What makes you feel like a social death scene?

you think you speak ill of others behind their backs? Xiaobian stayed in a company before, and the reason for leaving is because the atmosphere of colleagues is very depressed and there are intrigues everywhere. One time, three people were on duty at the weekend, and one girl never came. So another girl thought that she had asked for leave and expressed her dissatisfaction in the office. Who knows that the other party only asked for 2 hours off and just heard all the complaints. The key is that everyone seems to be in harmony at ordinary times, and suddenly the fig leaf is torn open, so the scene was once very embarrassing. Although Xiaobian didn't do anything and didn't echo it, he also felt suffocated. I believe this is also the scene of another girl's social death. ? Accidentally sent a private letter to a large group and could not be withdrawn? I believe many people have had this experience, and some simple mistakes will be made, but Xiaobian has a friend. I once accidentally sent some private content to the general group, only to find it when it was impossible to withdraw it. At this time, I could only send some expression packs to hide it, but many people found it and once became the talk of the office. The content of this news is relatively private, so it also embarrassed friends for a long time. ? Forgot to turn off the sound in the video conference? This is Xiao Bian's personal experience, and it is definitely a large-scale social death scene. Because of the epidemic, I worked at home for a while. I thought my work would be more free, but who knows that the company has multiple video conferences a day. Once, Xiao Bian thought that he had turned off the camera and sound, so he worked while talking to his friends and ate snacks. Suddenly, my colleague sent me a nail, and I realized that my voice had been forgotten. At that time, it was also very embarrassing.

There are two things about social death, which are as follows: 1. Drooling and snoring in class? Embarrassment index:? In class, many students think that the teacher is talking about "gobbledygook", especially history class and ideological and moral class, and they will feel particularly bored. ? "Xueba" can hold on for a while, but "Xuescum" can't help it. Most of them will fall asleep directly on the table. ? In the process of sleeping, they may drool and snore, and finally the snoring will affect the teacher's lecture and finally wake up in the laughter of the whole class. ? At this time, the deskmate will take your "scandal" as a handle. ? 2. Can't be answered by the teacher's question? Embarrassment index:? As long as it is a student, the teacher will ask questions in class, and when no students raise their hands to answer, the teacher will randomly call the roll. ? At this time, students who don't listen carefully in class, find people to chat around and pass notes are easy to be "caught by the teacher", just standing in their seats and unable to answer them. If they can't write them down from the blackboard, they will lose face in front of the whole class. ? At that time, not only the jokes at the same table, but also the whole class will look at you and laugh.

I experienced this kind of embarrassing scene, that is, in the process of public speech, I made a big joke because I was too nervous to say the wrong order of the sentences.

So at ordinary times, we must pay more attention to learning from professional teachers, and master the correct way of speaking and communicating with others, so that our language expression will be clearer and smoother, and it is very important to pay attention to the correct way of communication.

1. Learn to put yourself in the other's shoes

People should learn to put themselves in the other's shoes, so that they can understand each other more. When we all know how to put ourselves in the other's shoes, our tolerance will be effectively improved, and chatting will become more pleasant and efficient.

2. Talk about topics that the other person is interested in

When you communicate with others, you should talk about topics that the other person is interested in, which is what we often say. Chatting with the same topic usually makes people feel happy, and the resulting * * * woo will make people expect us to communicate more.

3. Learn to praise others sincerely

A wise person must learn to praise others sincerely, but it is unwise to oppose others. Even if you disagree with others' views, it is best not to say it in public immediately. If it is not very important, you can also not say it. Learn to praise others sincerely, and communication will be smoother and happier.

4. Learn to listen to others' opinions

Everyone has ideas to express. When you meet others who need to express their contents, you can learn to listen. Remember that when you learn to listen, you will become more and more wise and be liked by more and more people. Pay attention to what others say and listen attentively to what others say, so that communication will become smoother and we will know how to respect others.

5. Acknowledge before making suggestions

When we have good suggestions, we should first acknowledge each other's views and then make any reasonable suggestions. Only by using euphemistic suggestions can we achieve better communication results and communicate more smoothly and efficiently.