Russell: As a person, you should treat your poor relatives like this.

As a person, how to treat poor relatives? Before reading Russell's quotations, I believe many people have their own ideas. Many people will say that for poor relatives, if we don't dislike their poverty, only if we don't dislike their poverty can relatives go on as usual, so that there can be no barriers and no distance.

Once you look down on poor relatives, many times poor relatives are also trying to save face and will feel inferior to your family. They won't take the initiative again anyway. If no one takes the initiative between relatives, they will gradually weaken their affection and finally have no affection. That's really bad.

On holidays like that, other people's homes are bustling and crowded, and people come and go, while your home is very deserted and there are no relatives coming and going. It goes without saying. The poorer our relatives are, the stronger our self-esteem. Pay attention to your words and deeds, be convenient in your words and deeds, and try to make others comfortable, otherwise it will be easy and hurt the self-esteem of poor relatives.

When dealing with poor relatives, many people also have their own principles and bottom line, that is, they cannot lend money to them. Why? Because they are afraid that they can't afford it, and poor relatives, once you lend them money, they often become dependent, so we will hurt them instead.

What's more, many times, especially between relatives, it is difficult to get back the money you lent him. A few more times, it will offend relatives and the relationship will become more and more rigid. To sum up, in reality, how to treat poor relatives is really important.

If you are not careful, you may hurt his self-esteem, which is very bad. Speaking of which, how do you usually treat poor relatives? Let's read a quotation from Russell and tell us how to treat poor relatives. The text reads as follows:

Russell's quotation can really be completely opposite to what we analyzed above. We said above that we should be cautious, don't be generous, and don't even lend money to poor relatives, but Russell's quotations make us generous to poor relatives, which must be reasonable.

This quotation also tells how to treat parents and children. It is also worth learning, polite to everyone, and what modern people should learn. Because modern people are far worse than in the past in terms of comprehensive quality and morality. Although the times have improved and opened up, people feel that they have regressed in terms of humanistic etiquette, words and deeds.

And this quotation, viewpoint, especially the treatment of poor relatives, makes many people feel that it is really impossible. Why, huh? Because many people think that once they are generous to Qiong Qi, their families will become poor, because poor relatives will visit and borrow money from time to time. Do you want to borrow it or not?

Today, I have the honor to read a quotation like Russell with you. We might as well analyze, discuss and reflect on this quotation.

Do not lend money to others. If you must borrow it, don't expect him to pay it back. Yijun Zhang

Seriously, whether you are a relative or a friend, if you are going to lend them money, you should make sure that they are unwilling or lend the money, which is the beginning of freezing the relationship with them. Many relatives have frozen into strangers, and most of them started with borrowing money.

You can only be as generous as Russell said, even if you borrow it, you don't want them to pay you back, so your relatives will say hello and have close ties with your family. They can't help your family financially, but they must try their best in other aspects.

Of course, if you meet the relatives of the baiwenhang, you just don't know how to be grateful, or think you should be generous to his family. No matter how generous you are to his family, you don't have to pay back the money, and their family won't take care of your family, and even feel that they have paid less. Such relatives can't indulge them, so don't lend them money. It's just a bad relationship from the beginning, because it doesn't matter if one is missing.

There is a saying in Cao Xueqin's Dream of Red Mansions: "If you lose, you will lose your family."

If we are not rich enough and our relatives are not rich, we must understand that it is normal for others not to help us, and they have no obligation to help us. It is even more important to understand that if you are looked down upon by some relatives or disown your relatives, you must also see clearly that your relatives are not on good terms.

Because people are poor and lost, that's it, relatives and friends will stay away, which is also very realistic. Talk to others about relatives and friends at this time, others will only laugh at you and look down on you. The poor are afraid of ghosts. It's true. If you are poor, you should remember one sentence. If you are poor, you should be immune to it. Don't always want to touch the light of relatives.

Even if you are touched by your relatives, there will be relatives everywhere who say that your family can do this because of their help. Say it once or twice and forget it. Every time I say it, I will say it to everyone and everywhere. I'm sure you'll regret touching this relative's light.

There is a saying in Lu Yao's Ordinary World, "Yes, when we were young, we often regarded" relatives "as beautiful and important. Once we grow up and start living independently, we will soon know that family ties are often vulgar; Try to touch each other and roll your eyes without touching the light; Even the biggest difficulties in your life are often caused by relatives; Life will also tell you that relatives are often not as sincere as friends. "

This passage can be said to see the so-called relatives very thoroughly. On the surface, they are relatives, but secretly they ridicule each other and compare with each other to see who is rich and powerful, ridicule who is poor, and sometimes even frame some relatives who are richer than themselves.

Because some relatives are like this, they are good and can't tolerate others. I have money, and I can't hide the money of other relatives. He just wants to be the smartest and richest relative in this circle of relatives. There are also some poor relatives who can't meet rich relatives and will try their best to frame rich relatives. They want to see their family decline, misfortune, suffering and feel comfortable. They pray for curses every day, and their hearts are very vicious.

But with all this talk, if you can be generous to your loved ones, generosity is naturally good, because people's hearts are made of meat. Eating other people's food will make your mouth soft, while taking other people's food will make your hands short. Only a few relatives eat other people's food and still don't like it. They don't like it to damage his teeth, and even very picky.

Most relatives, as long as you help their family, they still have self-knowledge. In particular, some kind-hearted poor relatives helped them, and they can go to your home for life. But we must remember that when helping others, we should do what we can. We can't borrow other people's rice and starve ourselves. Such people are people who don't want to save their lives, and their families will suffer.

Russell: As a person, treat poor relatives like this!

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