Chaoshan woman-my mother

What does Chaoshan woman look like in your eyes? I believe many people's answer is: virtuous. What about Chaoshan women? In my environment, besides being virtuous, I think there are firmness and endurance.

Since childhood, my dear mother has taken care of every one of us in every possible way. When I was a child, I was born when I was 7 months old. Because of the poor medical conditions in rural areas, my mother painted me with cooking oil in the indigenous way she heard, saying that premature babies were too tender to take a bath and would die easily. So my mother has been using oil and towels to wipe properly, which makes my skin smooth but dark and Qiu Qiu. Which girl doesn't love white! I have been crying and crying for the last month, and my navel has been crying for a long time. Everyone in the alley in the village knows that the old ladies say that my mother has a good temper and I don't want anyone's children. My mother couldn't bear it, so I became a good girl without being known. My mother said that I shuttled back and forth in my body with broom hair and worship curse, and I also brought a little spell, and gradually recovered.

In the countryside, get up early and get greedy every day. In addition to taking care of a large family's daily life and honoring parents-in-law, I also had to cook pig food, sweep dung, transplant rice seedlings, mow grass, and pick cigarettes to buy ................................................................................................ At that time, my mother might have been tired, hungry and tired, but the responsibilities of her daughter-in-law and wife made her more determined to face everything.

Dad raised fish for sale and made a lot of money in the countryside? One of the best rich people, my mother gave my father an idea to go to the city. Don't stick to small farmers' farms. In the first year, my business was bleak and I lost money. My mother still comforted and encouraged my father. I must persist to see hope. So my father insisted. In the future, we bought a house. When others can't afford crayons, we happily draw flowers and plants, and we can go to the mall to buy our favorite snacks.

I wonder how my mother, who doesn't read much, has such a vision and plan. My mother's mind has always been long-term, although it is a bit traditional in red tape. Other people's mothers let their children go out to work to subsidize their families after they dropped out of school, which eased the family's tension. My mom doesn't think so. When she was a child, don't mention how much she loved reading. However, my mother is a victim of the concept of patriarchal education, but she is also optimistic. After watching TV, she learned Mandarin, communicated with friends by mobile phone, spread her circle of friends by dancing, changed her consumption concept and went out to see the world. But the only one around her is our family, from sons and daughters to grandchildren. I think there are many more.

My mother taught us from an early age that we must study to have the right to choose what we like. Only when the economy is independent can we do what we want. So while Dad's business is getting bigger and bigger, she gets up early to cook for us and is also responsible for washing and cooking for more than a dozen workers. Dear mother has been standing upright until now. Now she always asks me: Is my back straight? I smiled and said, "Mom, it must be straight." I don't know whether I dare to face her problems or my own heart. My mother is getting older and older. However, her image in my heart has always been so firm, not shouting, not resisting, but enduring the pain and happiness that life has given her, good and bad, without saying anything for so many years, just silently enduring. Occasionally sensitive, I will silently leave tears. Yes, I selfishly think that my mother is a typical representative of Chaoshan women, with light in her eyes and strength under her feet. Over the years, my mother's teaching is correct. I am more determined after I come out to work, and I will educate my children like this in the future.

"This I don't like to eat, you eat! Take it to eat ... "My mother's words are ringing in my ears at the moment. When I was a child, I really naively thought you didn't like these. Eat the bones next to the fish head and leave us the good parts. I cooked soup to persuade us to drink it. I didn't know I didn't like it until I grew up. It's just that as a parent, you are used to leaving us the best and leaving us without reservation. That's all. That's enough for us to love you for life. After 50 years of wind and rain, she propped up the whole family with a thin figure for half a day. At the beginning of the moment, now it is a lifetime to remember.

Some people say that as long as our parents are here, no matter how old we are, we are still children. They are old. It's our turn to guard them this time. There seems to be a rope between parents and children. At first, parents led their children in front, and later, children led the front. Time should be kind, always give the burden of parents to children a little bit, and let children feel the depth of love themselves. May parents be safe and healthy and enjoy a happy time.