Do rich people look down on stay-at-home mothers?

From the moment I decided to quit my job and be a full-time mother, the first sentence I heard was: I didn't go out to work after I finished my undergraduate course, but I just took care of the baby at home? College is free! Out of touch with society! I'm going to be abandoned by my husband

To tell the truth, at the beginning, I was also in a hurry. Although I know I can't bear to have children, I often worry that I will be ruined after I really don't go to work, out of touch with society and unable to keep up with my husband's rhythm!

So when my child was about one year old, I started a housekeeping company under the strong opposition of my husband. I just wanted to give it a try, but I didn't expect it to open a new door for me!

Because of business, I have to deal with many rich people every day. To tell the truth, most families that can afford four or five thousand nannies a month are either rich or expensive, so I can see with my own eyes what the lifestyle of the rich people is and how they look at problems.

The biggest feeling is that there are many full-time mothers in rich families!

The community I live in is a low-end community, and most of the residents are factory workers. In the first few years, there was no BBA in the whole community. More than 90% of the communities were elderly people with babies, and there were only a handful of stay-at-home mothers.

When I started a housekeeping company, I found that there were only a handful of rich mothers who went out to work, and most of them took care of their babies at home, because either the rich second generation did not need them to go out to work at home, or the rich first generation had a company or factory at home and did not need to go out to work at all.

Moreover, many families I can contact are not only natural for my mother to take care of the baby full-time at home, but also invite my aunt to do housework, which reminds me that when I was pregnant, I spent 80 yuan to hire a cleaner to clean at home, and my mother talked for a long time!

China old saying: Birds of a feather flock together. It's really true!

The thinking of the poor is really different from that of the rich. The poor always think about how to save money, while the rich always think about how to make money!

When the poor are trying to encourage and support their mothers to go out to work, everyone knows that the mothers of wealthy families not only have money, but also can accompany their children wholeheartedly. Do you think this has been lost at the starting line?

Some people may say that it is because people have money, how can they live without going out to work?

In fact, many times it is really not like this. Of course, material is the foundation, but what is more important is the concept and thinking.

For example, if you go out to work, some parents will choose to take their children, and some parents will choose to leave their children at home and become left-behind children; For example, for the same 10,000 yuan, some parents will choose to save the money, some parents will choose to buy luxury goods, and some parents will choose to provide better education for their children.

This is really not empty talk. We made it ourselves. First of all, in the face of no one taking care of the children, some elders suggested sending them back to their hometown, but we refused!

Secondly, when children choose a school, we decided to let them attend an aristocratic school of 60 thousand a year, which is almost everything. I don't buy any luxuries myself, including skin care products, which are cheap. I concentrate all my energy on providing him with the best material conditions and wholehearted companionship.

My child went to an aristocratic kindergarten, and everything I saw confirmed my previous view: rich families have more full-time mothers! And what is more distinctive is: dads are very idle!

When I say idle, I don't mean that they do nothing all day, but they spend too much time participating in the growth of their children compared with children from poor families!

The most direct contrast is that when picking up children from school, almost 90% of public schools are grandparents, while almost all the aristocratic schools we attend are picked up by parents themselves, with few grandparents.

When the school held a sports meeting on weekdays, Teacher Tizhi directly said that there were basically no grandparents in this school, all of them were parents, unlike other schools, which were almost all grandparents.

So you call it irritating? Rich people not only have money, but also parents have more time and are more willing to accompany their children to grow up. What about children from poor families? While working hard to make a living, you can't take care of your children's education, and at the same time expect your children to become talents. I can't say there is no hope at all, but the probability is extremely low!

After I started a housekeeping company for two years, I really don't worry about not going out to work, and I don't worry about others laughing at me anymore. When I jumped out of my previous poor mentality, the whole world became bright and broad. I'm really glad that I chose to be a full-time mother, which made me see a world completely different from the established track. This also reduces my pain and troubles and makes me more motivated to become better, because I am the only one.

Stay-at-home moms, if you are confused at the moment, I advise you to put aside all doubts and devote yourself to your children. If I had understood this earlier, I wouldn't even have started a housekeeping company because I was too busy to take care of the children. I have had pneumonia twice and suffered too much. Do you want to ask me if I regret it? Only this I really regret. If I had another choice, I would rather do nothing and take care of everything with my heart.

Growth always comes at a price, but I hope to see this article. As a new mother, don't let the first child become an experiment. Really, making money is really not that urgent. It is most important to take care of your children first!