What should the groom do when the bride asks to "get off"?

The wedding was originally a festive event.

For women, this is a once-in-a-lifetime event, and a beautiful wedding has made a "princess dream" since childhood.

For a man, this is a milestone in the next stage of his life, which means that he has entered the ranks of mature men and has the ability to create happiness and form a family.

It can be said that getting married and having children is a festive and significant event for everyone.

China people pay special attention to customs and ostentation and extravagance, and they are unwilling to make trouble at happy events, let alone embarrass others in public.

In fact, sometimes it is strange why many people are willing to make "moths" at weddings.

It seems that they don't want to successfully complete the important events in their lives, but want to "create" some new tricks and try to leave some colorful regrets in their lives before they feel delicious enough.

Some people get married and go to the hospital, some people go their separate ways with a temporary bride price, and some people fight because they don't bow their heads ... In short, since they have become a family, they have no excellent character of tolerance and respect, so it is not surprising that their lives are not good.

0 1 The bride temporarily asked for a gift of 6000 yuan to get off the bus, but the groom didn't give it in anger.

Colleagues attended a special wedding last weekend and told it as a joke when they came back. Everyone can't help but sigh.

Finally, I come to the conclusion that we should be cautious about getting married. Don't make a move by patting your head, or you will have no regrets.

Li Ke, a cross-provincial bride, is a typical distant marriage. Originally, her parents strongly disapproved of her marrying far away. But she and her boyfriend have deep feelings, and no one can live without anyone, so the wedding was held in a hurry.

Li ke's family is not rich. Originally, she expected her daughter's wedding gift money to be used by her younger son. Who knows that the bride price didn't come much, only took 30 thousand.

As a result, parents kept nagging in Li Ke's ear all day: "Look how well their daughter is married. If nothing else, there is a house and a car, and the bride price is high. Look at you. When people ask about your bride price, I am embarrassed to say it. "

At first, Li Ke was able to cope with her parents' dissatisfaction, but these comparisons, like a seed, gradually took root in her heart, and slowly, she felt that she had lost.

"Yes, why do others have it and they don't?"

Li Ke and his girlfriend add up. Now the bride price is a foregone conclusion. How to test a man's sincerity from other aspects? The girlfriend said, "The door is blocked and we want more money. Then there will be a boarding ceremony to get off. If you are not satisfied, you will not get off. "

Li Ke agreed, because she married far away, so she stayed in a hotel on the wedding day. The matter of blocking the door ended hastily, and she didn't ask for much money. After that, she did the same thing and asked the groom for 6000 yuan temporarily, otherwise she wouldn't get off the bus.

Who knows that the groom has no money and there is not so much cash at home. The groom advised Li Ke to get married first and wait until after the ceremony.

Li Ke disagreed and said, "If you don't have it, you can't get it without me."

As a result, relatives and friends of both sides were deadlocked for 30 minutes, waiting for Li Ke to get off the bus. This scene became a joke and spread all over the country.

I held a boarding ceremony, but I also want to hold a disembarkation ceremony. Obviously I don't want to get married. "

Li Ke doesn't get off the bus, and the groom can't just beg and persuade in the car.

After all, with so many relatives and friends present, he has to be greeted and busy.

He is pale and angry, and his face, which was originally rosy because of the happy event, has now increased a little impatience for no reason.

"I don't know what happened to this woman. She must complete the boarding ceremony and get off. Obviously, she just doesn't want to marry me. If I had known this, I wouldn't be in a hurry to marry her. You see, how will our family live in the future? Do you want to lose face? "

He sat in his room and complained to a group of friends.

Everyone looked at each other, not knowing how to comfort him. Someone asked, "Did you give him the boarding gift, too?"

"Yes, just got on the bus and told me that there is this gift. I said I hadn't heard of it. She clamored for it, so I gave her all my red envelopes, otherwise how could I have no money? "

The friend asked, "How much did you give?"

"How much can there be? Some of them are added to the car, and a * * * is less than 2,000 yuan." As the groom spits, he thinks, "It seems too little. It costs 6000 yuan to get off the bus. This is the money."

The groom is not convinced. He thinks we can talk about how much money we have. It can be clear before marriage, there is no need to temporarily overweight, and there is no need for stalemate.

Now that a good wedding has been put on hold, it is not worth the candle.

Unfortunately, Li Ke doesn't think so. She thought she was neglected. The husband's family has prepared too little money. Nobody gets any cash when they get married. It's ridiculous that her family can't even come up with 6000 yuan.

She thinks she is right: "I only want 6000, not 60000, is it difficult?" I don't think they value me at all. "

All in all, each has its own reasons.

Li ke is riding a tiger, saying nothing is good. The groom is too lazy to coax, thinking that since the atmosphere of marriage has been completely destroyed, it is better to talk about it earlier and not get married at all.

Fortunately, the groom's mother was sensible and rode to the nearest bank to withdraw money, which solved the trouble with a red envelope.

After a stalemate for 30 minutes, the mother-in-law took out the "getting off the bus" and the groom watched it go away regretfully.

After a stalemate of 30 minutes, the groom's mother came back with the money. She looked unhappy, but forced a smile and gave her son a red envelope: "Go, go, get off, hurry up, everyone is in a hurry."

The groom looked into his mother's eyes, sweated on his forehead, sighed and walked to the float with a red envelope.

He threw the red envelope out of the window: "Get off for you."

He is not going to help her. Li ke left the pie mouth and pushed the door and got off. After getting off the bus, he found that everyone around him stopped talking, and the previous lively atmosphere was gone. He was afraid.

I don't know which kind-hearted person shouted: "The bride got off, let's get up."

Cheers broke out only sparsely around, which made Li Ke feel warm.

This matter, even if it is over.

Unfortunately, Li Ke thought it was too much, but the groom was very unhappy.

When everyone was having dinner together in the evening, the groom said drunkenly, "This gift is from me, but I lost my respect for her. I will remember this for the rest of my life. It always reminds me that I am wrong. "

It is unnecessary for others to persuade him at once.

However, the onlookers thought that if they were involved in this matter, it would inevitably block their hearts.

6000 yuan is neither too little nor too much, but it is separated between them and becomes a thorn that is difficult to heal in the second half of life.