How to see a person's character from his clothes?

Since the birth of mankind, how to know strangers, companions, friends and relatives has become a long-standing problem. Wise ancestors summed up a series of famous sayings and aphorisms to remind themselves at all times, such as "a long way to know horsepower, a long time to see people's hearts" and "knowing people's faces but not their hearts". However, summing up leads to summing up, refining leads to refining, and the difficulty of knowing people is still like a mountain in front of everyone. Interestingly, the problem has not been solved, but it has given birth to a new profession-Ma Yi Xiang Shi, and "knowing people" has become a relaxed profession that can be fooled as much as possible. The times are developing, science is progressing, and the skill of knowing people naturally keeps pace with the times. Since modern psychology came into being, we have come to understand that Fiona Fang, with a full heaven and a vast land, is not necessarily an official position. Inadvertently born triangular eyes and broom eyebrows are not necessarily doomed to treachery. To understand a person's character, we should not only listen to his words, but also observe his actions, so many things that we have never paid attention to have become the best window to understand a person. Open this topic, you will find that behind different clothing habits, there are individuals with different personalities; Appreciating different lines of the body will also map people's different preferences and attitudes towards life; Even the animals in the movies are allegorical expressions of people's different personalities. After tasting this topic, you will understand that behind countless seemingly simple and different details of life, there are independent, rich and colorful inner worlds. (Dong Yiran) Expert Voice Wang Jisheng, a researcher at the Institute of Psychology, Chinese Academy of Sciences, stressed: "There are many factors that affect and reflect a person's personality and psychology. Clothing can indeed reflect some psychological characteristics of a person, which can be used as a reference for us to know a person, but we cannot arbitrarily generalize. Because people have a lot of contingency in choosing clothes, for example, sometimes people choose different clothes because of different time and occasions. " Dress preference reveals a woman's heart. A recent survey abroad found that a person's preferred color often represents his personality and emotional color. Dr. Peter Rover, an American psychologist, believes that a person's psychology can often be inferred from his preference for clothing color and clothing, which is more obvious in women. Coincidentally, Masazo Shibuya, Ph.D. in Psychology from the School of Humanities, Tokyo Metropolitan University, Japan, and now a professor of psychology in the Department of Human Sociology at Mubai University, proposed that a woman's choice of clothes implied many personalized psychological characteristics on the basis of her years of specialized research on nonverbal communication and spatial action. Looking at women from the perspective of workplace dress: women who wear trousers in the workplace are more feminine, and women who wear skirts are stronger. In the workplace, women wear masculine clothes, showing a more masculine psychology-they want to work like men and decide the outcome by strength, not because they are women. Therefore, such women should try their best to eliminate their femininity. These people may be conscious of their feminine part and wear rigorous suits to hide. If they are such women, after leaving the workplace, they will lift their restrictions and become very feminine. Therefore, people who choose the same clothes as men's suits are enthusiastic and self-motivated. They have strong opinions and a strong sense of competition with others, but they are uncoordinated and easy to conflict with others. People who usually wear skirts and feminine clothes at work put themselves into work as women. Sometimes, such people will actively use feminine characteristics. They have the characteristics of calculating the whole event calmly and thoroughly to survive, which is very different from what they appear on the outside, and can be regarded as people with very masculine subconscious. Understand women from the complexity of clothes: women in gorgeous clothes are actually uneasy about people? In fact, everyone feels isolated from the outside world, which is called "body image boundary". Originally, the most basic boundary was the skin. When wearing clothes, clothes became the boundary, so clothes can be said to be the "second skin". A person always tries to hide his naked body and wears clothes, but often his heart is exposed because of his choice of clothes. Masazo Shibuya, a professor of psychology in the Department of Human Sociology at Mubai University in Japan, believes that if a person has a weak sense of boundaries, it is difficult for him to feel the difference between himself and others, and it is also difficult for him to grasp the distance from others, so he is not good at interacting with others, because he always feels uneasy because he keeps the boundaries between himself and the outside world weak. People who want to enhance their sense of boundaries will wear eye-catching clothes that are obviously different from others. In addition, with the enhancement of the closeness between clothes and skin, it can also strengthen people's sense of boundaries. Women who are confident in their bodies and exude femininity everywhere in gorgeous clothes may fall into the feeling of being uneasy about others after taking off their clothes. People who wear loose and comfortable clothes regardless of their figure are people who can keep up with the fashion and master the pace that is not their own. On the one hand, they can keep their own values firmly, on the other hand, they can have good interpersonal relationships to understand women from the color system of clothes: the favorite color can directly show a person's personality. After meeting a person several times, you can probably know what color system she likes from the clothes. A person's favorite color can directly show a person's personality, and it can also be seen that he "wants to be what kind of person he wants to be and how he wants others to look at him". Yu Jia, deputy manager and chief image consultant of Beijing Chinese Family Fashion Design Co., Ltd., said that when she conducts color consultation, she will first observe the type of guests. Years of work experience have enabled her to judge this person's personality almost from the first glance. She said: "Those who like bright colors are generally cheerful, healthy or enthusiastic and self-centered; I like to wear white, which is noble and pure, with a little indifference in my subconscious, giving people a sense of distance, and so on. " Wang Jisheng, a researcher at the Institute of Psychology, Chinese Academy of Sciences, said that color works through human vision. The wavelength of light emitted by different colors is different. When human eyes are exposed to different colors, brain nerves make different associations and reactions. "Colors are divided into cool colors and warm colors. Wearing clothes with different colors has different effects. Therefore, people choose clothing colors, which are mostly inner projection or reverse projection. " Dr. Peter Rover, an American psychologist, found that women who like to wear red clothes are considered as "young people with rich aspirations". They often feel dissatisfied, adventurous and follow the fashion, but their fickle temperament is often unpredictable. Women who like green are considered as "tough and practical mothers". In life, they are content with the status quo, act cautiously and work hard, but they are afraid of taking risks and being ahead, introverted and often suppress their desires, and are ashamed to take the initiative in their feelings. In addition, people who like white often make people feel distant but inaccessible; People who like purple may be more romantic; People who like yellow are naive inside; People who like blue are sincere and full of fantasy; People who like black suppress their feelings but are eager for care and love … Of course, this classification seems a little too simple, and there are often many colors that a person likes, which cannot be generalized. However, knowing what color a woman prefers may help to understand her heart. Understanding women from the bright brightness of clothing colors: people who like high-color colors are cheerful and extroverted, but their hearts are full of anxiety. American psychologist Dr. Peter Rover found that people who pay attention to clothing colors and like complex clothing are often more practical and confident, but they love to dominate others, and their feelings are impulsive and easy to fall into anxiety. People who like light-colored clothes and simple clothes are often introverted and live a simple, gentle and quiet life, but they are easy to lack self-confidence, have strong dependence and are not good at independent action. Masazo Shibuya, a Japanese psychology professor, thinks that people who like high-color colors are cheerful and outgoing, and tend to be active. But my heart is full of anxiety, and I am full of uncertainty and dissatisfaction. It is precisely because I want to make up for my own anxiety that I like high-tone colors. They have a strong anxiety about their personality and ability, and may be dissatisfied with their work, workplace and treatment. It is completely different from the appearance, but it is actually a shrinking personality. Lack of coordination, easy to be influenced by new and popular things. In addition, even small things will make them feel happy and sad, while people who don't like high-color colors have a high degree of satisfaction with themselves, firmly determine their self-orientation, will not dance with the fashion, have a realistic attitude towards life, have a sincere personality and stable feelings, and will choose the object of communication according to their own standards in interpersonal relationships, and build a stable relationship from the beginning. Their self-assertion is not too strong, but they can express their views without fear when necessary. In addition, because a woman will be influenced by her mood at that time when she chooses which clothes to wear, her mood on that day will often be seen from the clothes she changes every day. Recently, I was reading some books about psychology, and I saw an interesting theory that "clothing is an extension of self". Psychologically, many casual human activities can well reflect a person's subconscious mind, which is a good performance of a person's personality and will also determine a large part of a person's actions. First, well-dressed people have a strong desire to show themselves, and they love to show off in public. We always find that some people always wear gorgeous and eye-catching gorgeous clothes, and such people generally have a strong desire to show themselves. At the same time, this kind of person's desire for money is particularly urgent. Therefore, when you see such people dressed in gorgeous clothes, or there are such people among your classmates, you can gain insight into their psychology, and it is a good way to praise their clothes and satisfy their inflated desire to show, so if someone praises your clothes, you should be more careful. Second, people who wear simple clothes lack self-confidence and like quarreling. There is a kind of person who wears simple clothes and doesn't like to wear gorgeous clothes. Most of these people lack subjective character and confidence in themselves. They hope to give dignity to others and want to make up for their feelings of inferiority. When they meet such people, don't argue with them, because the more they feel inferior, the more they will quarrel with others, in order to save the little face left, which is not conducive to maintaining relationships with others. Third, people who like fashionable clothes have a sense of loneliness, and their emotions often fluctuate. There is a kind of person who completely ignores his hobbies. They only take fashion as a hobby and keep up with fashion. This kind of person has a sense of loneliness in his heart and his emotions are often uneasy. What kind of people do you design? Looking at personality from the color of clothing, the German psychologist Luweier pioneered the method of judging personality by color preference, which was popular all over the world. Because color has indescribable charm in the appearance of clothing, it can not only show the texture of clothing, but also show a person's personality and demeanor, which is the most emotional part of a person's overall image. What color clothes a person chooses is closely related to his personality. Because this is related to the state of psychological activity at that time, we can see what kind of personality characteristics each person has from his favorite colors. At the same time, it can make up for some shortcomings of body shape and skin color to some extent. Men prefer cool colors and medium colors. The clothes with these colors look solemn, powerful, majestic and deep. People of different professional ages and personalities have different choices of clothing colors. For example, young people like lively and warm colors; Middle-aged and elderly people are keen on calm and deep colors; Doctors prefer clean and bright, light and refreshing colors; Artists often choose romantic and chic imitation colors with classical charm. . Specifically, we can see through the personality of the wearer from the preference for clothing color. 1. On the surface, people who choose black clothes may leave a mysterious, noble and professional impression on others. Most of these people are not good at social communication. They just use black to cover up their inner anxiety or fear. 2. People who choose blue clothes Blue is a fairly common color. These people prefer to be quiet, carefree, good at controlling their feelings and have a sense of responsibility. At the same time, he is knowledgeable and has strong judgment. Personality is also stubborn, never give up until you reach your goal. They are not good at communication, so they only form a small group with like-minded friends. Stubborn, lacking the magnanimity to adopt other people's opinions. 3. People who choose dark blue clothes Dark blue is a color formed by calm and emotional blue and black. It not only retains the perseverance and mystery of black, but also adds the toughness and perseverance of blue, which makes dark blue both intellectual and managerial. People who like to wear dark blue clothes should be an excellent decision maker. Such people will think carefully about everything, and it is easier to achieve their careers, mostly men. Most of these men like to be independent and work for themselves, but they don't like to accept criticism and suggestions from others. 4. People who choose white clothes White is a pure color without any impurities. The person who chooses white clothes is a person who pursues perfection, but there is a practical side. This kind of person is lonely inside, eager to attract the attention, care and even admiration of others. They don't like other people's unreasonable politeness very much, so in the eyes of outsiders, they are the kind of people who love and fear, are both pretentious and like to get into a dead end. 5. People who choose yellow clothes Yellow is a color of spiritual energy, which can accelerate the realization of ideals and inspire new ideas, but it gives people a stupid impression because most people don't know how to choose the yellow that suits them. A person who chooses yellow clothes is usually a person who has his own unique opinions and ideas and is highly creative and curious. They are cheerful, extroverted, energetic, confident, natural and unrestrained, and fearless in speaking, and don't worry about what others will think. This kind of people have the characteristics of adventure, pursuit of excitement and novelty, and can't stand the same. 6. People who choose green clothes Green is a vibrant color, which represents the birth and continuation of life. People who like green clothes are modest and down-to-earth, good at restraining themselves, do not like to argue with others, are not easily upset, and rarely feel anxious or sad. Kindness and agreeableness are the greatest characteristics of such people, and they will not deliberately exclude or alienate people they don't like. This kind of person has a strong sense of morality, straightforward personality and is an ideal object for chatting. 7. People who choose purple clothes Purple is a noble and arrogant color, which is produced by the combination of red and blue. It contains the definitions of spirit and body and is the best auxiliary to control emotions. People who like to wear purple clothes are people with high observation and understanding. Such people are introverted, sentimental and often feel anxious, but they can control and control their inner feelings of anxiety and distress. This kind of people generally have good cultural quality and self-restraint, and they are often artists. However, people who often wear purple clothes are somewhat conceited, and they often show disdain for people or things who are not in the same field or in the same class as him, which makes people around them feel that they are affected. 8. People who choose brown clothes. Brown gives people a stable but slightly depressing feeling. This kind of people have strong basic desires, their personality is stiff, their self-values are strong, and they are afraid of having to change themselves because of the intervention of external factors. But in appearance and attitude towards things, it gives people a great sense of trust. right