There is a strange old saying in the countryside that "brothers want their brothers to be poor". Do you agree?

There is an old saying in the countryside that brothers prefer their brothers to be poor? I think there is only one reason, that is, discord between brothers, like a relative of mine. They are brothers. Why do they all want their brothers to be poor? Let me tell you something: this family relationship is quite complicated. Two sons, two daughters, the eldest and youngest sister were born by stepfather, and the younger brother and another girl were born by the original match. Stepfather died a few years after he came to the house, and all four children are married now. However, the bride price of the two daughters is almost 800 thousand, all of which were received by the mother. According to his eldest brother, the money made his brother lose money in business, and then his brother suddenly had money to invest.

Under the different treatment of their mothers, the natural relationship between the two brothers is not good. They live in the same house, and both sides have a lot of complaints about their separation. I have a good relationship with his two brothers. Every time I asked about his brother on the phone, they all said they didn't know and didn't care.

They belong to the kind of brothers who are more eager for their brothers to be poor. The reason is also very simple. Although they are brothers, their relationship is not as good as others. Some people in the countryside are red-eyed, afraid to see people with similar conditions suddenly become rich. When he is rich, more people will go to his house, and many people will listen to him and think what he said is reasonable.

On the other hand, being left out in the cold also means that he is incompetent. He is a brother, others are rich, and you are still poor. In this state of mind, it is natural to hide your brother's life and live better than yourself.

Brothers expect brothers to be poor. Is it reasonable? Since this is a strange old saying in the countryside, it naturally shows that this is not an ordinary thing, so I naturally disagree with this statement.

There is no denying that there are some people whose brothers are at odds, and out of selfishness, they can't hide that their brothers are better than themselves, but this is a minority. More is mutual support. For example, I hope my brother will always be rich, because he lent me the money I bought a house and the money I invested in the past. I can't pay him back now, and he doesn't urge me to pay back. I am afraid that if he is not rich and needs money, then I will be under great pressure. Although he is much more popular among relatives than I am, he deserves it. I won't envy him, let alone expect him to be as poor as me.

To sum up, in fact, brothers expect their brothers to be poor, just like some people in rural areas expect their neighbors to be poor. They are afraid that others will suddenly become popular and appear incompetent. To put it bluntly, they have no skills, but they are jealous.

It's just that this phenomenon happens between brothers, which makes people feel a little strange, but it won't be strange if you know that brothers like this usually kiss other people.