Is it the best ending not to keep in touch with your former colleagues after leaving your job?

Colleagues are just colleagues, not relatives, friends or family.

when colleagues are together, on the one hand, they make progress, on the other hand, they use each other, and on the other hand, they hurt each other.

Few people really mingle with colleagues and become friends. Most people are indifferent to the feelings between colleagues. When they are in a unit, everyone is talking and laughing, and the relationship is very harmonious. But after separation, they will become strangers immediately. Some people turn their faces and deny people.

as the saying goes, "tea cools people." Will you keep in touch with your former colleagues after leaving your job? Take a look at the following situations, and you should know fairly well.

1

After leaving the company, I immediately blacked out my former colleagues and left them alone.

My cousin Xiao Zhang works in a public institution, where he is mainly engaged in drafting materials. Xiao Zhang is honest and often bullied by his colleagues. Some malicious colleagues left their work to Xiao Zhang and passed on the mistakes in their work to Xiao Zhang. After working in the unit for more than ten years, Xiao Zhang has never been promoted, but his work tasks are increasing.

Last winter, Xiao Zhang resigned and went to work in a big company in Dongguan. After Xiao Zhang left his job, he blacked out all his colleagues.

I asked Xiao Zhang, "Why are you blackmailing all your colleagues? Don't you have a good colleague? "

Xiao Zhang said, "Over the years, I have come to understand that you have to rely on yourself, not your colleagues. Since I chose to leave, I will start again and make a clean break with everything in the past. "

It seems that Xiao Zhang is an "extreme" person, and he is really disappointed with his former company. Xiao Zhang must have hated his former colleagues in his heart. They all bullied honest people. In fact, Xiao Zhang also thought that if he didn't mix well, his former colleagues would laugh at him. If he mixed well, others would envy him. His former colleagues were not worth nostalgia.

In fact, after you leave your job, many of your former close colleagues will be exposed, and if they hold a grudge against you, they can speak out without scruple. Some colleagues are waiting to see your jokes, hoping that you will get worse and worse. It seems incredible to blacken the original colleagues, but it is not a bad thing.

2

In the circle of friends, I still praise each other and leave messages with my former colleagues.

Some people, after leaving their jobs, didn't blacken all their former colleagues or delete their contact information because of their face. However, the contact with each other has gradually decreased, and we no longer talk on the phone and meet for dinner.

Now, everyone is used to using WeChat, and they like to post life news in their circle of friends. If you see who sent a message in winter, click a compliment or write a simple message, which is also a way to contact. In other words, you and your former colleagues are only "friends who like you". In real life, there is no intersection.

Be a man, don't go to extremes, but leave yourself a backward path. In the circle of friends, I praised each other with my former colleagues, indicating that I still have some contact with him and occasionally care. In case you have something, ask the other party, and you can also get things done with the help of "colleague feelings." In the future, how will you get along? Who can tell whether you want someone or not? There is nothing wrong with learning to go backwards for yourself.

3

After leaving your job, you can communicate with your former colleagues in a different way and make use of each other.

My classmate Wei Wu works in an electronics factory in Dongguan. The summer before last, Wei Wu left Dongguan and returned to his hometown to open an electronic processing factory. Wei Wu and some old colleagues, not only often contact, but also become partners. Wei Wu took raw materials from the factory where he used to work, processed them in his hometown factory and sent them back. He mainly earned processing fees.

Some old colleagues, who have a good relationship with Wei Wu, are willing to help Wei Wu. On the other hand, Wei Wu will give some commission to his old colleagues every month to further establish a solid "cooperative relationship".

If you are engaged in work related to your former company after leaving your job, you should take the initiative to contact some old colleagues, because they are your contacts. Although some old colleagues are not your friends or relatives, they are willing to help you for the sake of money.

4

After leaving my job, I met my former colleagues again and didn't even want to talk.

Last weekend, when I was shopping, I met my old colleague Xiao Zhao. Xiao Zhao greeted me from afar: "How have you been recently?" I said, "Not bad." After that, I didn't know what to say. I felt that we were strangers, and it was best not to say hello.

Have you ever felt that you didn't want to talk when you met your former colleague, or you saw your former colleague in a long distance, and you deliberately made a detour to avoid meeting? Former colleagues, if they don't communicate for a long time, their feelings will fade, and they know little about each other's situation. When two people chat, they have no * * * topic. As the saying goes: "Thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi." A person's change is often incredible, and you can't treat your former colleagues with your original attitude at all.

When you meet colleagues who looked down on you before, who secretly played tricks on you, who were tit-for-tat with you, and who bullied you, you certainly don't want to pay attention to them. You have suffered too much injustice before, so why remember them now and greet them with a smile?

5

After leaving the company, it doesn't matter whether you contact your former colleagues or not. Let nature take its course.

Resignation means that you have changed your job in a different place, or changed your lifestyle. You have not retired yet, and there are too many unknowns about your future life development. No matter who you offend, it's not a good thing. It's not a good thing to take the initiative to please anyone and wronged yourself.

look at people and things in two ways. Regardless of whether your former colleagues have anything to do with you or not, don't care. If there is something that needs to be contacted, take the initiative to contact; If you are estranged from each other and don't want to contact, forget it.

To be a man, don't do everything absolutely. Only when everything goes with the flow can you have a good mood and make yourself advance and retreat freely.

after leaving your job, keep in touch with your old colleagues, which may be needed in the future. Of course, if you are up to no good, don't contact.