Your baby is about to be born. How do you feel waiting outside?

In the past two days, everyone in the mother group was talking about giving birth, from pregnancy to entering the delivery room. At this time, a mother said, when I was giving birth, I grinned in pain and heard A doctor came in and said, this place is really interesting. My wife gave birth and my husband fainted. I didn’t think too much at the time. After all, I was not the only one giving birth in the delivery room. But when I came out of the operating room after giving birth, my mother-in-law said that my husband was too excited. , my blood pressure was a little high, and I just fainted at the door of the operating room. After hearing what she said, the group went crazy. Everyone started complaining about how their husbands were waiting outside the delivery room after giving birth.

We were fortunate enough to interview several fathers. The reactions of these husbands were both real and sad:

Qin Shimingyue: Waiting outside the operating room, my legs felt weak and my mind went blank. When my wife came out, the first thing she said was "Thank you for your hard work, wife." She didn't eat for a whole day, and it wasn't until the third day that she could walk without help. I breathed a sigh of relief and said, "Now I don't have to worry about both sides anymore." Being a father is really not that easy!

No Cassie: My wife’s blood pressure suddenly rose when she gave birth to the baby. I saw a nurse outside taking antihypertensive medicine. My mother-in-law was there and couldn’t cry. She was so sad that she kept kicking the wall. When the nurse came out with the baby in her arms and said that mother and baby were safe, I couldn't help it and started crying. My wife still laughs at me about this.

Uncle Weird: Actually, I was very nervous about my wife giving birth, but I didn’t know what to do, so I teamed up with a buddy to play a game. When my wife came out after giving birth and saw me playing with my mobile phone, she became very angry.

Soldier in vest: It took my wife five hours to enter the delivery room, and all the people who entered the delivery room after her gave birth. Every time one was pushed out, I would go up to see if it was right, and then ask the nurse. Am I giving birth? The nurse's answer was that she was in labor. Later, my husband stopped asking. Every time the door of the delivery room was opened, he would pick at the crack in the door. The baby was not born until four in the morning. At that time, a woman was being pushed out. My husband wanted to pick at the crack in the door. The nurse followed He said your wife also gave birth! My wife left the delivery room after two hours of observation. That night, my butt didn’t touch the stool at all, she just walked around there! My wife is giving birth, what can my husband do outside the delivery room?

After reading the above real reactions of husbands outside the delivery room, I don’t know what you think in your heart. Do you feel that you married the right person, or are you beating your chest with regret?

1. Appease the emotions of the family

In fact, it is not just the husband who is waiting outside the delivery room, but also family members, especially the maternal family. I remember when I gave birth to my eldest son, my mother was waiting outside the delivery room, and I felt like hugging her. At this time, the mood of being a mother is the most complicated, and the husband must do a good job of calming her emotions.

2. Be on call

When giving birth, various situations may arise, and doctors or nurses will come out to ask the family to prepare things. Even after a successful delivery, family members will be called to give her brown sugar water, etc. At this time, the husband should be available whenever he is called, without delaying even a moment.

3. Do a good job in handover work

Generally, the newborn will come out a little early, and the father must do a good job in handover work, including who will take the baby to the ward and who will continue to wait for the mother outside the delivery room. , so that when the mother comes out, there is no one outside, which is too desolate.

A mother once said that after she gave birth to her baby, the nurse went out to ask the family members to bring brown sugar water, but there was no one outside the delivery room. After observing for 2 hours, there was no one when she came out. The nurse sent her back to the ward only to find that a group of people were taking pictures around the baby, and no one paid any attention to her.