There is a saying in the countryside that "once every three years, you will lose your life, and once every ten years, you will get married". What does that mean?

With the improvement of living conditions, more and more expenses follow. Although we earn more money now than in the past, the necessary expenses have also increased, which is not a small expense in the management of weddings in rural areas. This sentence does exist in many areas, and it is getting worse, especially in rural areas where there are more men than women.

A funeral lasts for three years, and I'm talking about a big funeral here. This atmosphere has a long history. No matter whether you are filial or not, you should pay attention to the last journey after you leave, such as song and dance troupes, banquets and all kinds of attention. In fact, the funeral expenses are still quite high, especially in a large extent. It is a good practice that people should not be embarrassed because of their own determination, but must do better than others, which has played a great role in promoting the funeral expenses. Although we all know the concept of caring for the poor, many times, to a certain extent, we must "follow the crowd." Where someone can do it, I will do it.

One marriage is poor for ten years, and some areas are really poor for more than ten years. As a high-incidence area of bride price, Handan area here in Bambamba is the hardest hit area of bride price, with hundreds of thousands and 200 thousand, which is quite common and universal. Moreover, there are colorful and motionless additional requirements. Even if the bride price and the conditions of asking for a house and a car are so high, there are still women who are not worried about marriage and men who are worried about their heads. According to ordinary rural families, houses, cars, bride price, wedding necessities and expenses are non-negotiable. An ordinary family needs at least ten years of struggle, and it is still very difficult to get a wife.

In many cases, the village red and white Council will stipulate the funeral ceremony, which can be curbed accordingly. However, as for marriage, sometimes it is really difficult to interfere, which is also a headache. Marriage between a man and a woman is sometimes a matter of mutual consent. As for the amount of bride price, it is really difficult for others to interfere. One is willing to fight and suffer, still fighting for being beaten.