Names for children should be "sloppy", which names should be avoided?

After the child is born, the next question is to give the child a name. Adults at home get together to look up dictionaries and genealogy, for fear of giving their children a bad name.

However, in real life, we can still see many wonderful names, such as the Monkey King, Zhu Yiqun and Xia. I have to admire my parents' brains.

However, the name is something that accompanies the child's life. The quality of the name is also related to the happiness index of the child in the second half of his life. After all, I can name a loud and elegant name.

On the contrary, if your name sounds particularly strange, it is inevitable that you will not be laughed at secretly when introducing your name on formal occasions.

Moreover, when the influence on children is relatively large, it is easy to be nicknamed by naughty students at school.

Being nicknamed by naughty classmates makes children feel more and more inferior.

I remember my cousin's children making trouble. His classmate Liu has a child named. At first glance, I read the name, but I still think it sounds good, which means Dapeng spread his wings and Li.

However, children's imagination is always so rich that they will always "exploit loopholes" from other people's names and come up with all kinds of wonderful nicknames.

For example, the students in Liu's class didn't know who it was, so they gave Liu a nickname of Marshal, which spread all over the class. Naughty people called him Marshal.

At first, Liu would express his reluctance, but later he gradually became depressed, because the angrier he was, the more interesting his naughty classmates became.

Because of this name and nickname, Tian Peng felt more and more inferior. Even in front of strangers, he dare not mention his name for fear of being teased by others.

Pay attention to your children and understand three taboos.

1. Avoid renaming children.

Names of single words especially like to be duplicated. If the names are repeated, it is easy to cause some embarrassing things. For example, while waiting in the hospital and calling Lili, three people suddenly stood up and ran to the doctor's office. Imagine how embarrassing that would be.

Similarly, if there are children with the same name in the class, when the teacher calls the roll to answer questions, it is easy for the two children to stand up at once, and the teacher doesn't know who to call to answer the questions.

Therefore, avoid giving children names that are easy to duplicate, and avoid taking single-word names when naming children. The probability of double-word duplication will be much smaller.

In addition, try to avoid using popular names on the internet, because not only you, but also other parents will use these names.

2. Homophones are easy to get nicknames.

Pay more attention to this aspect when naming children. After all, people's imagination is infinite. If you don't pay attention when naming your child, you choose a name that is homophonic and easy to nickname.

Then the child's student days will add a lot of troubles. For example, I remember that there was a little boy named Zhu Chang in my middle school class, but my imaginative classmates immediately nicknamed him "Pig Intestine".

Often laughed at by classmates, every time the teacher calls his name, the whole class laughs, which makes boys hate their names more and more, and they hate their classmates more and more.

Therefore, when naming children, parents may wish to give full play to their imagination and think about the possibility of being nicknamed.

For example, Liu and my middle school classmate Zhu Chang mentioned above were not very optimistic when they were students.

3. Avoid some uncommon words that are difficult to export.

Our country's culture is profound, so besides some common words, there are many rare words that we can't name.

"uncommon words" have been a hit in Chinese music, because they are very infectious and show the profoundness of our country, but they can't be used to take names.

For example, I have seen two names with uncommon words, one is Lv Yaolin and the other is Niu Ben. Among these two names, it is not difficult to find that each has an uncommon word.

But every time someone reads his name, it takes some energy, and it is also possible that he is often called by the wrong name and makes unnecessary jokes.

Therefore, I think that when naming children, the combination of words should be based on what we commonly use to avoid taking out names that ordinary people can't understand because of the pursuit of art and elegance.

Such a name can't be wrong.

If parents have limited imagination and can't think of any loud and elegant names, they might as well borrow some ancient names, such as ancient poets and literati.

Many poets were born in literati families, so their names are not only pleasant to hear, but also have a classical charm of traditional culture.

For example, Liu Changqing's "Changqing" and Liu Zongyuan's "Zongyuan" are names that can be used for reference, but it should be noted that some ancient people are famous, so don't borrow their names.

For example, Bai Juyi's name, Li Qingzhao, Wang Anshi and so on. If you borrow their names, children are easily laughed at secretly.

Choosing a name is an important event in life. After all, a name must be followed for a lifetime. A nice name is like a bright facade, so don't give your child a name that sounds too strange.

If you are afraid that you can't think of a name on the day your child is born, you may wish to start from the time when your wife is pregnant for 5 months and confirms the gender of the child.