My husband and I play cards and gamble.

My husband and I play cards and gamble.

My husband took me as a bet on playing cards. Husband and wife should have supported each other and grown up together, so that marriage and family would be happy and sweet. But it happened that some people, from the beginning of marriage, never thought that the other party was a family. What is even more ridiculous is that some people will bet on their wives. I want to share with you that my husband gambled me at cards.

My husband and I play cards and gamble. He has been married for so many years. He used to be excellent, but I didn't expect his changes to be so bad in the last three or four years. He gambled me at cards. As long as he loses his card, he will arrange for someone else to let me sleep with that person. The four people who played cards with them, the other three were gangsters in society, and one of them had been in prison for more than ten years. However, the husband and they are brothers all the time. Together, they divide the wives of four people into four levels of ABCD, and the interests of different levels are different.

Last Tuesday night, I wanted to have a talk with him. After all, I heard what others said, but I didn't expect him to admit it at once, with a completely dismissive expression. He even said: you are the oldest, and they all agree that you are Grade B, so I didn't suffer ... After hearing what he said, I ignored him again and said: From today on, you have nothing to do with me. If you win, you can boldly sleep with them. ! Then my cousin came to Zhoushan early the next morning. It's been eight or nine days now, and he hasn't called me or sent me a message from beginning to end. I saw his sister in bed last night, so I talked to her. I thought she would do me justice, but I didn't expect her to help him in such a thing. She also said that his brother did all this because I didn't give birth to his children. He felt that life was not settled at all, so he laughed at life. My god, what logic are they?

Needless to say, having children has nothing to do with gambling on wives. Let's just say he didn't want to have children at first. I asked him before marriage, and I told him twice after marriage. It wasn't until I was in my thirties and passed the childbearing age that he was in a hurry to let me have children. He asked me to have a baby, and I didn't refuse. But having a baby doesn't mean I can get pregnant. Like me, I am super old ... Besides, his family is rural, and all the people in his family are particularly feudal and selfish. Usually when we quarrel, no matter who is right or wrong, his gourmet mother will only help him.

Only a man who can't marry a wife, a woman who can't marry a wife, believe in yourself, and you can live better.

My husband and I play cards and gamble. My husband and I met on a blind date. He was very attentive to me, which made me feel that he loved me enough. I married him because he was kind to me. My married life is also good, but later I found out that my husband has a hobby of playing cards and will go out to play with his card friends whenever he has time. At that time, he kept telling me that they were talking about starting a business together and trying to find a way, so I didn't say much.

The next day, I found that my husband lost a lot of money gambling and even lost his job. I told my husband angrily that playing cards can only be entertainment. How can you fool around with them every day? They are all rich owners. Look at our house. You lost all your money. How to live in the future? My husband gave me a contemptuous look and went out again.

A month later, my husband lost more than 400,000 savings at home and borrowed hundreds of thousands of debts. This makes our life insecure. My husband didn't want it because he didn't have any money, so a friend came to see him. I always tell them that my husband has no money and tell them not to come to him. But after listening to it, my husband said that in the eyes of women, he had plenty of money, and then he went out to play cards with them.

I just came home from work that day, and suddenly four or five people followed my husband into the house. When I saw them, I said angrily, what's the matter? I have no time to sit at home without playing cards. A card friend who often comes to see her husband playing cards said that your husband lost money at cards, so you'd better let him tell you. I looked at my husband and waited for him to speak. He looked up at me for a long time and didn't speak. One of them couldn't hold his temper and said, I'll help you if you don't tell me.

It turned out that my husband had no money to play cards, and he took me as a bet. As a result, he lost and they came to cash it. After hearing this, I felt itchy, pointing to my husband and saying, why don't you buy the house, too, and take it as a bet yourself ... Zhang Qiang interrupted me and said that he had mortgaged the house. I was completely disappointed in my husband at once. I didn't expect him to be so headstrong and ignorant. My mood suddenly collapsed and I began to cry.

Another person said that since it has happened, it must be solved. I cried and said that he lost. You find him, please take care of yourself. My husband didn't say anything, let alone say sorry to me. Zhang Qiang felt that I was too excited and said, give us time to think about it. They will come back tomorrow. He also said that as long as I was willing to pay my debts as a bet, he wouldn't want hundreds of thousands of debts borrowed by his husband.

After they left, the husband knelt on the ground and said, wife, I'm sorry. Now I'm really desperate. You must help me. I looked at him and slapped him to death. I was heartbroken at that time, but I knew he would never agree to divorce me, so I played along and said I was willing to help him, but I had to divorce first and remarry later. My husband hesitated at first, but in order to pay back the money, he decided to divorce.

The next day, we went to get the divorce certificate, and those creditors found me and said that my husband owed them money and I had to pay it back. I called the police because I was afraid! Finally, I disappeared completely.

In order to avoid my ex-husband, I hid in my brother's house in Shenzhen. My brother started a company. Because I have no job, I work in his company. Afterwards, I met my supervisor. He is a divorced man with a three-year-old child. He is simple and honest, but he works hard. He has a good relationship with my brother. So we often go out to eat together, or discuss things at work together.

Slowly, I have a good impression on him. He bought a house in Shenzhen and has some savings on hand. His daughter is with him and his mother is helping him now. I went to see his mother, who was very nice. It is said that his ex-wife divorced him because she betrayed him. We have been dating for more than half a year, and we feel very in tune, and there is a feeling of' reunion after a long separation'.

This year, I took him home to meet his parents. Everyone knows that he has good conditions and a nice person. He is happy for me, and I feel very happy. Now we're getting married, but my ex-husband won't let me get married when he finds out. He said he was confused now and hoped I could give him another chance. He also said that he would bet on me only after being calculated by Zhang Qiang.

I don't want to see him again, but he comes to my mother's house every day and says I have an obligation to bear the debt with him. I don't want to. What should I do? I refused him, but I was also afraid that he would hurt my family. What should I do? He asked me to ask my boyfriend for 300 thousand, so he let me go and helped us. I know I can't borrow money from my boyfriend, but I don't have that much money. What should I do?

On Wu Tong Listening to the Rain;

In the face of love, only by knowing what kind of person you want to spend your life with can you get the marriage you want.

If it's true love, deep love, my ex-husband won't bet poker with you. He lost everything in his family, which shows that he is not capable of controlling himself. The creditor came to you not to say sorry, but to ask you to help him, which shows that he only has himself in his heart. Such a man is not worth giving him another chance.

Now that you have found happiness, you should cherish it. Be honest with your boyfriend and communicate well. If he loves you, he will understand and protect you. Since you divorced your ex-husband, you should break off the relationship, which is a respect for the current one. If he pesters you in every way, then you can choose to call the police.

At the same time, you don't need to give money to your ex-husband, let alone help him pay off his gambling debts. Once you give him money, he will depend on you and regard you as a cash cow, which will affect your future marriage.

Wutong listens to the rain and gives you an emotional prescription:

1, completely sever the relationship with her ex-husband. If he has a little regret, he won't ask you for money, but make money through his own efforts. He asked you for money, probably to continue gambling.

If he pesters you repeatedly, you can choose to call the police and take legal weapons to protect yourself.

Be honest with your boyfriend and let him understand and respect you through communication. Don't choose to bear and hide blindly because you are afraid of affecting your feelings. If he loves you, he will protect you, which is also a way to test his sincerity.

4. Communicate with your family and tell them to pay attention to safety. If the ex-husband comes to make trouble, ask his parents to call the police. And you can warn your ex-husband, set up your own principles, don't look back and forth, don't make yourself too weak.