When a child is laughed at by his parents, what behaviors will affect his life?

"Look at the dirty clothes he is wearing. He looks like a country boy. "

"No matter how beautiful the schoolbag is, it can't be shameful."

"You are so ugly."

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Are you familiar with the above words? I was laughed at when I was a child. Because I am very sad and wronged, I don't want to go out to play with them.

However, I was relieved to talk to my mother later. We can't control what others say, but we just need to correct our attitude.

The phrase "Go your own way and let others say it" once became our "armor" against ridicule. Even adults sometimes find it hard to accept ridicule. What should fragile children do to face these words?

For example:

When chatting with colleagues, I heard him say, "Children nowadays will bully people very early, no matter how young they are.

My daughter is only 4 years old. When she first went to kindergarten this year, she was laughed at by her classmates and said that she was not good-looking. She came back and cried and told us that she didn't want to go to kindergarten in the future. "

Later, my colleague contacted the teacher in the class, and the problem was solved by the teacher. But at home, he also comforted his daughter for a long time and finally persuaded her to go to school the next day.

Laughter is something we all experience when we are young. Children always laugh at a companion because he is different from most people. This kind of experience will give children a great psychological blow, and even some children will leave a shadow.

In the face of such vicious words, parents should learn to persuade their children to treat them correctly and not to use evil to control evil.

0 1 Need to teach children how to deal with ridicule? Have an objective understanding of yourself. Many people only judge others on the surface, and those who speak ill of others behind their backs should not be handed over. Others will accuse you of your shortcomings to your face, which will cause the pain of the parties, so many people become negative.

But everyone has shortcomings. When a child is faced with such a situation, he should be taught to understand his own advantages. Taking one's own advantages as a source of self-confidence, naturally I don't want to pay attention to these taunts.

Children's hearts are very fragile, and they will hurt their young hearts because of a word from others. What parents need to do is to help their children become strong, not in appearance but in heart.

Many parents have the wrong view, "If they speak ill of you, you hit them." Isn't such behavior an admission of weakness? Lead an honest and clean life, improper evaluation can be ignored. We disdain to care about these people.

Arguing with people who laugh at you is the worst decision. Imagine, if your strength hits a ball of cotton and there is no response, will you continue this behavior?

Your indifference will naturally annoy those who laugh at you, and you won't do such behavior in the future. Let children turn these injuries into their own motivation and show them to those who look down on themselves. You are much better than them.

How does ridicule become the driving force for children's progress? I believe everyone has heard the story of American President Lincoln. His father is a shoemaker. When I was a child, I was often insulted and laughed at by others because of my father's work, but these did not make him depressed. On the contrary, he finally became a great man.

Only those who are defeated by others' words are truly weak. Although the child is young, as long as the parents guide him correctly, he will be able to turn grief into strength, and he will never be afraid of difficulties and go forward bravely.

Doudou is a quiet little boy who is often bullied by others in kindergarten. Every time he is laughed at, he will be unhappy when he goes home, but Doudou's mother cares about him very much.

When Doug is unhappy, he will play with him. Doudou and his mother said, "Children always laugh at me for being short and don't want to play with me."

In order to let Doudou meet more friends, his mother gave him a basketball interest class and encouraged Doudou to say, "We just grew up later and will definitely surpass them in the future."

Ignore those who laugh at you, you can play with other children. "Doudou learns basketball quickly and gets more praise from the teacher every day. He is so confident in himself that he gradually doesn't care about those who laugh at him.

The child's idea is naive, and the ridicule of his peers will bring him great trouble and need to attract the attention of parents.

Remember to enlighten the child when he is in a bad state and make him want to understand. Parents are the solid backing in children's hearts. Give them strength in time when they are weak, and children should guide them in the face of mocking parents.