How to be shameless?

Question 1: How to become thick-skinned 1. Put aside shame. Chinese people regard face as more important than life. In fact, they don’t understand that face is earned by oneself. When you are a child, others will show no mercy when they trample on you. How many people have you seen from a child? When you step on it and feel pity in your heart, only when you grow into a towering tree, others will not dare to despise you. From a distance, you are just a scenery. From a distance, you cover the clouds and sun for people. No matter how far or near you are, you are a talent. , there are people clinging to you, so only when you become stronger can others look up to you. Trying to become stronger by relying on the face given by others is undoubtedly a castle in the air. When Jack Ma founded Alibaba, he also experienced many twists and turns. When he was talking about projects in Beijing, others would ignore him because he was still a young man at that time, with no fame or prestige. When Jack Ma grew up, he talked and laughed, talked and talked with scholars. After Wu Baiding, his social value has naturally increased. Who dares to despise him at this time, because at this time he is already qualified to participate in the Huashan Sword Discussion and has grown into a top master like Feng Qingyang. This is like filling a cup with water. When you hold on to your face and don’t let go, your cup will never be able to hold much water. Only when you face the world with an empty cup mentality again and again can you regain your life. Only then can you come into contact with things that you have never come into contact with before.

2. Never give up until the goal is achieved. People are born with inertia. When they don’t see results in a day or two, they will be disappointed and give up, thinking that there is no effect, and there is no point in persisting. In fact, sometimes you will succeed if you take one more step, just like As Jack Ma said, today is cruel, tomorrow will be even crueler, but the day after tomorrow will be beautiful, but most people will die tomorrow night. This sentence fully illustrates the importance of persistence. As the saying goes, everything depends on human effort. As long as you persevere, you will not be afraid of being shameless. Success comes from understanding. If you want to eliminate your self-esteem and become thick-skinned, you must carry out the rogue spirit of "I am a gangster, who am I afraid of" to the end, because only with this spirit of fearlessness, can we overcome difficulties one by one on the road of being thick-skinned. , can finally reach the top. In the TV series "Da Ranfang", Chen Liuzi told brothers Zhao Dongchu and Zhao Dongjun that a scoundrel wanted to extort money from him and cut meat at the entrance of his factory. Others were a little scared when they saw it. He saw you cut a piece and I would eat a piece. As a result, the scoundrel couldn't bear it and ran away, and he never dared to make trouble again. If the scoundrel stood up for a while, given Chen Liuzi's pride and respect for the hero, he would definitely give him some money, but he ended up not persisting.

3. Unmoving like a mountain. On the road to shamelessness, some people will criticize you and some will laugh at you. No matter what others say, you must have a correct attitude and do what you should do well. Don’t be impatient, don’t act blindly, be down-to-earth and steady, move forward on the cheeky road step by step, and finally reach the top. Just like Sima Yi in the Three Kingdoms, Zhuge Liang scolded him for being a woman who dared not go to war and gave him a set of bright women's clothes. However, Sima Yi wore it and asked the envoy from Shu if it looked good to annoy Zhuge Liang. This shows that Sima Yi is thick-skinned. Well, Xiang Yu wanted to cook Liu Bang's biological father, but Liu Bang said that we are sworn brothers. If you cook my father, you will cook your father. If you want to cook, don't forget to give me a share of the pie. This is not only shameless, but also My heart is still dark, my face is not red and my heart is not beating. I really admire you like a surging river. It seems that there are thick-skinned masters among the people.

To sum up, being thick-skinned is based on strong confidence and is a shameless expression. On the contrary, it can also be called a manifestation of courage. Because thick skin can only be shown after overcoming considerable fear, and not just anyone can do it. It is not easy for timid, stingy and shy people to be thick-skinned.

Question 2: How to be a shameless person? No one is particularly interested in a neurotic unless he is a psychiatrist. However, when a person swears to you personally that I am a psychopath, I believe you may have some emotions at this time, either curiosity or disgust.

But why did this person say this? I believe that the person who talks about himself in this way cannot be a real psychopath. He has two goals in doing so. One, he wants to arouse your interest, and two, he wants to evade responsibility. There are many ways to arouse others' interest in you, such as saying that you are a fool, saying that you have six toes, saying that you have practiced the Sunflower Manual and passed the uterus, etc. Yes, saying you are crazy is one of them. In the impression of ordinary people, the mentally ill usually stay in the hospital, or talk to themselves on the roadside wearing a tattered quilt. However, a well-dressed person with a normal expression says to you with red lips and white teeth, "I am a psychopath." , I believe that as long as you are not crazy, you will always be a little curious. However, when your emotions are aroused and what he starts to say has nothing to do with neurosis, he will talk endlessly or pretend to be profound and silent, and your curiosity will gradually disappear. was mobilized, and at this moment, he knew that his goal was achieved. No normal person is willing to say seriously that he is a psychopath in front of the public, because this requires a lot of courage, and this courage usually comes from a fearless, strong and shameless heart. Usually, it is also called it. cheeky. No one is particularly interested in a neurotic unless he is a psychiatrist. However, when a person swears to you personally that I am a psychopath, I believe you may have some emotions at this time, either curiosity or disgust. But why does this person say this? I believe that the person who talks about himself in this way cannot be a real psychopath. He has two goals in doing so. One, he wants to arouse your interest, and two, he wants to evade responsibility. There are many ways to arouse others' interest in you, such as saying that you are a fool, saying that you have six toes, saying that you have practiced the Sunflower Manual and passed away from the womb, etc. Yes, saying you are crazy is one of them. In the impression of ordinary people, the mentally ill usually stay in the hospital, or talk to themselves on the roadside wearing a tattered quilt. However, when a well-dressed person with a normal expression tells you with red lips and white teeth, I am a mental illness, then , I believe that as long as you are not crazy, you will always be a little curious. However, when your emotions are aroused, what he starts to say has nothing to do with neurosis. He talks endlessly or pretends to be profound and silent, and your curiosity will gradually disappear. was mobilized, and at this moment, he knew that his goal was achieved. No normal person is willing to say seriously that he is a psychopath in front of the public, because this requires a lot of courage, and this courage usually comes from a fearless, strong and shameless heart. Usually, it is also called it. cheeky. If someone says that thick-skinned people are born, you must not believe it, because this person is probably a thick-skinned person. A cheeky person has three main characteristics: one is that he lies without batting an eyelid, one is that he never blushes when his lies are exposed on the spot, and the other is that he is unconcerned. Being thick-skinned is a lie in itself. If someone says this to you, you have reason to start doubting that he is thick-skinned. Yes, thick skin is learned through countless beatings and tempers, but we have to admit that this is a difficult process, and the hardships involved are far beyond what thin-skinned people can understand. I know and have seen thick-skinned people, and I also understand the benefits of being thick-skinned. But often, when it is my turn to be shameless, I can't help it, and the advantage is taken by the thick-skinned people. It's really irritating that they are so complacent and nonchalant when they are cursing secretly in their hearts. But is being thick-skinned really that hateful? No, in fact, you often envy those thick-skinned guys. You don’t have what they have. They are always happy, and you are often angry. How can you not envy them? No one wants to be called cheeky, but a lot of people like to be, and this is the main reason. Maybe when you suffer another dumb loss, you will secretly swear, Damn, I will also be a thick-skinned guy.

But, are you really ready to be a shameless person? Are you sure you can afford to be a shameless person? If the answer is yes, then I would like to talk to you again about how to develop thick skin. First...gt;gt;

Question 3: How can I be thick-skinned? Don’t look at other people’s thoughts

Question 4: How to become more shameless? 100 points. Slowly learn not to care too much about other people's opinions of you, especially rude language, or language that does not respect yourself. Don't be afraid that you will say something wrong. Everyone will say the wrong thing sometimes. As long as your words do not mean harm to others, speak boldly. Even if some people don't like to hear them, don't care. Our words are not for performance. The most important thing in exercising self-confidence is "persistence". Only if you persist in doing it, you will never fail. Here are several methods for you:

Only when you believe in yourself can you boldly try and accept challenges. We do this by experiencing confidence in recalling past successful experiences. At the same time, we should do more, strive to get things done, and get more inspiration from them. In trying, there will be failures and mistakes. If we believe what Edison said, 'There is no such thing as failure, only getting closer to success', then we can take a lighter view of the problems, difficulties and even failures in the process of progress, deal with them calmly, and focus on completing the task. In terms of tasks, we continue to enhance our strength. And strength is the most important pillar to support confidence

(1) Choose the seat in front to sit

Have you noticed that no matter in teaching or in various classroom gatherings, How come the seats in the back row are filled first? Most people occupying the back seats hope that they will not be "too conspicuous". And the reason why they are afraid of being noticed is because they lack confidence.

Sitting in the front builds confidence. Try it as a rule and sit as far forward as possible from now on. Of course, sitting in the front will be more conspicuous, but remember, everything about success is conspicuous.

(2) Practice looking at others squarely

A person’s eyes can reveal a lot of information about him. When someone doesn't look at you, you will intuitively ask yourself: "What are you trying to hide? What is he afraid of? Will he be bad for me?"

Not looking at others usually means: I feel inferior next to you; I feel inferior to you; I am afraid of you. Avoiding other people's eyes means: I feel guilty; I have done or thought of something that I don't want you to know; I am afraid that you will see through me as soon as I touch your eyes. This is all bad information.

Looking others in the face means telling you: I am honest and aboveboard. I believe what I tell you is true and I have no guilt.

(3) Increase your walking speed by 25

When David Schwartz was a teenager, it was great fun to go to the center of town. After finishing all the errands and getting into the car, my mother would often say, "David, let's sit for a while and look at the people passing by."

My mother was a wonderful observer. She would say, "Look at that guy, what do you think is bothering him?" or "What do you think the lady over there is going to do?" or "Look at that guy, he seems a little lost."

It's really fun to watch people walking. It's much cheaper and more enlightening than going to the movies.

Many psychologists associate slouching and slow walking with unpleasant feelings about yourself, your work, and others. But psychologists also tell us that by changing posture and speed, we can change our mental state. If you observe carefully, you will find that the movements of the body are the result of the activities of the mind. Those who have been beaten down and ostracized often drag their feet and have no self-confidence at all.

Ordinary people walk like "ordinary people" and confess "I'm not very proud of myself."

Another type of person shows extraordinary confidence and walks faster than ordinary people, like running.

Their pace tells the whole world: "I'm going to an important place, doing something important, and more importantly, I'm going to succeed in 15 minutes."

Use this "walk fast" 25” technique, hold your head high and walk faster, and you will feel your confidence growing.

(4) Practice speaking in public

Napoleon Hill pointed out that there are many people with sharp ideas and high talents, but they are unable to use their strengths to participate in discussions. It’s not that they don’t want to participate, it’s just that they lack confidence.

People who are taciturn in meetings think: "My opinion may not be valuable. If I speak it out, others may feel stupid. It's better for me not to say anything. Besides, others may be better than others." I know better, and I don't want you to know that I am so ignorant." These people often make very vague promises to themselves: "I will speak up next time," but they know very well that they cannot fulfill this promise. Every time the taciturn person does not speak, he is poisoned by a lack of confidence, and he loses it more and more. From a positive perspective, if you try to speak up, you will gain confidence and make it easier to speak up next time. So, speak more,...gt;gt;

Question 5: How to become thick-skinned. This is not the reason for being thick-skinned, but your own mentality. You really pay too much attention to your image in the minds of others. In fact, your image in the minds of others is not their business, but your own business. For example, if you fart in public, if you feel embarrassed, everyone will definitely laugh at you, and it will be for a long time. If you act like a normal person, it will be as if the incident never happened, and everyone will not laugh at you either. I don't think there is anything funny about this matter, even if I laugh, it will only last for a while. What you see is what you believe. Good luck. . .

Question 6: How to become thick-skinned. Slowly learn not to care too much about what others think of you, especially rude language, or language that does not respect yourself. Don't be afraid that you will say something wrong. Everyone will say the wrong thing sometimes. As long as your words do not mean harm to others, speak boldly. Even if some people don't like to hear them, don't care. Our words are not for performance. The most important thing in exercising self-confidence is "persistence". Only by persisting in doing it can you never fail. Here are a few methods for you:

Only when you believe in yourself can you boldly try and accept challenges. We do this by experiencing confidence in recalling past successful experiences. At the same time, we should do more, strive to get things done, and get more inspiration from them. In trying, there will be failures and mistakes. If we believe what Edison said, 'There is no such thing as failure, only getting closer to success', then we can take a lighter view of the problems, difficulties and even failures in the process of progress, deal with them calmly, and focus on completing the task. In terms of tasks, we continue to enhance our strength. And strength is the most important pillar to support confidence

(1) Choose the seat in front to sit

Have you noticed that no matter in teaching or in various classroom gatherings, How come the seats in the back row are filled first? Most people occupying the back seats hope that they will not be "too conspicuous". And the reason they are afraid of being noticed is because they lack confidence.

Sitting in the front builds confidence. Try it as a rule and sit as far forward as possible from now on. Of course, sitting in the front will be more conspicuous, but remember, everything about success is conspicuous.

(2) Practice looking at others squarely

A person’s eyes can reveal a lot of information about him. When someone doesn't look at you, you will intuitively ask yourself: "What are you trying to hide? What is he afraid of? Will he be bad for me?"

Not looking at others usually means: I feel inferior next to you; I feel inferior to you; I am afraid of you. Avoiding other people's eyes means: I feel guilty; I have done or thought of something that I don't want you to know; I am afraid that you will see through me as soon as I touch your eyes. This is all bad information.

Looking others in the face means telling you: I am honest and aboveboard. I believe what I tell you is true and I have no guilt.

(3) Increase your walking speed by 25

When David Schwartz was a teenager, it was great fun to go to the center of town. After finishing all the errands and getting into the car, my mother would often say, "David, let's sit for a while and look at the people passing by."

My mother was a wonderful observer. She would say, "Look at that guy, what do you think is bothering him?" or "What do you think the lady over there is going to do?" or "Look at that guy, he seems a little lost."

It's really fun to watch people walking. It's much cheaper and more enlightening than going to the movies.

Many psychologists associate slouching and slow walking with unpleasant feelings about yourself, your work, and others. But psychologists also tell us that by changing posture and speed, we can change our mental state. If you observe carefully, you will find that the movements of the body are the result of the activities of the mind. Those who have been beaten down and ostracized often drag their feet and have no self-confidence at all.

Ordinary people walk like "ordinary people" and confess "I'm not very proud of myself."

Another type of person shows extraordinary confidence and walks faster than ordinary people, like running. Their pace tells the whole world: "I'm going to an important place, doing something important, and more importantly, I'm going to succeed in 15 minutes."

Use this "walk fast" 25” technique, hold your head high and walk faster, and you will feel your confidence growing.

(4) Practice speaking in public

Napoleon Hill pointed out that there are many people with sharp ideas and high talents, but they are unable to use their strengths to participate in discussions. It’s not that they don’t want to participate, it’s just that they lack confidence.

People who are taciturn in meetings think: "My opinion may not be valuable. If I speak it out, others may feel stupid. It's better for me not to say anything. Besides, others may be better than others." I know better, and I don't want you to know that I am so ignorant." These people often make very vague promises to themselves: "I will speak up next time," but they know very well that they cannot fulfill this promise. Every time the taciturn man fails to speak, he is poisoned by a lack of confidence, and he loses it more and more. From a positive perspective, if you speak as much as possible, you will increase your confidence and be more likely to speak next time...gt;gt;

Question 7: How to learn to be thick-skinned? Be the bad guy.

Quick tip for being a bad guy: Do something that will be scolded by the whole society as soon as you do it

Then if you can live in the scorn of others without realizing it, you will be a bad guy. !

The last sentence: Good and bad are relative. No bad guy feels that he is wrong when he is doing bad things

The main thing is that he must be thick-skinned

Thick-skinned really Very important. The first word mentioned in Li Zongwu's "Houhei Xue" is "thick". You need to be thick-skinned. Thick skin is a skill that needs to be practiced. Once you have this skill, you will have an indomitable spirit and perseverance.

I saw someone asking a good question on Baidu: How does one become thick-skinned?

In fact, after a person has been in society for a long time, met a variety of people, and encountered many obstacles, he will gradually be able to tolerate favors and humiliations. However, going from thin-skinned to thick-skinned is indeed a painful transformation process, just like a caterpillar has to endure the pain of emerging from the chrysalis before it can transform into a butterfly.

Going for an internship is the best way to develop a person’s cheeky skills.

Gillian said that one of her friends told her that when you go for an internship, you must always tell yourself "My face is a pancake, my face is a pancake"... Now that I think about it, the seven-character motto for boys chasing girls is "Courage" Big, thoughtful, and cheeky” really applies to everyone. Lack of courage, carefulness and thick-skinnedness will cause many opportunities around you to be wasted...

Question 8: How can I become thick-skinned? . . Just treat what you say as a joke. I'm also thick-skinned, but I don't know how to tell you. Anyway, don't be afraid of embarrassment and just say whatever you think. Don't be afraid of being hit. In fact, people are similar to you. They just think about it in their hearts but don't say it out loud.

Finally, I wish you to become a qualified thick-skinned person.

Question 9: How can a man be thick-skinned? Three sessions of streaking in crowded places, one session three times, each session lasts until the police show up.

Question 10: How to become thick-skinned 1. Put aside shame. Chinese people regard face as more important than life. In fact, they don’t understand that face is earned by oneself. When you are a child, others will show no mercy when they trample on you. How many people have you seen from a child? When you step on it and feel pity in your heart, only when you grow into a towering tree, others will not dare to despise you. From a distance, you are just a scenery. From a distance, you cover the clouds and sun for people. No matter how far or near you are, you are a talent. , there are people clinging to you, so only when you become stronger can others look up to you. Trying to become stronger by relying on the face given by others is undoubtedly a castle in the air. When Jack Ma founded Alibaba, he also experienced many twists and turns. When he was talking about projects in Beijing, others would ignore him because he was still a young man at that time, with no fame or prestige. When Jack Ma grew up, he talked and laughed, talked and talked with scholars. After Wu Baiding, his social value has naturally increased. Who dares to despise him at this time, because at this time he is already qualified to participate in the Huashan Sword Discussion and has grown into a top master like Feng Qingyang. This is like filling a cup with water. When you hold on to your face and don’t let go, your cup will never be able to hold much water. Only when you face the world with an empty cup mentality again and again can you regain your life. Only then can you come into contact with things that you have never come into contact with before.

2. Never give up until the goal is achieved. People are born with inertia. When they don’t see results in a day or two, they will be disappointed and give up, thinking that there is no effect, and there is no point in persisting. In fact, sometimes you will succeed if you take one more step, just like As Jack Ma said, today is cruel, tomorrow will be even crueler, but the day after tomorrow will be beautiful, but most people will die tomorrow night. This sentence fully illustrates the importance of persistence. As the saying goes, everything depends on human effort. As long as you persevere, you will not be afraid of being shameless. Success comes from understanding. If you want to eliminate your self-esteem and become thick-skinned, you must carry out the rogue spirit of "I am a gangster, who am I afraid of" to the end, because only with this spirit of fearlessness, can we overcome difficulties one by one on the road of being thick-skinned. , can finally reach the top. In the TV series "Da Ranfang", Chen Liuzi told brothers Zhao Dongchu and Zhao Dongjun that a scoundrel wanted to extort money from him and cut meat at the entrance of his factory. Others were a little scared when they saw it. He saw you cut a piece and I would eat a piece. As a result, the scoundrel couldn't bear it and ran away, and he never dared to make trouble again. If the scoundrel stood up for a while, given Chen Liuzi's pride and respect for the hero, he would definitely give him some money, but he ended up not persisting.

3. Unmoving like a mountain. On the road to shamelessness, some people will criticize you and some will laugh at you. No matter what others say, you must have a correct attitude and do what you should do well. Don’t be impatient, don’t act blindly, be down-to-earth and steady, move forward on the cheeky road step by step, and finally reach the top.

Just like Sima Yi in the Three Kingdoms, Zhuge Liang scolded him for being a woman who dared not go to war and gave him a set of bright women's clothes. However, Sima Yi wore it and asked the envoy from Shu if it looked good to annoy Zhuge Liang. This shows that Sima Yi is thick-skinned. Well, Xiang Yu wanted to cook Liu Bang's biological father, but Liu Bang said that we are sworn brothers. If you cook my father, you will cook your father. If you want to cook, don't forget to give me a share of the pie. This is not only shameless, but also My heart is still dark, my face is not red and my heart is not beating. I really admire you like a surging river. It seems that there are thick-skinned masters among the people.

To sum up, being thick-skinned is based on strong confidence and is a shameless expression. On the contrary, it can also be called a manifestation of courage. Because thick skin can only be shown after overcoming considerable fear, and not just anyone can do it. It is not easy for timid, stingy and shy people to be thick-skinned.