What's the difference between telling the truth and joking?

Truth is actually not suitable for joking. If the tone is joking, truth may become more like joking. In TV movies, we see some similar scenes, because you can look at the ins and outs of this story from a macro perspective, so you know that the joke is true, for example, sometimes a person casually says, I love you, okay? You have seen the previous story, and you know that he really loves this girl secretly, but he jokingly said that he loves others, and they will not take it seriously. Even when joking, we know that it is true. But in life, no one can grasp your story in advance. They don't know how much you love yourself in private, so when you say that you love her in a joke, she will really think that you are joking, or it is best to think that you are just testing. In this case, if you are pursuing other girls, it is not worth the loss. It's easy to miss the opportunity to pursue others because the other person can't see through it. Therefore, I think if there is any truth to be told in a joke, it is also I hate you, because the person who loves you knows that you really hate yourself.

In the past, my friend was such a person. Her husband recorded a video with him and played a small video, which was what he played. How long has it been since you said you loved me? My husband said don't say such hurtful things. You think it's a joke, but be honest. It really is! It's really hurtful for an old married couple to say this. We've been together for many years, and we have to talk about our love. I don't think it's really necessary. It's the behavior of naive people. People don't love you, they have long ignored you, and they have lived with you. What do you want people to say that they love you, not to do it?

I used to have a friend who was like this, which made her husband particularly upset. Her husband works in the company, and she asked that any phone call should be answered at the first time. As a result, at a meeting, she called, and her husband answered, quietly telling her to have another meeting and call again later. When she knew it, she unconsciously asked her husband to hang up again. Her husband was petrified at that time and didn't know what to do, but she didn't respond. She also said on the phone why she didn't hang up, whether you had another meeting or not, and her colleagues next to her opened their eyes. Her husband was embarrassed and hung up. As a result, she kept calling and calling, which made her quite unhappy. I think young people really need to grasp the scale when playing romance. Sometimes it is good for you for your husband to wave on the phone. It has to be like a TV series. Your husband can only play like this if he is the boss of an enterprise. If he is a wage earner or a middle-level cadre, it will make others very disgusted and even become a joke. Why do you say that?