If you are a stay-at-home mom, what do you think your husband should do to you?

Mom, this job is 24 hours a day, 24 hours a day.

Mother's contribution to the family is no less than that of her husband, but she is often ignored by her family. When a family has a new life, mothers usually take on more.

A misunderstood full-time mother's day As a full-time mother's day, does the father of the child feel relaxed?

Anglenala's interpretation of "Mother's Daily Life" expresses her heart.

This is just a microcosm of the life of a stay-at-home mother. Whenever the child is uncomfortable, it is the mother who doesn't take good care of it.

How many mothers' hearts have been hurt by this sentence!

Let your husband take care of the children and understand your work. Let dad take more care of the children during the month, laying the foundation for the future. Many Bao dads will be more willing to take care of their babies when they see how cute they are.

Let dad take care of the baby alone for a few hours a week. Mom can go shopping, get together and exercise. In short, let go. In this way, the mother's mood will be better and the family will be more harmonious. Dad will also appreciate mom's hard work.

If I am a stay-at-home mom, I will take care of my family and keep growing. I may even find a job and a part-time job.

If a person becomes a full-time mother, he will take care of and educate his children repeatedly every day. Any expenditure depends on men, completely divorced from society. Then don't say what your husband did to you. There may be fewer and fewer friends around us, because our topic is nothing more than three meals a day, husband and children. And communication with her husband, the only child, money, life.

In fact, stay-at-home mothers have no less family responsibilities than husbands who earn money outside the home. After all, she should be the backing of her husband and the support of her children. But stay-at-home mothers are destined to be financially independent. When the husband is in financial difficulties, it is easy to blame the economic problems on family expenses. He won't think about how much you have done for your family. He will only think about how much you spent.

Therefore, don't be a full-time wife without money!

As a full-time wife, your life may become like this: you are afraid to spend money, socialize too much, buy cosmetics, and buy new clothes because you don't earn money yourself. I never expected you to be responsible for making money to support my family. I am responsible for the beautiful life. If you have no money, you have to take a penny from your husband. How can you be beautiful with so much housework? The premise of being a full-time wife must be that you have financial resources, or that you are in charge of money in this family.

Stay-at-home mom in the family. In fact, it is at a disadvantage, and it is actually very difficult to get her husband's appreciation. There is a saying that economic status determines family status. Full-time housewives, in fact, have no value, but devote their youth, energy and ability to their families. In my opinion, I am great. I love my family, my husband and children. This huge sense of self will make women feel good about themselves.

In the husband's view, a stay-at-home housewife, basically like a child, is his burden, not his peers. All he can see is consumption, demand, verbosity, mediocrity, no thought, no ability and no action.

The most obvious example is Luo Zijun in my first half of my life. Originally, I graduated from the Open University before marriage and had a stable and self-sufficient job, because my husband said, "I will support you." And give up independence, enter the family and become a housewife.

A few years later, in the eyes of her husband, she became a woman who knew nothing and was completely a burden. How terrible this is, in fact, it is worth pondering by every woman.

Hope and reality are often very different. Sometimes, the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment.

For a stay-at-home mother, the energy of looking after children every day is completely harder than work. But in the eyes of men, this is not a problem at all. In their eyes, a woman at home does whatever she wants, from the inside out, from housework to children, and even basic family affairs are not done well. Like, all the food is free.

Want to get his appreciation, that's simply.

I think it's hard for stay-at-home mothers to get real appreciation from their husbands. No matter how well he speaks. Over time, it will be perfunctory.

Everything a woman needs has happened, and she still wins well. Stay-at-home mothers should be respected women, but it is almost impossible for men.

If there is an opportunity, he still has to go out and work independently, turning raising children into a matter for two people so that men can take care of them. At this time, he will understand how hard women work, and it is also at this time that he will respect women and really get better.

Best wishes.

If I were a stay-at-home mother, I would let my husband pay me salary, manage money and take a part-time job while taking care of everything at home, so as to be a smart woman and make my life prosperous.

This statement breaks a woman's heart After all, a full-time mother is quietly paying, and she can really be a free nanny. If your husband says that again next time, you can settle an account with him: nanny fee+family living expenses!

In an ordinary city, the cost of a nanny is about 3000 yuan, and the cost of a family is 15 per person per day. Three meals for three people 135, the integer is 100, and 3000 yuan for 30 days a month. These two expenses add up to 6000. Let my husband pay your salary and family expenses first.

My mother-in-law has been a full-time wife for more than 20 years. Until now, my father-in-law has given him 60,000 yuan a year for his home use. What I saved was my mother-in-law's pocket money, which was not enough for my father-in-law to give her again. Two people have lived in harmony for more than 20 years, saying that each other is very good and solved each other's worries. Of course, the money my father-in-law earns in a year will eventually be given to my mother-in-law's house, just because I don't want her to feel embarrassed every time she takes money from him.

Now pregnant with a second child, I am a full-time mother, and my husband will pay me every month. But every month I will be told not to spend money indiscriminately, because we have not reached the stage of my in-laws and have no complete financial freedom, so we will live carefully. I recorded every expenditure in detail, just for my own peace of mind. I will show it to my husband every month to let him know that my money has not been squandered, and I will gradually trust each other and give it to me every month.

If you don't accept this statement, you can go back. What the family pays is not who makes money, but who has value. The family pays equally, and you only earn money. Don't you get paid to be a stay-at-home mom and give up on yourself? Don't you need to raise children? Busy doing housework every day, giving you a warm home, and having a hot meal when you come back, isn't it a pay? Anyone who is a full-time mother knows that if there is a choice, everyone would rather go to work. I go to work for 8 hours, and occasionally I can be lazy and relax. At the same time, I take a child on call 24 hours a day to take care of their eating, drinking and doing housework. Which is easier for you? Say something unpleasant, it's not that you can't, let alone that you support me. Your pay is pay, and my pay is not pay? So the same contribution should be respected, but it should not be divorced from society for too long. In this Internet age, there are still many opportunities for stay-at-home mothers, so they should study frequently and enrich themselves. Start (a disease)

I have been working since I got married. In those years, my family was almost my whole burden. As soon as I tell my husband to do something, my mother-in-law will say that she has no husband and I bully her. In 2008, his sister was busy opening a shop and asked him to help. Once she gets paid, she will never send money home again. Once she had to pay the mountain money, and her family had more than 3 thousand. I asked him to deliver it. The next day, I heard her mother-in-law say, let her However, my heart is already cold. From then on, I no longer felt at home. I work hard with my children, and the money is not enough for me and my children. 10, my mother-in-law was ill, and I chose to take care of her when she was ill until she died in 1 12.

Women work hard to make money. Only money is the short-term measure of the status between people, because many people don't have the time and energy to judge your character and character now, because maybe these have nothing to do with his manners, or even care. However, people who get more money from home generally have a sense of superiority.

I'm not a stay-at-home mom, but I have to admit that few women can really take care of work and children. Therefore, after having a baby, as mothers, we will unconsciously give up many things, such as our own ideals and time arrangements. Therefore, I admire those women who completely choose to return to their families for their children. In fact, the pressures and tests they bear are much higher than those in the workplace. Therefore, although they have no financial resources, they deserve enough respect and goodwill from their husbands. They are not nannies, but heroes who give up their lives for their families and children. It is their thin and busy figure that makes the word home hot.