Give birth to a circle of friends who report good news (parents should send a circle of friends to report good news like this)

Text | Traditional Chinese Medicine Li Zhixing

I don't know when it started, and WeChat has become an essential platform for us to contact our feelings and share our lives. Whether expressing one's emotions or releasing some news highlights, WeChat's circle of friends has been active in our lives. It seems that it has become everyone's habit to open the WeChat brush circle of friends every day and see the dynamics of friends.

Such a happy event as the birth of a child at home can be said to be the most exciting and happiest moment for a family. At this moment, the parents of new families are often excited and excited, like a flood that burst its banks. They can no longer conceal their inner happiness and want to announce the arrival of this new life to the world.

At this time, parents often choose to wind up a circle of friends to share this inner joy. However, in addition to joy, many parents and friends have caused some unnecessary jokes or misunderstandings because of the improper wording of the circle of friends.

Mr. and Mrs. Xiao Qi have been married for many years, but they have been afraid to have children because of financial problems. In recent years, with the increase of income and gradual stability, they intend to have children. Not long ago, Xiao Qi successfully gave birth to a daughter, and both husband and wife were very happy. The husband wanted to share this good news with relatives and friends, so he sent a circle of friends, which read as follows: if the family adds 1000 yuan, the mother and son will be safe. This circle of friends has attracted the ridicule of many colleagues and friends. At one time, everyone commented below: Is this a born daughter or a son? It was supposed to be a great wedding, but this moment suddenly seemed awkward. He quickly explained at the bottom that he was overjoyed and his words were inappropriate. The content was hastily changed to: add 1000 yuan at home, mother and daughter are safe.

There are countless friends like this, and I have seen countless more. Words like "mother and daughter have a baby safely and happily" abound, which makes the original happy sharing finally become a slightly embarrassing state.

How to report good news in a circle of friends when a baby is added at home? Doing these three things well is more popular with others, because low-key people will like it:

First, choose words carefully, and don't confuse the child's gender.

Nowadays, many parents and friends don't have high academic qualifications, so they don't pay attention to the choice of words, and often confuse "zi" and "female", so we should pay attention to strict distinction. If the newborn baby at home is a girl, don't say "child" wrong, so as not to cause unnecessary misunderstanding, and others will think that you are uneducated and have no face.

If it is inevitable to mix, you can call your daughter "princess" and your son "prince", so that the gender of the child is obvious and the misunderstanding of others is skillfully avoided.

Second, don't use too many words, be concise and clear.

When the child is born, the parents' joy is self-evident, and they can understand the excitement of their parents at that moment. However, when making friends, parents should be careful not to spit out all their emotions, share the joy of their children's arrival, pay attention to the key points, and try to express their inner emotions with the least words. Power is concise and clear, and at the same time, it does not lose its discretion.

If you want to show all your emotions in your circle of friends, it will be too long, which will inevitably make people feel lost.

Third, pay attention to wording, keep a low profile without losing charm.

Parents and friends are often carried away by the arrival of their children, and they forget themselves for a while. But when making friends, you must control your emotions, even if you are excited, you must be calm. You can't make something too high-profile and selfless because of inner emotional fluctuations.

In this way, people will inevitably think that you are showing off, which is contrary to the initial sharing of joy. Such a circle of friends is often not blessed and will be branded as a high-profile show-off.

? Life is full of learning, even a simple circle of friends can be described as endless learning. Parents and friends who give birth to a baby in a circle of friends need to pay attention. When you are happy with your son and daughter, don't be carried away by the happiness and excitement of your family. When you send a circle of friends, you must pay attention to your wording. Don't cause embarrassing moments because of your inappropriate words. In that case, if you ruin your happy mood and lose face at the same time, it will not be worth the loss.

Therefore, parents of newborns, when welcoming their babies, don't forget to be considerate, regardless of the blessings of others or the joy of sharing, they must be measured.