Please stay away from the person who tells you: I speak straight, so don't mind!

I don't know when it started, but more and more people around me are saying a similar sentence: I am very outspoken, so don't mind!

please! You are hurting others if you say this! Do you want to try to cover up the fact that you hurt each other with a straightforward signboard?

"I am such a sharp-tongued and heartless person".

"I'm outspoken, and I don't have any bad feelings."

Sorry, everyone is not a fool. This way of communication can only prove that you are putting a mosaic on the way of communication that you can't handle well or communicate well with others.

this sentence is really magical!

On the one hand, I'm telling you that I'm a direct person, and I'm not the kind of person who hides anything. On the other hand, subconsciously let everyone accept your so-called not beating around the bush, and people are still quite good people.

In fact, the person who often says this sentence thinks about his or her own feelings instead of others. If you say it yourself, it will be over, regardless of whether others are happy or not. To put it bluntly, this is a manifestation of low emotional intelligence, self-centeredness and selfishness!

people who have a clear mind can still treat these words rationally. But most of us have not cultivated such a strong heart. We don't want to hear these sincere words that flaunt that we are very direct and hurtful, and we don't want to hear them. Because, it really doesn't listen!

Someone said, don't be narrow-minded. They are just lip service, and there is not much malice. Don't take it to heart. He is still a nice person.

yes! The speaker didn't think much, and he was addicted to his mouth. But when I hear people, I have butterflies in my stomach, and my heart is extremely uncomfortable. It is estimated that it will take a long time to digest the result of your "unintentional" saying the wrong thing.

as the saying goes, the speaker has no intention, but the listener has intention.

if you want others to accept and listen to your suggestions, you must be strong before you have the qualification to persuade others. Then there is to find the breakthrough point of the event, really help others and solve problems.

If you don't have such conditions, regardless of each other's situation, then you can't expect others to have a good impression on you, and you can't expect others to accept your so-called point of view.

The education we received from childhood is: Advice when unpleasant is helpful. Historical stories tell us that although unpleasant words are unpleasant to hear, they are really for your own good and consideration.

However, in today's era, if you still speak casually based on unpleasant words, regardless of the occasion, and don't care about other people's feelings, then I want to congratulate you. Congratulations to your friends who will be far away from you in the future, so far that others are unwilling to associate with people like you. This is not an alarmist!

Zongsa Rinpoche said:

Most of the time, people who flaunt their straightforwardness just don't want to think hard about each other's feelings.

To speak bluntly is actually unwilling to put yourself in the other person's shoes. What kind of words you say is what kind of person you are!

so, take it easy! Not everyone can say this sentence, and not everyone will mind after hearing it. If we want to learn how to communicate with people better, we must work hard from ourselves.

Speaking is an art, which makes us know how to respect others and not embarrass them. Let's not talk about learning those speaking skills for the time being, but we still have to experience the charm of speaking from life and work.

People naturally like to make friends with people who are smiling and have a gentle voice. Such a person, talking with him will naturally produce a sense of intimacy.

The world is so big that it can't match your warm words. May you and I both be the people who can listen to the inner language in others' hearts!

Therefore, in the future, if someone tells you that I am a straight talker, don't mind. You can reply loudly: Sorry, I mind!