What do you think of a single mother taking a bath and her 13-year-old son taking the initiative to help her rub her back?

Children's days are their parents. Children are wronged outside, and the first reaction to unhappy things is to talk to their parents, which is inseparable from their parents' concern. But children will grow up gradually, and their dependence on their parents will be reduced both psychologically and physically. At this stage, children will not pester their parents to sleep together as they did when they were young, and their intimacy will be much less.

The single mother took a bath, and 13-year-old son offered to help her rub her back.

I saw such a video on the Internet. A mother was taking a bath when her son came in naked and offered to help her rub her back. Both of them are naked. Once this video was circulated, it immediately caused an uproar on the Internet. Some netizens said, "It's no wonder that the world is really big." Others said, "The three views are ruined."

Then the mother explained: When the child was very young, she divorced her husband. She has lived alone with her children 13 years. The child is very kind to himself and is a veritable little warm man at home. The child offered to rub his back. This is a sign of her love, and she is very pleased.

However, many netizens have great doubts about this. They think that "children avoid their mothers" and they should avoid suspicion. Moreover, my son 13 years old already knows a lot. If this goes on, it will have some influence on children's physical and mental development in the future.

After the age of three, don't get too close.

I believe that every parent is full of love for their children. Some parents will show their love to their children without hesitation, but some too intimate behaviors, such as kissing, are not a good way to express their love for some children who are beginning to understand. Therefore, for the sake of children, it is best for parents not to do some intimate actions to their children, and also to teach children not to do some such actions to other members of the opposite sex at will.

In fact, teaching children the opposite sex is not very popular in our country. The first thing is that we are very ashamed of the concept of sex, so we often avoid mentioning this topic in front of our children. Second, we think that children are still young, and this topic is not suitable for talking about very young children. When children grow up, they will gradually understand this knowledge.

This is actually a very wrong concept. If children only rely on their own understanding, they are likely to choose a wrong method and go astray, so they still have to rely on parents to make correct guidance for their children's education.

Cultivate children's gender cognition

Parents are children's first mentors. When children are young, as parents, we must pay attention to our own appearance. Don't always think that children are still young, so parents have no scruples about their children when they change clothes. In summer, fathers should not always dangle around in front of their children with bare arms.

Mothers should not wear too revealing clothes, because these behaviors will affect the normal growth of our children. Moreover, educate children to correctly distinguish between men's and women's toilets, men's and women's dressing rooms, men's and women's bathhouses, etc. When going in and out of some public places, let yourself make a correct gender distinction.