What kind of passion do you have to help others, but it leads to embarrassing experiences for both sides?

Sometimes, it is skillful to help others on different occasions. On some occasions, it is unnecessary to help others. Sometimes, helping others may cause a burden to others. Therefore, not all good intentions can be achieved. Sometimes, bad intentions often occur. Why do you do bad things with good intentions? First of all, if a person says what he thinks is right, do what he thinks is right, regardless of the occasion. This is why a person may do bad things with good intentions. Because, you don't stand in the position that the other party needs help, you just think it's right and should be done.

Secondly, everyone helps others in different ways. Some people's help will make people feel like spring breeze, and they won't feel too much burden. But some people's help will make people feel that this is charity, this is not help, this is a shame. So sometimes, the way to help people is very harsh, because the environment and lifestyle are different from childhood, so the way to deal with problems is different. Some people may handle it comfortably, but some people may not. Therefore, the way to help others still needs to be practiced by yourself.

Sometimes, you don't have to help others aboveboard. The character of helping others behind their backs without saying anything is even more valuable. Because everyone's personality is different, for that kind of proud person, your wholehearted help may make him feel that you are questioning his ability, but in fact you don't have such an idea, so you should help people with different personalities in different ways.

Usually, we must pay attention to the cultivation of our own abilities, our own language style, and the handling methods of doing things. Only in this way can we better survive in this society. Not all people like unreserved people, so we should adapt to the development of society.