Why did Sutaner's father refuse to attend the wedding and let her take charge of Sue's cloth industry?

In Widowed Husband, Sutaner's father doesn't appear much, but he is a proper female slave. It's just that the father is too proud to hide his love for his daughter too deeply.

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Sutaner likes weaving since he was a child. When I was four or five years old, I hid in the garden with a small basket of needle and thread, imitated the appearance of a tailor and cut clothes with scissors.

Later, when I was a little older, I would secretly run from school to the cloth industry to see how craftsmen dyed cloth.

So for her, weaving and dyeing cloth is what she really likes. With the growth of age, this love, from weaving and dyeing, has risen to the love of the fabric industry.

But her conservative father opposed her involvement in the cloth business. For him, it is the greatest virtue that women can tutor their children as long as they skim through poetry books.

However, Su Taner was unwilling to give in to his father's obsession and still focused on weaving. To this end, Sutaner was separated from his father when he was very young.

In front of Su Taner, my father is always black-faced and rarely asks about her. Although Su Taner is sad, she doesn't want to give in to her father.

In this way, stubborn father and daughter, although under the same roof, are strangers.

[2]

When Yining was knocked unconscious, the old man was sitting in a sedan chair and said gloomily, "Take him back";

Yining went to worship tea after her wedding, and the old man hid in the house and didn't talk, which made Yining embarrassed to worship "loneliness";

When Yining went to Xinmen Art Museum and was sent to a men's college to study, the old man said to him with a tiger face, "Mind your own business."

All these situations make outsiders feel that this old father-in-law is extremely dissatisfied with his son-in-law.

Later, Yining recalled that she had seen this face after being knocked unconscious that year, and she guessed that Su Taner's father was the one who wanted to harm him.

At first, there was no positive communication between my master Su Taner and Yining. Everyone is guessing each other's thoughts through their eyes.

Until one time, the master rushed into the woodshed with Ding Ning, and all the misunderstandings were solved.

It turned out that when Yining was knocked down, it was M who saved him. Although I don't like Yining, he is his son-in-law after all, and no one can teach him a lesson.

The spice my master gave Yining was not poison, but an insect repellent bought from the Western Regions. I gave it to him because Yining saved Sutaner's face at the wedding, which made me very happy.

The reason why I want to take Tintin to the woodshed to clean him up is because M thinks Yining has done something wrong to his daughter.

Listen, everything revolves around my baby girl. Take care of your daughter's husband and help her vent. A man who is silent on weekdays is like a black star, with a ferocious face, silently guarding his daughter behind his back.

After the misunderstanding was solved, Yining dropped her guard and began to like this seemingly fierce but actually very warm-hearted father-in-law.

[3]

Although Yining saw through his mind, the stubborn old man still refused to show weakness to his daughter, always silently paying attention to everything behind her.

When the old man held a clan meeting and decided to give Sutan the handprint of the cloth, he was blocked by Fannie and Freddie. They always get in the way on the grounds that "Subu industry is dominated by women and will be laughed at".

Just as the old man was encouraged to hesitate, a Hong Zhong-like voice came from outside the door: "Who said that women are not as good as men?" ?

Then I saw the old man who rarely appeared on weekdays, and walked into the hall majestically, telling Su Taner's talent and persistence in weaving and dyeing cloth. The old man nodded frequently.

Su Taner, who had never seen such a father, looked at him with tears in his eyes.

Over the years, Su Taner always thought that her father was blaming her, blessing her and refusing to forgive her. Unexpectedly, at this critical moment, it was this strange old man who refused to talk to her for many years.

With the support of his father, the old man finally decided to give Su Taner the palm print of Su's fabric industry.

At that moment, Su Taner was excited and looked at his father gratefully. I saw that he was extremely dignified on weekdays, and his eyes were full of fatherly gentleness.

All this, Yining can see from his eyes.

Later, Su Taner and his father met in the garden, and they both looked at each other awkwardly. Although my father still didn't say a word, the tenderness in his eyes has touched Su Taner.

Bing Xin once said that fatherly love is silent. If you feel it, it's not paternal love.

Sutaner's father interpreted this fatherly love to the extreme.

[4]

During Yining's days, the relationship between Su Taner and her father gradually eased.

Originally, she was a sullen person who refused to show weakness all day. Miss Jiao, who wants to be close and is afraid of rejection, cares about each other, but no one is willing to take the initiative to show good, which leads to the relationship between father and daughter getting worse and worse.

With the mixing of Yining and Mud, the relationship between them has obviously improved.

Several times, after seeing Su Taner in the garden, the old man moved his mouth but couldn't say anything. Hand out, but stopped in mid-air, the scene is extremely embarrassing.

However, the number of embarrassment is more, and the old man will not feel embarrassed.

Finally, one day, the old man reached out and touched Su Taner's head, just like a kind father, gently comforting his daughter.

Su Taner smiled, just like the unbridled and naive smile she had in her father's arms when she was four or five years old. It is a relief after feeling the father's love again.

Fatherly love is a kind of love like mountains and seas. A child can learn from his father how to accept himself and how to get along with others.

A child who can feel his father's love, especially a girl, will ignite a strong sense of self-worth in his heart and know how to love himself more.

No matter how strong Su Taner is, in those days of cold war with her father, her heart was always lonely and helpless.

Fortunately, with the emergence of Yining, the father and daughter, who love each other deeply but lack expression, slowly opened the gap accumulated over the years and reappeared the warmth of father and daughter bit by bit.

Love, say it out loud, it's true.

People need to be encouraged and moved.

No matter how deep love is, if it is only hidden in the heart, it can't be perceived by the other party. Only by speaking out loud can the other person understand your heart and live up to their expectations.