Why is staying in a small city after graduation looked down upon by many people?

Because now in people's eyes, there are fewer opportunities in small cities than in big cities, especially in their hometown, which makes people feel worthless. This kind of psychology has actually been like this since the reform and opening up.

Nowadays, people no longer have the view that their parents don't travel far, and they all like to squeeze into big cities. I think big cities are decent, and I am in big cities myself, but I admire people in small cities even more. Not because of anything else, but because of being close to home and parents and relatives. I especially envy them. I don't look down on them, but I also know that some people do look down on them, and I have been looked down on for some time.

I was resting at home. Because I was tired from work, I just bought some special products from mountain villages and sold them in QQ group. Originally, it was not much, that is, one or two thousand yuan a month, but because I stayed at home, I was looked down upon by some people, especially some mean relatives. I wonder what kind of mentality they have. I have always thought that their children are awesome at doing things outside. Even if they want to feed pigs at home, they send them money from selling crops in the mountains from time to time, because they think big cities are much better than staying in small places.

Although I like big cities, I won't look down on people who work hard in small cities. I like big cities, because I am used to it, and the salary in big cities is more suitable for me. But if there is an opportunity in a small city, I will choose a small city because it has good air, little noise pollution and low consumption. Such a city makes me more comfortable, but not now, because I want to earn more money. When I am tired and save enough money, I will settle in a small city.