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What stories do mothers use to educate their children?

Every mother is an amazing woman because they not only give birth to children but also educate them. In order to help mothers educate their children better, the following is a short story that I share with you about mothers educating their children. I hope it can help you!

A short story about mothers educating their children

1 , Limited toys, unlimited fun

My daughter has had extremely limited toys since she was a child, and there are basically no electric ones. All the toys can be packed in a big bag. There are so few toys, not because of economic reasons, but because the fewer and simpler the toys for children, the easier it is to concentrate, the richer the imagination, and the more they know how to cherish things.

Children all like to play with water, and my daughter is no exception. My condition is that you can play with water, but only in the bathroom, and you must clean the bathroom yourself after playing. A small bucket, a basin, an empty Coke bottle, a funnel, and a small spoon can kill a whole afternoon. She will use the small bottle cap or small spoon to get the big Coke from the water in the bucket little by little. in a bottle.

Sometimes a funnel is used and sometimes not, a bottle is filled and poured into the basin. When the basin is full, the same method is used to pour

water into the bucket. Sometimes the above-mentioned various Press the big and small tools into the bucket, press into the basin, press to fill with water, press half to add water, press forward and backward, imagine various situations, one person has a great time playing, and never gets tired of it. .

In small classes, my daughter can sit there for an hour or two and concentrate on one thing.

Teletubbies was my daughter’s favorite show at the time, and it was also sold in shopping malls. She liked it very much, so I told her that she could have one on her birthday, and she could choose one of the four. She waited for her second Teletubbies on her second birthday, and everything she got after the long wait was worth cherishing.

Since she was a child, she had to wait for the things she wanted most. The longest wait was a whole year. So now she cherishes things very much, understands their value, and will consider whether she really needs anything she wants.

2. Learning to write requires quotas

When it was time to learn to write numbers, I bought a book of red drawings, gave it to my daughter, and then told her that there was a quota for this, and she only had to write numbers every day. You can write half a page, but no more.

Children are always very interested in learning something at first. They wish they could write half of the book at once. When they are very happy when they write every day, the quota is used up and the book is taken away. There is no point in begging. , I can only write it tomorrow. So I developed the habit of writing half a page every day to be happy. I completed the process of learning to write numbers very easily and happily.

The key is to remain mysterious, keep her interested, arouse her interest and curiosity, and turn asking her to learn to write into asking you to write more, but she must not agree and continue to use The quota came to hang her until the mission was accomplished.

3. Water dispenser incident

When my daughter was almost one year old, she was curious about everything, especially the switch of the water dispenser. Her grandmother took her very worried and kept looking at her. Keep stopping, and you know it's hard. Adults always have to move away, but my daughter can move around in a walker.

So I decided not to watch anymore. The switch of the water dispenser is not very dangerous. As soon as I let go of my hand, the water will stop. Instead of watching in fear all the time, it would be more effective to let her get burned once. Soon she will I got burned and remembered that it was dangerous, so I didn't touch it again for a long time.

By the way, I told her that we stopped her because this thing is dangerous, so remember, anything adults stop you from moving is justified.

Don’t think that a one-year-old Children don’t understand, but they actually understand. Well, girls should understand earlier, boys later.

The correct way for mothers to educate their children

1. Laugh often

Always tell jokes with your children, make up some funny songs together, and Laughing with your children is good for both you and your children. Just laughing is good exercise.

2. Don’t arrange your life too regularly and give your children time to play as they please

Thomas Armstrong, an American child education scholar, pointed out that free play is better than free play. Planned activities are healthier for preschool children. Parents try to avoid filling their children's time. All children need some free play time.

3. Encourage him to exercise more

Accompany your child to play ball, ride a bicycle, or swim? Exercising more can not only exercise your child's physical fitness, but also make him more cheerful. Maintaining an active life can moderately relieve children's stress and emotions, and allow children to like themselves, have a more positive body image, and find fun and a sense of accomplishment in sports.

4. Teach him to care for others

Happy children need to be able to feel that they have some meaningful connections with others and understand what they mean to others. To develop this sense, help your child have more contact with others. You can sort out some old toys with your child and donate them to a charity to help homeless children. Children can also be encouraged to participate in some volunteer activities at school. Experts point out that even at a very young age, one can gain happiness from the process of helping others and develop a habit of helping others.

5. Creative praise

When a child performs well, don’t just say: ?Very good. ?The praise should be more specific, give details, and point out what is impressive or better than last time. For example,? You took the initiative to say good morning to the guard uncle today, which is really polite. ?

However, when praising, you should also be careful not to develop wrong expectations in your children. Some parents will reward their children with gifts or money, so that the children focus on what rewards they can get rather than on good behavior. Parents should let their children discover for themselves the satisfaction and sense of accomplishment that comes from completing something, rather than rewarding them with material rewards.

6. Ensure that children eat healthily

A healthy diet not only keeps children healthy, but also makes children emotionally stable. Whether it is a meal or a snack, try to follow healthy principles, such as low-fat, low-sugar, fresh, and balanced diet.

7. Stimulate his inner artistic talent

Although scientists have confirmed that there is no so-called "Mozart Effect", children should be exposed to music, art, dance and other activities more. It can still enrich the inner world of children. Experts have discovered that when children dance to music or hold a paintbrush, they are actually expressing their inner world and emotions. Children who like to draw, dance or play music will feel more satisfied with themselves.

8. Hug often

A gentle hug conveys infinite care and is a silent "I love you". Studies have found that gentle touching and hugging can make premature babies healthier, more lively, and more emotionally stable. For adults, hugging can also reduce stress and soothe uneasy emotions.

9. Listen attentively

Nothing can make children feel cared for more than listening attentively. Want to be a better listener? Don't listen with just one ear. When your child talks to you, try to stop what you are doing and listen to him or her attentively. Be patient and listen to your child to finish what he is saying. Do not interrupt in the middle, rush to help him express his words or ask him to finish what he said quickly, even if you have heard what he said many times. The best time to listen is while walking your children to school or putting them to bed.

10. Give up perfectionism

We all expect our children to show their best, but sometimes we are too eager to correct or improve their performance. For example, we dislike them for not clearing the table. Wipe it clean, or simply wipe it again yourself; or correct them to put things in a certain position. Demanding perfection in everything will weaken children's self-confidence and courage not to be afraid of making mistakes. Next time when you can’t help but want to get involved and are eager to help your children do things better, you might as well think about it first: Is this matter related to health or safety? Imagine if this matter will still happen 10 years later. Is it that serious? If the answer is No, then let the child do it.

Suggestions for mothers in educating their children

1. Hope is in the future

The past is past and cannot be restarted or rewritten from scratch. Grieving for the past and regretting the past will not do any good except laboring your mind and distracting your energy. When a child makes a mistake, don't blame the child blindly. Guide the child to analyze past mistakes, find the reasons, and learn from the mistakes. Then forget the mistakes, get up again, and actively do the next useful thing. Meaningful things because of hope in the future.

2. Don’t hurt children’s hearts

Children’s hearts are fragile. When they are hurt, they all look forward to receiving the love of their parents. Therefore, no matter how busy parents are at work or how unhappy life is, they must exercise restraint in front of their children and avoid hurting their souls.

3. Love is the psychological support for overcoming difficulties

Parents’ love for their children is the psychological support for children to overcome difficulties. With this kind of support, you will not feel lonely or lose your self-confidence, and you will be able to give your children confidence and strength. As a parent, you should give your children a sense of security, be their protector, and allow your children to bravely face difficulties and become their unyielding faith and support when they need help the most.

IV. Learn to express love to children

Raise your left hand high? It seems like an ordinary sentence, but it contains the teacher’s love for the students like sunshine and rain. love and skills born of love. Being valued and cared for is an important force that encourages people to move forward, especially for children in the growing period.

Therefore, when educating their children, parents should master the art of love and give their children respect, trust, tolerance and a happy state of mind. A parent who doesn't know how to express love appropriately may ruin a child's bright future.

5. Fear comes from lack of self-confidence

Children’s fear largely comes from lack of self-confidence. As long as you build up self-confidence and a good sense of yourself, that hateful fear will naturally disappear. Parents should help their children build self-confidence by starting with daily small things and gradually accumulating. I believe that your child will become an excellent person in the near future.

6. Listen to your children

When you listen to your children, do you really understand what they say? Are you also used to interrupting your children? Many parents We often make the mistake of making comments and instructions based on adults’ experience before the children have time to finish talking about their own affairs.

If you don’t understand what your child is saying, please listen to what he or she has to say. This is the art of listening to your child: don’t listen to half of what you are saying; don’t impose your own meaning on what the child says.

7. Learn to be silent

When children have resentment in their hearts, parents’ silence can sometimes help their children vent their resentment better. Sometimes, parents also have to be their children's listeners. Listening to their children's words is not only a sign of respect for their children, but also the only way to further communication.