I joked with my girlfriend: I went to find another girl. Asked if she would mind, she said no and asked me to go. Finally, he said he ignored me.

Do you really want to find another girl in your heart? Are you kidding? Again, she said she didn't mind. Think about it somewhere else She said to find another boy. Do you mind? Obviously, she just cares that you say so. Maybe you are serious.

Think for yourself who the problem is. She was angry with you for saying this, and you asked her if she didn't want to talk to you. How do you think she will answer you? Answering you no, she thinks she is lying to you and herself, and can only say a little, but you also said it, so don't care. She will think that you don't care about your relationship with her, and it is so easy to say "don't care".

Maybe that's the problem. As for how to coax her, you should know her better than I do and put yourself in her shoes. What do you think she likes? What do you like to listen to? Just do what you want, and let her feel that you care about her or are nervous about your relationship with her.

Actually, I think you should think about it. What's the reason for your quarrel? A joke, is it obscene? This is a daily - happened thing. Small things often become the cause of quarrel between two people. Calm down and think about it, it's nothing at all. Just say sorry, don't be embarrassed to say it, don't let the contradiction intensify, and in the process of getting along with each other, you should understand each other's personality and consider each other's feelings. Pay attention to what you can say casually and what you can't say.

It may be a little too much. I hope I can help you. .