How to choose between vigorous and ordinary?

I definitely choose to be ordinary, because no matter how vigorous love is, it will eventually return to ordinary life.

In fact, everyone's love is vigorous at the beginning. After all, the beginning of love has a lot of passion, all kinds of romance, and creates all kinds of surprises for the other party. This is called passionate love, but passionate love is It comes and goes quickly. How many people can guarantee that when they are in love, they will always feel in love and live vigorously every day. I guess not many people can guarantee that, because love itself comes and goes quickly. Passionate love gives you a sense of freshness, but how long can the freshness last? No one can be sure, so it’s better to just live an ordinary life.

Although the ordinary days are not as exciting or as romantic as the vigorous ones, they are like a long stream of water, leaving people with endless aftertaste. To be honest, romance and surprises at any time can sometimes make people feel very annoying, because it is a novelty in itself and can be found anytime and anywhere. Maybe you don’t need to tell me that I already know what you are going to do. Is there still such a surprise? Does it count? Is this romance romantic enough?

It is not as good as living a plain life. Two people eating well together, having fun together, and occasionally giving little romantic surprises make people happier. And how many of the parents, grandparents, and grandparents around us have always lived a vigorous life? The answer is no! They live an ordinary life. Why don't they live a vigorous life? It's because such a life doesn't last long.

Love will eventually return to loved ones slowly. Life does not need to be too vigorous, but plainness is the long-lasting way, which is more memorable. In fact, many people want to be dull at the beginning. , I just want the occasional excitement, and living every day in an ordinary way is itself vigorous!