How to know if someone is striking up a conversation?

First: any conversation that asks for your personal information at the end is a pickup line!

Scene 1:

My best friend and I were shopping, and a strange man came up to us, walked towards me, and asked me

"Beauty, no?" Excuse me, do you know where there is a supermarket nearby?”

Tch, the supermarket is 20 meters away from me. I can’t see the big words and it’s so ugly. I must be here to strike up a conversation.

"There" I pointed at it and was ready to leave.

The man spoke again, "Oh, thank you so much, beauty, can you leave me your WeChat number?"

(This kind of accosting is very obvious, and the rank is very low. , if he were in the King of Glory, he wouldn’t be able to get into the two bronzes)

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Scene 2:

My roommates and I were eating in the cafeteria, and then there was a guy sitting at the next table. He looked pretty good, but he would steal from time to time. Target us.

After a while, he came over and shyly asked the best-looking roommate in our dormitory.

"Sorry, I didn't bring my meal card. Look, I haven’t met any classmates in the cafeteria. Can you lend me a card?”

The roommate generously handed him the room card.

The little brother happily took it and went to get some food, but he still sat next to us.

After eating, the boy returned the campus card to his roommate.

Said: "Classmate, how much do you have on WeChat? Can I send it back to you on WeChat? Thank you very much."

My roommate wanted to refuse, but it seemed like he was beaten. A lot of money for meals, so I gave him a WeChat ID.

The little brother immediately took out his mobile phone and added a number, and gave a 30 red envelope to his roommate.

They chatted later.

(This guy’s pick-up level is relatively high. In fact, he brought a mobile phone, so he could ask his classmates and roommates for help. The dormitory is upstairs, but we didn’t react at the moment, and we still When it comes to money, most people will want it back)

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Second: All the prefaces and subtitles do not match each other, and the awkward ending of the dialogue is also a conversation.

Two men were together, and they saw the back of a woman at the bar opposite, which was pretty good, so one of them Just went up. Of course, he didn't see the woman's front face. So the man went over with the wine glass and spoke first, "Beauty, are you alone?"

The woman turned around, her appearance was very different, the man smiled slightly, sorry, I recognized the wrong person. Then he left.

Note that when the man said the first sentence, he said that he was talking to a stranger, not someone he was familiar with. The subsequent sentence of admitting the wrong person was just to find an excuse to leave.

This kind of chatting up is more common in places like bars. Just think about their conversation skills and you will know whether it is a chatting up.

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