Talking about jokes and idle books

The definition of humor in Ancient Chinese Dictionary is silence. Examples are Huai Sha's Nine Chapters by Qu Yuan: "I'm so embarrassed, Kong Jing is so humorous", and Xie Lingyun's Poem about Wang Wei's Nakano Collection (the third one): "I'm so sad, I touched Ai Liang, but I'm so humorous". Also known as "deep ink". Lu Xun, who has a profound knowledge of Chinese studies, also doesn't think "humor" is a good word-silence. In modern Chinese, "humor" refers to humorous and meaningful words and behaviors. Describe a person's humor, mostly talking and laughing in various occasions. This different meaning from ancient times to the present makes some people lament that Lin Yutang, a "humorist", should consider the connection with ancient Chinese when transliteration to China.

According to the ancient meaning, for most people, humor is innate, and there is no need for deliberate pursuit or disguise. But as a modern person, living in the current context, it is natural to first care about what it means today.

In junior high school, I like talking loudly, laughing loudly and doing great body movements. Make faces, get angry and make people laugh. I think that's humor. Even when everyone tried their best to show their youthful agitation, I won applause from many classmates with my loud voice and thick skin, and they all suggested that I should be a comedian. I am even more narcissistic. I often pretend to reflect on why I am so cute, disdain to associate with people who lack a sense of humor, and hate teachers who are not relaxed and interesting enough, such as Xiaoqiu.

Xiaoqiu's ponytail hangs straight from the top of her head, like her neck that has never been bent, like her waist that has never collapsed. She likes to keep quiet, and every cell on her face seems to be tense all the time, ready for any possible serious state.

Some boys started joking in class. Her eyes seem to stick out. They are still giggling. Xiaoqiu simply said that there are three kinds of words and deeds that make people laugh, humor, humor and clown; Your behavior, you think it's humorous, but it's not even humorous. It's a clown.

I was shocked and felt as if I were talking about myself.

I don't want to be so despised and unsmiling one day. More and more people feel that humor is a kind of wisdom, which makes people have fun. Words are poor, tea is cold, but it is still intriguing. This is the charm that only mature and wise people can exude. I read all kinds of idle books to make myself knowledgeable and try to talk with people properly, and I feel more and more that those who make a hullabaloo about are really noisy and superficial.

One day, I suddenly realized that I no longer care whether I have a sense of humor or whether others have a sense of humor.

Freshman, my language partner asked me what my ideal boyfriend was like, talented, rich, tall and handsome, with a sense of humor ... then I interrupted him and said that a sense of humor didn't seem to matter. If I like a person and feel comfortable with him, I will naturally feel happy. Even if he is not humorous, he can make me laugh. He said that in many countries, humor is an important factor affecting a man's charm index. I think so, but I like the feeling of spring breeze. Maybe people will be different when they are in love, maybe pretending to be humorous will be very oily, or the other person will be very tired.

Ma Dong talked about his father and the way he spoke in a program. He said that he thought a sense of humor was innate, and it was difficult for a person to learn humor through conscious study the day after tomorrow. I am convinced that a person who has no sense of humor will probably become a joke by forcibly showing his sense of humor in public. I no longer care about humor, because I don't want to embarrass myself or others. I may be suitable for ancient affairs. Quiet, like the spring breeze. Or play jokes on people with low jokes. They are always very supportive and the conversation will not stop.

In fact, humor is a very subjective adjective, and the judgment of humor is related to the relationship with the other party and the judge's own personality, thinking and sense of humor. Perhaps, it's not that I'm not humorous enough, but that the collision between many people just didn't produce a spark of humor.

When I was studying Japanese history in my dormitory, I saw that the Muromachi shogunate died at 1573. I vaguely asked my roommate if there was any kind of wine called Guojiao 1573. They agreed, and then seriously discussed the wine, saying that it might not be produced by 1573, and it took too long, but it might be 1973, which was too tasteless. I suddenly lost my sense of humor and didn't know how to answer the phone. They should wonder why I suddenly asked.

My associations are always subtle. On June 18, Xiao Lu said that she only learned this year that June18 was a shopping festival and could have a holiday for any reason. I said, 6 18 is really important in history, when the Tang Dynasty was founded. She asked me several times before she heard what I said, and then she smiled. Is this the reason? We were all silent-I thought it was funny. Does she lack a sense of humor ...

I didn't tell anyone, but one day when I was walking on the road, I remembered the poetry collection "I am so lonely", but I forgot the author's name. When I went back to listen to music at night, I suddenly remembered Simboska. I just want to create a new song list, so I named it "Simbos Karaoke". I said to myself, I am humorous, even though I have never told anyone.

I had a good time and rekindled my humor. I want to show it again.

In the first Japanese history class, the teacher asked us to talk about what kind of starting point we would choose if we took the initiative to understand Japanese history. Before the students, there are myths and paintings. In short, they are serious. It's my turn I said I was more interested in beautiful women, because I thought I looked like a beautiful woman in the Nara era. Time out. Silence. I am waiting for everyone to laugh; Everyone is waiting for me. Go ahead. In order to enliven the frozen air, I was afraid that everyone would think I was a superficial person, so I talked nonsense about women's dominant position in history, social forms, social concepts and the construction of ideal female images. I tried to pretend to be inscrutable, and then the teacher stared at me for a few seconds and said "さすが" several times (sure enough! Really! )。 I think I still have to add a few words to tell you that I was joking when I said I looked like a beautiful woman in Nara's time, but no one laughed. So, burst into laughter. The teacher also talked about beautiful women several times in that class, and then he would look at me. I was on pins and needles. If I remember correctly, the Nara era was characterized by a plump figure, round cheeks, fair skin, small eyes, short eyebrows and a slender neck. )

It seems that my humor is really not suitable for externalization.

Now think about it, humor is really innate. Not only your humor, but also your understanding of humor and humor modality. They are two sides of a whole, which exist in you as an individual and produce interesting internal reactions. Many times, maybe only you can understand your humor. On second thought, it is also a kind of enrichment to chew your humor secretly. This narcissism is just a pleasant attitude towards life, and memories are allusions.