Philosophical articles in Youth Digest

You should have heard of Youth Digest magazine. We often see it in bookstores or newsstands. There are many philosophical articles in this magazine, and here are the ones I arranged for you. I hope you like it.

Chapter 65438 +0: Don't think you are a measure.

Some people always measure themselves. It's interesting to say that what you like, you think others like it; What you are afraid of, you think others are afraid; What you hate most is that you think it is harmful to others. In fact, this is often not the case.

I tried my best to recommend the songs I liked to sing and the books I liked to read when I was a child. The children all laughed when I sang the words "Flag of Victory Flying in the Wind" and "The Bright Sun Rises in the East". I feel strange because I think the lyrics of the songs they sing are all out of shape. It was not until a long time later that I realized that every generation has its own songs. They sometimes accept something I love, but they have their own love after all. Living in different times and backgrounds, it is impossible to be consistent in all aspects.

I find it almost a joke that people judge the characteristics of things by their own likes and dislikes. When a mother comes back from a business trip in the cold north, she will start to add clothes to her children. When a father comes home by bike and is sweating profusely, he will be anxious to undress his children. Parents are hungry and advise their children to eat more. When parents feel uncomfortable, they reprimand their children for being too greedy. When parents are lonely, they blame their children for being too honest and not active. When parents want to take a nap, they find the noise made by their children more annoying. When parents want to learn, they find that their children don't like learning. When parents want to play ball, they find that their children don't like sports. Don't say that when parents are upset, it is definitely more uncomfortable to look at their children.

How many negative comments of the previous generation on the next generation are reliable? How much is measured by those who measure themselves? On the other hand, don't the next generation also take themselves as the criterion? How disappointed they were when they saw that the previous generation had gained weight, white hair and little understanding of many new terms. Why don't you think about it? The older generation is also furious. There is a proverb in English: "Every dog has its own time. Every dog has its own time. " There needs to be more mutual understanding between the old and the young.

I don't mean to believe that the new generation must be better than the previous generation with a simple evolutionary point of view, but at least, people are developing and changing, society is advancing with the times, and science and technology, ideological theory, lifestyle and even values are constantly developing and changing. You are very happy and think it will change with the improvement; If you are unhappy, you can conclude that it is getting worse and worse, and it is still changing. You give a high evaluation, it will change; Your evaluation is extremely poor, and you think that each generation is worse than the next. They are all black sheep and will change. Here, I don't want to make a rash value judgment on this change. Many things of our predecessors need to be inherited and cherished. While making progress and getting new achievements, future generations will also lose some good things and pay some prices that may be too high and excessive. However, it is impossible to keep the next generation unchanged. Only by understanding these developments and changes can we grasp the initiative of history, gain the initiative of education or influence the next generation, and win the trust and respect of the next generation. At the same time, young people can only talk about development and creation if they inherit all the good things of their predecessors.

Chapter 2: Dad who can't shout out

That time, I was on a business trip. As soon as I got on the train, a dark man sat in my seat, with his eyes closed and a four-or five-year-old child in his arms. The child has fallen asleep, and his face is serene and calm, unaffected by the noise and noise in the carriage.

The train is about to leave, and I'm still standing in the crowded aisle. At this moment, a chubby lady came up from behind me. She looked down at the ticket in her hand, then pulled the man and shouted, "get up, get up." My seat. " The man was pulled by her, rubbed his eyes quickly and stood up. A middle-aged man in the opposite seat stood up and said to the man, "Sit with the child in your arms." With that, he stretched himself and left his seat. I saw the fat lady sitting, and my seat was in her. I quickly sat down.

The man put the child flat in his arms, let her sleep on the seat, and then took off his coat and covered the child's thin body. He stood up, shook his arms and twisted his neck, and walked back and forth in the corridor.

The man will come back to see the child every once in a while and touch the child's forehead with his hand. About an hour later, the child woke up. The man is sharp-eyed, so pull back quickly. The child didn't say a word, just looked at the man with his eyes and his long black eyelashes were blinking. Without saying anything, the man tore off a bag from the luggage rack and took out a bucket of noodles. Whispered to the child: "I'm going to touch the boiling water!" " "The child nodded and smiled, revealing two white front teeth. The child is very cute. I can see from her smile that she is a little girl, a Sargam.

Soon, the man came back with a bowl of instant noodles. Sargam picked up chopsticks to eat. He whispered, "It's hot. Eat later. " Sargam looked at the man and stopped his outstretched hand. Probably thinking that Sargam was hungry, the man picked up a few strands of noodles with chopsticks, put them to his mouth, and blew a sigh of relief "Poof, poof ..." When he finished eating, the man put the noodles on the chopsticks and fed them to Sargam's mouth. With a smile in his eyes, Sargam opened his mouth and began to eat. ...

After a while, the dumb girl squeezed the man's hand with her hand. The man said, "Are you full?" Sargam nodded with a smile. The man said, "Then I ate?" Sargam nodded again with a smile. The man put his lips close to the edge of the bowl of instant noodles, divided by three times and five times, "hula" for a while and finished eating the noodles. When he returned from throwing away instant noodles and chopsticks, Sargam fidgeted and grabbed his coat anxiously. He picked up the child and walked down the aisle to the toilet.

Oh, it's Sagan who wants to go to the bathroom. Sargam's needs and desires are conveyed to men through his eyes.

The fat woman around me muttered, "It's very thin for a man to bring a mute, and I don't know where the mute baby's mother is."

A middle-aged woman with a Sichuan accent in the opposite seat said, "This wretched woman has no mother. He met the girl at the gate of the hospital. She was abandoned by her biological parents only a few days after her birth. When he saw it, he took it home and raised it himself. Because this wretched man is almost 30 years old and not married. No matter where I go to work, I will take that girl with me. " Then, the middle-aged woman told me that she was a man's workmate, and his workmates advised him to give up, but he refused to do it.

"Then where is he going?" The fat woman asked. The Sichuan woman replied, "He is from Sichuan and wants to work in Wuhan." How can I work with such a child? Sichuan women saw my doubts. Then he said, "People say that some hospitals in Wuhan can see this disease, so he decided to work in Wuhan."

After hearing what she said, my heart suddenly sank. It is conceivable that a migrant worker with a sick child is seeking medical treatment while working.

Just then, the man slowly came back from the aisle with Sargam in his arms.

Later, someone pushed a car to sell fruit. I bought two watermelons and two strawberries. One handed it to the man: "for the children!" " Sargam shook his head, looked at it with eyes as black as grapes, and smiled sweetly as if to say, "Thank you. Aunt, I don't eat. " The man smiled, scratched his head with his hand and said shyly; "My girl only loves instant noodles and never eats these ..."

Their father and daughter politely refused my pity.

When I got off the train, I watched him carry a big bag and put Sargam around his neck. She put her arms around his forehead. I have no choice. I stood on tiptoe, held Sargam's hand and touched her face. Sargam on the shoulder smiled at me, too. Those talking eyes are flashing, as if to say to me, "Don't worry about me, I have my father to take care of me."

I stood at the exit with no end in sight, looking at the thin back of the black man, filled with emotion: under the ordinary appearance, there is a kind and noble soul hidden.

Rule 3: Walk with the boss?

You might think that mark zuckerberg, the founder of FACEBOOK, can only take a quiet walk with his closest family and friends. In fact, this kind of walking is a privilege reserved by the richest young people in the world for a few selected future employees.

Although this kind of walk is the same-through the Paul Aalto Woods around Stanford University, there are still some small and pleasant changes every time.

Those lucky enough to walk with Mark said that 27-year-old mark zuckerberg always suddenly asked the other person to go for a walk with him in the Woods. He likes to see each other suddenly stunned and then ecstatic. Of course, the invitees will agree, and then they will be led by mark zuckerberg through the FACEBOOK parking lot and walk to a lookout in Silicon Valley, where Mark will throw stones.

Those who are invited to go with the CEO will be asked not to disclose their names and sign a confidentiality agreement to ensure that the conversation with Mark will not be disclosed.

Taking an intimate walk with mark zuckerberg is a rare experience, and it will definitely be in a favorable position among many competitors who want to enter the company. A job seeker usually goes through a long and difficult interview process. The interview includes online application, telephone interview, and then face-to-face conversation with FACEBOOK interviewers and management.

However, some star engineers and designers can skip the plan.

A job seeker said after a walk with mark zuckerberg earlier this year, "One morning, I opened my email and found an email from mark zuckerberg himself. I almost choked to death on a mouthful of coffee. He asked me to go to Paul Aalto's FACEBOOK campus to discuss with him what I can do for the company in the future. "

Another candidate who was invited to walk with Mark took the same route. He said that when they reached the end of the walk, he and Mark were facing the wonderful scenery where FACEBOOK was located. Mr Zuckerberg stopped to explain the technological development in this field.

"He showed me the headquarters of' Apple', followed by the headquarters of Hewlett-Packard and other high-tech companies, and then pointed to the headquarters of Facebook, saying that this would be the largest enterprise in all this area. If I enter this company, I will also become one of them. "