I went to my girlfriend's house to propose marriage, and the two families broke up in discord. What if my girlfriend doesn't find me?

Be responsible for yourself. You are a man, not a villain. Drag her to his house to propose. Be brave and wish you happiness. After all, that's your child.

Obviously, it's for her own good. Like you, my boyfriend is also a well-known key university in China, and I am just an ordinary high school student in my hometown. We have been in love for four years, and I am in poor health. He has been asking for marriage with me since two years ago, but I still think that if he can find a college student to marry, his future will be better. I kept putting it off, but he didn't want to, and I didn't want to, because our feelings were very strong. And both parents are very satisfied, but I am still worried that his illness will seriously drag him down in the future, so I didn't agree to get married. In this year, in order not to worry him, I have worked very hard, never spent his money, and rarely complained that he was afraid that his work would be affected. Even if he was ill, I would tell him again! His father's new house is going to propose to my house. When I was in a hurry, I lied that we broke up. Until May1this year, his family said that he was 30 years old and couldn't wait for me, so they forced him to go on a blind date. He is an undergraduate in an ordinary university, majoring in art, which should be consistent with his major. He came back and told me the generous situation, which I thought was ok, but I was also very sad. He still loves me and likes me. In order to make him give up, I said a lot of rude words, such as "you betrayed me to go on a blind date and said such hypocritical things." Even if you kneel in front of me now, I can't make up with you! " Actually, I believe him. I talked with him for four years, and I know him very well. If he didn't love me, he wouldn't have waited for me that long, and he had had several unhappy times with his family for my late marriage. If I don't tell his family that I broke up with him, I guess he will wait! Feelings are like this, not who pays how much. If you really love him, you will make sacrifices for his happiness. Maybe he doesn't understand your intention, but as long as we think it's right! I also hope that what you do for him will make him happy, but if your girlfriend doesn't mind, I still hope that you can have a lover and everything will be fine. I made up my mind not to be with him because I am in poor health and I am afraid that I will inherit after giving birth to a child! You'd better think it over! If you love him, work hard. Temporary failure doesn't mean that you will never be incompetent! Come on!