally, if you meet people and things you are interested in, you can take the initiative to express your views.

There are many friends who come together because of reading novels. What a lovely existence the native girl is! Usually very introverted, but when it comes to giving each other Amway sweet novels, they are as lively and lovely as rabbits, which makes people laugh and cry.

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There is another method, which should be regarded as the most effective one. You can achieve something.

No one doesn't want to make friends with excellent people. You should make secret efforts to surprise those who once despised you.

In reality, someone really did this, and it succeeded. When I was in primary school, there was a very introverted girl. Nobody pays attention to her at ordinary times, because she is not very gregarious.

But no one expected that she was the first in the class in the final exam. Then many students took the initiative to talk to her, and even if they were ignored, they still took the initiative to make friends with girls, feeling that girls were cold and interesting.

By the time she graduated from primary school, the introverted girl had many sincere good friends who helped her solve many troubles.

Three ways to make friends. Spend more time with others.

Be friendly to others, or you will not only fail to make new friends, but also lose old ones. If you want to make new friends, you must first create opportunities for yourself to get along with others. If you are a student, you might as well take the initiative to find a table with someone sitting with others. Someone's desk doesn't mean crowded, but there are at least two other students. If you only know how to shut yourself in and play games, don't expect anyone to come to play with you. You may want to make friends with some important people, but usually only a few intimate friends can accompany you for life. Moreover, people who are popular in your eyes are not necessarily difficult to approach. After they get to know you, they may be willing to make friends with you.

Second, join an organization or club.

Maybe you join the same group because you have the same interests, but if you have different interests, it will not affect the development of friendship at all. In fact, many close friends don't have the same hobbies. If you are interested in something, you might as well join a related club, and you will meet many new people! In addition, social networking sites such as Weibo and /Xin will also provide you with opportunities to make new friends. When chatting with strangers, you can ask them if they have a Facebook account. What's the name on Weibo? And temples, churches and other places are also good places to make new friends, because you at least have the same religious beliefs.

Third, join a sports club.

There is a common misunderstanding that you can't join a sports club unless you are good at sports. In fact, as long as you like sports, you can take part. Moreover, not all sports are competitive. Relax and fully support your teammates, so that you can make friends more easily in the club. Not necessarily a sports club, of course. If you are good at playing an instrument or singing, you can also join a band or choir. Participate in volunteer activities. You can make friends of all ages and meet like-minded people through volunteer activities.

Fourth, take the initiative to talk to people.

By actively participating in social activities, such as joining clubs, going to church, going to school, etc. You create opportunities for yourself to get along with others, but if you don't take the initiative to speak, you still can't make friends. In other words, even if you don't take part in these social activities, but take the initiative to find opportunities to talk to people, you may become a good friend for life. You can talk to anyone, including the conductor in the cinema, the passenger next to you on the bus, the lunch buyer in front of you, etc. As long as you are not picky, you can always find someone to talk to. Of course, the conversation between you may be just this once, or it may become a nodding acquaintance, but it may also become good friends.

Fifth, create opportunities to meet again.

Even if you talk to each other, if you only have one chance to talk, it is not enough to make you friends. Therefore, you should actively create opportunities to meet again. Especially for those who are hard to meet again, you should seize the opportunity now and make an appointment for each other's next activity.

Six, take the initiative to find people who are interested in hobbies.

If you find that the other person has the same interests as you, if it is convenient, you can ask him/her if he/she has joined a related group (such as a club). If the other party says yes, you can ask him/her how to join, which is a good opportunity for you to make more friends. If you clearly express your interest in this organization and the time and place are right, the other party is likely to invite you to participate. If you run a club or church, or have a band, if you think the other person is suitable, you can also leave your mobile phone number or email address on your own initiative. If the other party is interested, you can join.

Invite each other for lunch or afternoon tea.

This will give both sides more time to get to know each other. You can say, "Hey, I have to go, leave my mobile phone number/email address, and we can have lunch or afternoon tea together sometime." The other party may not leave their contact information voluntarily, because they don't want to make new friends, but it doesn't matter, at least you have created an opportunity for the other party to contact you. Leave contact information for friends you may make, and you will have unexpected gains.

Don't force each other to be your friends.

Don't hold a grudge because someone you know didn't invite you to the party; Don't call each other repeatedly and don't visit people frequently; Let alone stay at home. Friendship should be established step by step, and it takes a long time to become friends from people you know. Everyone has a desire for good things, but don't rush to realize them. If you are not sure what stage your friendship has reached, you can ask each other directly. Developing friendship too quickly or demanding too much will make people rebellious and scare people away. In many cases, they just turn around and leave.

Nine, treat friends sincerely

People are "as light as a feather" and "heavier than Mount Tai", so is friendship. Friendship "as light as a feather" refers to those friends who surround you in prosperity and run away when in danger. The connotation of friends should include people who are willing to spend time and energy helping each other when they are in trouble. When friends need help, when they are sad, stay with them. When friends tell jokes, they should laugh together. Never blame or complain about your friends. Let yourself be a qualified friend first. Once you have made friends, you should do your duty as a friend (such as actively organizing activities, remembering each other's birthdays, caring about each other's feelings, etc.). Otherwise, the friendship will not last long, and soon there will be a distance between you. Keep each other's secrets. Another connotation of friends is that they can confide in each other and keep secrets. To make the other person trust you enough, you must keep the other person's secret strictly and never reveal it to anyone except you. Studies show that humans are not good at keeping secrets. Therefore, before I open my heart to you, I must first improve my confidentiality and gain the trust of the other party.

10. Choose your friends rationally

When you make more and more friends, you will gradually find that some friends are much easier to get along with than others. Some friendships may even have a negative impact on you. For example, some people like to keep demanding, have a strong desire for control, like to be picky, and even bring dangerous factors to your life. At this time, you should decisively end this friendship. You can slowly fade out of their sight because you have to take part in some volunteer activities and have no time to get along with them (but don't say that you are taking part in volunteer activities and going out with another group of friends at the same time. If they know, it will be more difficult to clean up. )。 Cherish those friends who bring you positive energy and strive to bring positive energy to others.

Don't make fun of your friends in front of others.

And when someone makes fun of your friend, you should generously stand up and protect him/her. Stay confident. Many people are not confident enough to talk to strangers. Once you open your mouth, you should try your best to get rid of this mental disorder and maintain a confident dialogue. Don't let the other person alienate the original circle of friends because of you. Some people will be jealous when they see their friends chatting with others, and will try their best to destroy them. Most people don't like making such friends, so if you have this problem, you should correct it as soon as possible. Keep in touch. Many people are too busy or careless to contact their friends often. If you don't keep in touch with your friends often, your friendship will fade, and even if you try to keep in touch again one day, you won't return to your original intimate relationship.

Three ways to make friends 3 Make friends through parties.

As long as there are people, they will get together to have fun and communicate, because people don't like loneliness, like excitement and feel the satisfaction of communication. Party, such as hometown party, classmate party, colleague party, etc. Allow friends to introduce their friends to you so that you can meet more people.

Make friends by signing up for some training and learning institutions.

No matter at school or at work, there will be some societies and associations in the school. After taking part in the work, there will be some clubs, such as tourism, race walking, sports and calligraphy. You can choose according to your hobbies, join some organizations, get to know more people and make some friends. At the same time, you can also attend some training, such as management training.

Make friends through the internet.

The Internet is so developed that people can do things with it, such as shopping, traveling and watching news. They can also use social tools to make friends, or join some interest tribes such as Weibo and blogs to make friends.

Introduce through relatives

Go to relatives, relatives introduce you, and friends introduce you personally. You need to understand according to your own situation and become friends if appropriate.

In fact, as long as people are in contact with others in life, it is only a matter of how much, which depends on the nature and personality of the work. As long as you are active in life, you will have more opportunities to get in touch with the outside world and make more friends. But just because there are many people in contact doesn't mean that everyone can be friends with you. Because it is not difficult to make friends, that is, to get along with others enthusiastically and optimistically, and at the same time constantly improve your capital. Be curious about life and cultivate some hobbies, such as collection, sports, painting and calligraphy. Then go to some activities through these hobbies, and you will naturally meet the right friends.

Matters needing attention

The way to make friends is to create opportunities for yourself to go to crowded places, because many people will have the opportunity to know each other.